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Posts by Barr_2009  

Joined: 11 Oct 2009 / Male ♂
Last Post: 26 Feb 2011
Threads: 1
Posts: Total: 252 / Live: 238 / Archived: 14
From: England
Speaks Polish?: No

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Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Genealogy / Jewish Roots of Poland [612]

I am yes, so you think the big nose, is not a Jewish trait? Is it a slavic trait?
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Genealogy / Jewish Roots of Poland [612]

yeah, so maybe it's a slavic trait too? Just I always read it's a very common trait of the Jews, a big hooked nose, as she has
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Well we were just friends, maybe it would be different if I had different circumstances this last year (I've been out of work much of it) but it's hypothetical. She is actually an Au-pair and moving soon, getting a new number, so I'm wondering whether to go and confront her, or just wait for her contact or just e-mail her at some point.
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

it's not money, she is seeing someone now, that's part of the reason, other is just we didn't get on great last time. I have asked real friends too, and no i'm English. See I'm anxious because last year I went out with a Polish girl who decided never to speak again, and she really meant it. So I am afraid that this one will be the same But surely they aren't clones right, they can't all be exactly the same. I'm hoping there will be room for negotiation with this one.
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

What would you guys do, if a girl you were getting on fine with said she didn't want to meet or speak again? Since it's an overreation, would you chase her, or think that she would get back to you?
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I don't care if she gets other one, just want a way to talk to her again, then whatever happens. Just interesting to observe her. Sex isnt possible right now, theres other girls, but that one has my mind a bit, for now. Now we are not talking, i don't want to chase her but if i don't she may not talk again. Just strange to fall out with another Polish.
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Shes seeing someone, maybe why doesnt want to meet me again. Its like law of averages. Had an insanely gorgeous pole in 2008 who was really better looking girl than i get usually, although bad ending. Then see one who is pretty and my type in 2009. Got nothing more than a kiss and a screwed mind, haha
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Hmm, sometimes she seems smart, sometimes braindead, she intrigues me, she's changeable like the weather. Oh and i am 30. I know, should know better, but those feelings cause havoc at any age
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Yes i believe that. Man i just wish i could show you these experiences, show you how this girl is, i can't explain it, i can't understand it, but it's something different.

King, i have definitely given more than i took. Just friends with the latest one. This girl has now decided we can't meet or talk again. A day after i bought her an xmas present. Something about me repeating things, and she cant understand me. Even tho we got on well recently. Was shocked, must have been in a bad mood. Wow she is up and down. But before she said we can't be friends, 2 days later changed her mind. Don't know what to think, maybe is serious this time.
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Sorry, her words, how polish are 'honest' therefore not thinking of others' feelings when saying or doing some things. Its made me feel bad from 2 people now. Maybe just me, i should see it as honesty
Barr_2009   
3 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

The more i think whats happening with me now, the more angry i get. I start to think if its ok in the Polish mindset to treat people badly, then it can be ok in mine.
Barr_2009   
2 Jan 2010
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

One thing i have seen is that Polish women seem to like to just make a decision to stop talking to someone, and not even talk and reason with that person. Well, i can say that for three i have known. Although time will show if its true of my current friend too. Is it part of culture or coincidence? I didnt experience it with any girl from other country.

Heh, i just read the first page more, i've met some nice ones, just they have a different mentality, god knows culture difference maybe. They seem to have a unique brand of mentalness. i had a mental experience with a pretty Polish girl and was lucky not to get her pregnant. She got her new black guy to get me to leave while grinning at me, and never spoke to me again. I can laugh now, poor guy, they have a baby and guess what, the guys American, and she wants marriage, hahaha. Must laugh.

Met a very nice girl recently, just friends but wow talk about changeable, its very tricky to talk to her. For the thread starter, remember you can fight back and be evil too. You will know more for next time, and maybe use them. Most importantly, you will feel better...
Barr_2009   
20 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

She was gorgeous, i'm not so bad but she was tall, pretty, nice figure. I suppose i will never know for sure, she seemed genuine.
Barr_2009   
20 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Funny thing is, last year i had a posh city centre flat and a nice car, and a gorgeous polish girl. I was rejecting girls, had my choice. This year, i havent got those things, cant get a permanent job, living back home, and can't get a girl, they're rejecting me, interesting.
Barr_2009   
20 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I actually havent right now, she sees that, but she doesnt know that i will have more, i didnt tell her in case it made the situation false
Barr_2009   
19 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

They're complicated creatures, i see what you mean not look at them and get to know them. I got feelings for a girl who is really cute but now i know her better, isnt quite as perfect as i thought, so now finding that hurts.
Barr_2009   
19 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Just better in every way, it seems impossible to change nature. It doesnt matter all about stunning looks, depends on how a girl makes me feel.
Barr_2009   
19 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I think the problem lays in how often the women have the upperhand, more choice, so of course they might get greedy seeing if they can find something better. Us men chase them, thats the problem. If they chased us, we would also look to find better, its human nature.
Barr_2009   
19 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I paid so often seeing this girl recently, saying she will pay more now as friends. Thing is, she tried to even tell me she only wanted to be friends since we met, despite letting me continue to pay. That way i paid for her, and she could take a swipe at my self esteem too. I smelt some bull sh1t in the air.
Barr_2009   
19 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Yeh, wouldnt want a woman in such a false way. Some might look for money, all i want is a woman, poor or not, who is able to communicate, not that easy to find!
Barr_2009   
13 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I don't think thats the case sokrates, and you could be right Justysia, I'm not going to chase anymore and consider if I want something to do with her. I do have other possibilities.
Barr_2009   
13 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Difference with you though is that i tried to be with her and she rejected it, so we werent together, i never dumped her

You both might be right tho, to avoid someone like that
Barr_2009   
13 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Thanks justysia, good to someone can recognise how biatch-like that was. Anyhow, the girl that was ignoring me sent an e-mail saying we can't be friends right, then i deleted her number, but two days later she's calling me saying she made a mistake and wants us to be friends, haha, so changeable it's incredible!