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Joined: 1 Oct 2010 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 4 Jun 2011
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Posts: 68 		From: NY, NY
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Interests: classical ballet, writing, reading

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No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I have dated a Polish man and a couple of Russian men before and they all seem to be insecure with themselves. What is the reason for this? Is it because they aren't as good at hockey and other sports as they used to be? I am so sick of these wimpy, weak, childish insecure men that only care about themselves. They are getting more and more like the stupid, self absorbed western European men and Americans that I see and it is disgusting. I get a lot of offers from men, and they can't seem to understand why I am so selective. I don't even bother to explain it to them because they are not worth my time. Why can't they understand that women don't want fake masculinity and childishness?
No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

You are a wimp. You cannot call yourself a Slav if you are an insecure little child who is not a real man. I laugh at men that accuse women of what I am saying about men because no matter what I do I can never find someone who isn't somewhat effeminate and self absorbed. Men these days aren't much different than the male dancers I work with and that is sad. An insecure man blames everything on women instead of taking charge and doing what a man should.
No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

LOL, perhaps this will help.

Excuse me? I AM a princess and I should get whatever I want but feminism does not help one bit. Those video game playing pee wee boys can kiss my royal hiney. Its honestly hilarious when they ask me if I want to move in with them with their childish habits. What baffles me is that men in their early twenties who are starting up businesses and moving up in their careers STILL PLAY Xbox. I have never ever understood it, I'm sorry.

Men around Women are Men, but around Medusas and Poisoning Snakes they become pathetic weaklings - have to agree with you on this one. Women are equal to men, so take a shovel and learn to be responsible, take charge and stop XVII century BS where women were in the kitchen making a stew. Don't expect from others what you can't deliver.

Pathetic, stupid cheap Ukrainian.
No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Polish girls fall for Indian guys ? [217]

I'm sorry but nothing could replace the beautiful body and ruggedly hansome face of a Russian man when he can take care of me properly and does not act like a child. A good Russian man is like dynamite and will light me on fire with attraction. Polish men can't compete with them I am sorry to say and DEFINITELY not Indian men.
No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Polish girls fall for Indian guys ? [217]

Only if I let him. Men don't need vodka to lose control of themselves with me. All I have to do is let my hair down and do a little ballet move on top of them and they will do whatever I please but I rarely find one worthy of that ever.
No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

Polish- usually 6-8
Russian- 7-10
Ukrainian- Looks are ok but personalities are terrible and I just hate everything they stand for. Every one has that nasty volga German blood in them and you never know about it until later; they do their best to hide it and it is really annoying.
No Nonsense   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I believe you need to sit in the time out chair. If you wet your pants again there are going to be even worse consequences.

btw that is not what I mean by a good man doing what he should. I mean a man who has good judgement and morals and takes care of me when I slip and fall. I can't trust someone who is self absorbed and childish.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

no nonsense is a troll looking for attention.

I do not need reassurance from anyone I am merely coming on here to socialize with Poles.

Maybe you just like this kind of men and you choose them subconsciously

No, even men I'm not interested in that I see are like this. I can just tell. Its what I've heard about them, the way they act and carry themselelves. I usually go for the better of the lot but they are still not up to snuff. It is not what a man buys me; it is the gesture. I don't care if a man takes me out on a fancy date or buys me something expensive, the sincerity of the gesture is what attracts me. If a poor guy goes out of his way to take me on a cheap date and treats me with respect then that is far better than a man who spends a large amount of money and just seems to want to get in my pants.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I am one, I live in a Polish neighborhood.

LOL

"nasty volga German blood in them"??????

What does that mean?

I didn't know every Ukrainian had German blood in them.

Well the two I'd met both did and seemed rather ashamed of it.

With your attitude I can see why you're not getting the real action. You repel the good guys with your nose up so high. Just an observation.

lol my nose IS upturned literally but not figuratively. If I had chosen to get action from those men it would have been a big mistake.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

yep it is Allison infected with Crow's idea about the Slavic superiority:)

Who is Allison? *confused*

It does sound somewhat familiar...
But, taking it for what it's worth, it's the thread's title that is most revealing to me: "perhaps? "a little bit"? "sometimes"?
Passive aggressive much?
(don't take it the wrong way, I tend to be passive aggressive too, but it helps knowing it)

I just tend to be that way because I have a rare personality that happens to be very very afraid of conflict, it said so on a personality test I took my freshman year. It can't really be helped.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I understand you don't want loonies coming in and posting irrelevant "nonsense" as I may call it, but this is just preposterous. I respect that you want to keep trolls off the forum but I promise you I have never posted on this forum before and am only here for the sake of my interest in Poland and Polish communities in places other than my location. Btw if she was anything like me, I gurantee she was not a troll because I am nearly the very steryotype of a Polish American except for the Russian/British/Scandinavian blood in me.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Travel / From Poland With Love [20]

My friends and I watched that show one time, but I thought it was boring. Plus that guy is so ugly and skinny; it adds for a sucky show.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I just don't understand why men are so self absorbed and de-masculinized these days. It is very frustrating and I feel like Slavic men were the last to be this way because they come from a hostile enironment and they don't turn soft like the western men but even they are becoming that way now and it is very upsetting. Its like everything I grew up knowing and thinking was good seems like its over now because the men are so insecure and aren't the way they should be.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]

