Law / Settlement permit (married to a Polish guy) [2]

i am married to a polish guy for the pass two years now and my daughter is polish,last time i went to the immigration office they told me dat i should come and apply for settlement permit,few days ago i went there to apply and they told me if i cant apply,i have to wait until am three years married with my husband.is dat true.can someone advice me on wat to do. have been living in poland almost 1 year six months