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Feeling ashamed of my Polish heritage. [237]
I can go on for hours with fellow expats about the "Polish way" and we often have each other in stitches because there is so much that is "different" in Poland and it's rarely "better".
If you want to be respected start acting in a way that deserves it.
yes, there is nothing more endearing than expats getting together and ******** for HOURS about what a horrible people these Poles are.
[quote=beelzebub] Yet another example of the Polish knee jerk "blame someone else and deflect" tactic. It's inevitable. Can't you ever just say "yeah that's something we should work on" without saying "but"?]
As soon as they do that your ego grows tenfold, and you start telling everyone how they do it back home. And back home is not really doing all that well right now.
[quote=beelzebub] to illustrate the Polish trait of taking credit for something they didn't have anything to do with was a matter of coincidence that this all occurred while Poland was in this particular stage of it's economy. With the massive amounts of credit Poles live on]
Yes just like the American recession and abysmal economic performance is nothing more than a coincidence.
[quote=beelzebub] we ARE saying is that modern Polish culture has some huge changes it will have to undertake if it want's respect.]
That is coming from somebody from a nation whose idea of culture is a fat American in shorts getting up in the morning, and hoisting the flag on his or her front lawn. You can keep your respect to yourself, it takes culture to recognize culture.
[quote=beelzebub] the massive amounts of credit Poles live on]
what claptrap, have you forgotten from which country you come from.
[quote=beelzebub] Nobody is saying Polish genes are defective...]
And I suppose that is breaking it to them really gently.
Yes the Poles are a proud people, but they are better aware of their shortcomings than anybody else, so yes they might find it a bit personal coming from somebody who hasn't got a clue what they have been through pointing it out to them.