Love / Age difference, my Polish girl is 23 and I am 39 [42]

I don't think the problem here is the age difference. I would say it's more about the lack of contact (you said you saw her only a couple of times). Maybe that's why she was being prudent about the physycal contact, you know, not being sure who you really are. If you really like her perhaps you should visit her and stay a bit longer than 2 days. That would help you understand her and it'd make her feel more trusting.

I can tell you about my own experience. I met my current g-friend (Polish) in Spain. I was working there as a teacher for foreign ppl. She was there with a big group of Poles, but I met her the night before she was going back to Poland. Of course I had seen her around the school (so gorgeous), but only the last night we talked. After that night I was so convinced that I wanted to get to know her more, that I started looking for a job in Poland. I got the job, I rented a flat and here I am after one year and 3 months :-)

The age difference btween her and me is 10 years. I'm 27 and she's 17. And the night we met I didn't even know how old she was. I didn't find out until one week before arriving in Poland. Neither of us cared about each other's age, and we still don't care.

So my suggestion is...get to know each other as much as you can, if you really want.

Hope this helps ;-)