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Posts by Barr_2009  

Joined: 11 Oct 2009 / Male ♂
Last Post: 26 Feb 2011
Threads: 1
Posts: Total: 252 / Live: 238 / Archived: 14
From: England
Speaks Polish?: No

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Barr_2009   
9 Oct 2010
Love / 20% of adult Poles are single and live with Mummy! [226]

I moved out and had to move back home, due to... debt, failed relationships, lack of job opportunities meaning it is taking a long time to pay off enough debt to then move away and look for jobs. Now I've enough money but the lack of jobs continues, so it could be a while before I get a job where I want to move to and so get to move out again.
Barr_2009   
9 Oct 2010
Love / Polish girls and contraceptives [60]

The girl I was with, she didn't want to take the pill. She always wanted unprotected sex, and a few times we went too far with that, meaning she had to take the morning-after pill. I was quite close to becoming a father with her. A few months after we broke up she became pregnant to a nice black man. Basically, this girl really wanted a child.
Barr_2009   
7 Oct 2010
Love / Inside polish women's psychology and mind [109]

maybe it's just that quite a few people who had a bad experience with them flock here in the need to speak about it, otheres having a good experience don't feel a need to talk about it.
Barr_2009   
7 Oct 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

but we're not allowed to generalise, golden rule, hehe, but so there are just ways they behave, like it's the norm, for different countries.. and i see what you mean, you can see it more when they speak with their own kind, or if you know them better. At first sure everyone is trying to be nicer, and show their bad sides later
Barr_2009   
7 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

jeez, i thought it would be different these days, i'm damn surprised at this, it sounds like eye for an eye, pole for a pole. I thought it was men superior to women there though
Barr_2009   
1 Oct 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

I remember, when she was asking if I wanted to kiss her. I hadn't shown her if I liked her. She at that point, was the one who looked godamn insecure. Then in stark contrast, roll some months forward, after she had 'rejected' me. I remember one or two SERIOUS comments she made.. 'I always ignored every man first', separate ocassion... 'i'm going to ignore you, haha' and 'well anywhere you go with me is great isn't it'. It's incredible now I think about it, was this girl for real?
Barr_2009   
30 Sep 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

yeah true. She was slim, pretty, but not exactly a model. And she really did seem like a nice, innocent girl who liked art and goes to church (both true). It still confuses me now, part of me thinks she is just that. I bought her some chocolates at christmas, followed by the minor falling out, which led to her saying she'll never speak again. It seems like she just hung out with me as a backup, a shoulder to lean on, if she could not find another guy she likes more. Which she did in the end. You're right, I should have walked away as soon as she messed me around. I'm too loyal to people, and forget hard.
Barr_2009   
26 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

Well pay halves at least. I agree there, seems like being used so ask her for rent, or tell her she needs to go very soon
Barr_2009   
26 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

My opinion is, get away from her, cut her off right now. She seems not interested, cut her off as she will do it to you. If she did want you, she will make a move. DON'T pay for her drinks or do ANYTHING for her, it's just not worth it and not advantageous to you. She will use you and run, I've seen it myself, first Polish girl I met was interested and was with her for some time, but second one showed minimal interest at first but changed. Don't profess love or anything, keep her guessing. If she shows you little or it goes to nothing, keep distance totally, or get away. Let her come to you with some signals. I try to learn this lesson. Take it from a guy with experience of that.
Barr_2009   
16 Sep 2010
Love / Polish girls hard in relationships [156]

their typical bullshiit... i took a girl out for months paying for drinks, etc, then she just stopped talking
Barr_2009   
10 Sep 2010
Love / Any English guys give me advice please. Are Polish women very different to English women? [46]

hehe, best not ask me, hahaha.. but one word of advice be prepared for the end, if there is a start! If she's showing interest, great, if not, get away fast! Either with a relationship end or a non- starter, be prepared to ignore her if needs be, when things go wrong, as she just might do it to you. and never chase her will scare her away!!!
Barr_2009   
6 Sep 2010
Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [226]

But still the main thing that goes around in my head again and again is.. why 3 Polish girls in a row all tell me they like to totally stop talking to men. 2 did it, waiting on the third. No one can give me an explanation as to why I only experience that with Polish women. Coincidence? or just a tradition in Poland for women? Just they told it to me when we got along fine, so it's not about me. See, if I could just understand that, I'd feel better.

Interesting story also :) I remember back in May, I went to meet this latest girl I knew in Krakow, after meeting on the net. We were walking through a small park in krakow, and I actually walked right past the girl I knew from here in UK. She was walking with some guy. I remember how she looked at me, like she froze, like scared. But she just walked past and said completely nothing! Massive coincidence! Infact that girl was from near Wroclaw, so it's like a message from God for her, that she should face the problems she runs from, and not run away like a coward :)