I am part of a Polish community in NYC (Lower East Manhattan) but it is about 45% of people with at least some influence of Polish heritage and my question is why do some people oppose the Americanization of it? Of course it interfere's with its preservation but how are we going to be recognized if we don't befriend Americans and make it look more appealing to them? We are living in their country and I don't understand why some are so sensitive and enraged about the issue. I love my way of life and wouldn't change it a bit but just think some are a little too uptight and touchy. We are going to be hated if we seem snooty and ungrateful to Americans and I don't want that. Americanization is a part of the preservation of our communnities.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Travel / From Poland With Love [20]

True, but they could make it a better show. I give it 2 1/2 stars.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I'm afraid I don't agree with you. It is not my fault what I attract. I find that my looks seem to attract two kinds of men: jocks and ones who are after my genes. The jocks do not want to handle my strong personality because they've got better things to do and I am too high maintenance for them so they get frustrated and lose interest after they find out I won't let them get in my pants so easily. The ones after my genes are insecure and they just want the girl next door, they don't want commitment and don't have anything to offer me but trouble. The good men seem to be somewhat repelled by my looks I guess, because they don't believe I could be a genuinely nice person.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

You probably need somebody stronger than you.

I figured that out all along lol that was kind of the purpose of this thread. My point was that men are so focused on themselves nowadays and not very in touch with their rough gruff macho sides because life is so prosperous that they have gotten soft and weak.

I would suggest a centaur with ski boots on...

Eww a man that skis (unless his last name ends with ski lol) no thanks that is like the Ukrainian nordic wannabe who was after my genes. People with German ancestry are so insecure and jealous when they aren't made with a nordic phenotype; its really funny but can be quite annoying sometimes.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]

Well Poland has a very bad economy (mostly the reason why we move here) and Polish immigrants are vastly different from American wasps these I think are the main reasons for the "Little Poland" type communities.

Right exactly, do your own thing , just don't slam us Americans all the time. What the hell, we're fighting a hard battle too.

Hey I never said I was in favor of slamming you; that is exactly what I was against. I recognize your struggles and I can understand them in a way.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]

Yeah brother.. chill out. I was on your side. I'm not a WASP either.. I never identified with them.

I didn't say they were bad or I didn't like them (although the men are often quite soft), I'm part wasp (not american wasp but Euro wasp) just have a very different way of life than Poles/Slavs in general. You obviously have no understanding of what I'm talking about (no offense) but you should probably just quit the conversation all together. It is a little frustrating to have to keep explaining to you.

I've met an older guy from Chicago, after 35 years living here, he barely spoke English. You have to admit that this is not right.

Oh I definitely agree with you, if someone is living here and has the right to vote they DEFINITELY need to learn english properly. This is the point I was trying to make by creating this thread.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

My (current) Sicilian girlfriend is virtually begging me to "come to bed" but the longer a man keeps them waiting the more they appreciate it............don't you think?

I WISH men would do that with me but usually by the third date they start mentioning something about the bedroom and it hurts my feelings. I do not want to have sex until a commitment has been made because I can't be sure of the man's intentions.

but I do agree.. I think her expectations are too high.. she is certainly not very
independent now , she wants a more old fashioned type of man who will spoil her
while she barks orders.

good luck.

Not exactly, some men these days would kill for a housewife that does their laundry, cooks their food, and manages the household for them. I'm sorry but all I've done with my life is dancing and its totally useless; its the only thing I'm good at though. I've been so wrapped up in that all my life that I don't see myself having much of a career, I just want to get married in the future. I'm so indecisive and unsure sometimes that I'd almost rather have the man bark orders at me. But yes, like nearly all women I love being spoiled but in no way do I demand it. If you met me in person you would realize this is true but its difficult to communicate on a forum. I am a young (not even drinking age yet) graceful woman with a slim body and elegant face and I feel that is worth more than the average joe call me arrogant but I feel its true.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

if you are a man you keep your shyt in one sock and leave that stuff off the forum.. we
seriously dont care..

Who are you talking about? I'm a little confused sorry.

They want to sleep with you. Now since that is cleared up you can begin to deal with your other issues. ... but I'm ready to gurl Ms Palermo toes as she has been extraordinarily patient. What a wonderful quality in a woman.

eew old codger sex
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

just say that you come from a more elaborate background and would like to meet someone
that is appreciative of the same things..

Well I don't mean to come across as high maintenance but I really feel like I am; every guy has told me that and I try not to be but I just want to be me. I understand a guy's need for time alone, that is not the problem its just that I don't like them doing stupid things. Him going to the bar or watching a sports game doesn't bother me one bit I just don't like things like video game playing or immature habits and decisions. Heck there are times when I've begged guys to stop calling and texting me and I want to be left alone when I am busy with something important and they just won't stop. Its very stressful to be in a relationship with a super clingy person, I do know that.
No Nonsense   
2 Oct 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

He is Danish as much as I am swedish.

That would be very little or none I'm guessing, you don't seem like you'd be Swedish.

I like the face structure. I like long noses. I like their style in hair and clothes. I like their personality. I even find all the nagging sexy :-D
Are you Polish Seanus?

We don't all have long noses, that's mostly just people with Jewish or meditteranean ancestry. In fact the people on the Polish side of my family all pretty much have nonexistant ones.