Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]

Your considered and mature comments are appreciated. And I'm not naive enough to think that one can stereotype a whole nation on the basis of one lunatic. That's the problem with men in general (including myself, I admit) - we're suckers for a pretty face. :/

Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]

I originally posted this thread.

Well, it's over. I just couldn't stand it any more.

She was suffocating me with accusations, dreadful comments about any female acquintance. She was a time-bomb; if things weren't going her way, big trouble.

I have to admit - and this is difficult to say - she was bullying me, using her 'value' as a beautiful young women to emotionally blackmail me.

It's fresh. I hurt. I miss the nice things. But I simply could not live my life with this madness - pretty on the outside, rotten to the core.

Thank you all for good advice - advice which really only confirmed my gut feelings.

Any genuinely 'nice' Polish ladies out there? I'd love to hear from you. Prove me wrong.

Thank you.

Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]

OK, I posted this thread and it seems to be unravelling.

The main point I'm picking up is that her behaviour is certainly not atypical for a Polish girl/beautiful girl/beautiful Polish girl.

I'm finding that I'm reading things I actually know already: for example, perhaps I've put up with more sh** because I am blinded by beauty (I'm a guy - you know, shallow that way). It is clear that - perhaps since coming to Britain - she has discovered physical beauty is a source of power, and that it can be used to manipulate men (me!); hardly anything new, I suppose.

It is worrying. She has brought out the worst in me (I hate conflict - she thrives on it), and has gradually eroded my faith in my previous vain hope that a physically beatiful woman can also be sweet, a little modest, pleasant, even 'normal'. Which is sad, because I do want a nice personality, shared interests and beliefs etc., but unfortunately I am also a sucker for natural beauty (not the fake tan/big t*ts/square white fingernails kind). A dilemna.

However, my gut feeling is that she has to go. She does not make me happy, and I find it virtually impossible to picture any viable future with her. Sad.

Anyway, thanks for the more thoughtful contributions. And if you are a naturally beautiful Polish girl who also thinks she is normal and pleasant, do feel free to contact me. ;)

Cheers

Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]

That was a long, considered and thoughtful answer - cheers.

In fact, the relationship is pretty emotional/passionate, and I do stand up to her (I've had to learn). I just find the whole thing tiring (and, frankly, conflict is getting boring). I think I keep the relationship going simply because I've never given up believing that there is a really nice peron in there somewhere, perhaps buried by issues from her past.

Anyway, appreciate your input.

Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]

I started the thread. I know it's a sweeping generalisation even to attempt to say that something is a Polish trait in particular - it's just that she often justifies her behaviour as being down to 'cultural differences' and so on (and of course, she's always right - what a wonderful excuse). And she has mentioned that her Polish female friend has similar problems with her Scottish partner, so I started to wonder about other Polish women. In terms of beauty being subjective, true, but I've yet to come across a man who doesn't think she is (visually) stunning. However, I'm beginning to wonder if having a model on my arm is worth all the hassle, the conflict and the stress. Is it perhaps true what Woody Allen said that great beauty drives a woman mad?