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Posts by Nika  

Joined: 21 Jul 2009 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 9 Jan 2011
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Posts: Total: 507 / Live: 380 / Archived: 127 		From: Krakow, Poland
Speaks Polish?: Yes
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Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

lol, i was not trying to offend anybody,

I know you weren't, no worries :)

and there i was thinking you had a whole basement filled with men, to do with what you liked, lol.

hmmmm, it could be a way to use my basement - I shall think about it...
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

Still, I would think discretion comes into play.

definitely.
I don't like when a men asks me intimate questions or makes sexual comments, unless it's my men of course.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

don't get me wrong i was not 'picking' at older people,

aaaaaaaaaa I didn't know that people in their 30's were considered older hahahaha
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

i'm talking about younger girls 18 -25, i tend to find that in the UK more mature women talk about sex easy/freely or whatever you want to call it but the younger ones maybe not so much.

Oh OK, I don't know about the younger ones - my colleagues were in their thirties.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

in fact i think they are more open to the topic than a lot of British girls.

oh really? I always thought that British people (men+women) talk sex very freely, even if they don't know each other, I saw it at work and was a little bit shocked to be honest.

A men in PL wouldn't talk sex to a girl unless he knows her well (or is completely drunk), especially at work.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

just look out the window in the morning and when it's chucking down you know Justysia's in town ;)

ha ha ha!
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

Its not just about the sex, although your point is very much valid, its about the whole package, different culture/lifestyle etc etc even the approach to everyday living can be different. It makes it more interesting, there is more to find out about somebody than if you dated your everyday English girl

sure it's not only about it, it's just that we were talking sex with Seanus so I limited myself to this
I do agree that exploring your foreign partner's lifestyle, customs, points of view makes the relationship even more interesting. Also, it's very beneficial - you realise that some things can be done in a different, better way.

It can actually make you a better person in general.
That is why I love mixed couples, God bless them :)
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

Opposites attract, there is a certain thrill from having sex with foreigners.

totally agree!!!
There is something very exciting about having sex with foreigners - maybe it's because you don't know what to expect or you expect something really special, something different.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

This is a question for those women away from home. Do you feel more inclined to have sex due to a feeling of liberation? Being away from home brings different chances and changes ones behaviour.

I think Seanus has a point here.
The feeling of being anonymous (abroad nobody knows you or your family) as well as lack of parental control definitely influences sexual behaviour of some people. Especially if you take young, naive people.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

let me know when you are coming so that I go somewhere else and don't get the rain ;)
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

come back home! I did some 3 weeks ago and so far so good :)

And 3 weeks of sunny weather - I'm delighted!!!!!!
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

I cannot imagine anyone saying ''how can you be interested in me since I am a third wordler?''

I meant your statement about how the others look down on us. Obviously it is easier to socialise with people that don't despise you just because of your origin don't you think southern?

You don't know what milieu I'm talking about? It's funny because you think you know everything about PL people.
I mean foreigners southern, foreigners considered by the locals as being inferior, worse then them.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

ha ha! I mean it's not as beautiful as e.g. southern Europe weather but compared to Belgian deszczowej krainy it's great.
Kraków today: 20°, cloudless sky, sun all day long ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

I write polish girls have the sense that westerners and polish look down on them,that is maybe why they go for third wordlers,you write ''these guys(the third wordlers) see us as equal''.So basically we say the same.

no southern we definitely don't speak the same language. I don't categorize people as being 1st, 2nd or 3rd worlders first of all.

Second of all I don't ever have the sense that westerners (certainly the first world class in your opinion) and PL (????!!!!) look down on me and I am a PL girl (certainly somewhere between 2nd and 3rd class in your classification).

Again, an Arab/Indian/Paskistani guys don't make such stupid statements so if I had to I'd choose someone who thinks in the good/bad people categories and not the one that thinks in 1st/2nd/3rd worlders categories.

As I said before, you are not a part of our milieu therefore it is perfectly normal that you do not understand some of our behaviours.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

Then why is it like that?What is the reason?

one of many reasons is that these guys don't say such stupid things like "The sense that western world and eastern world looks down on them".

Unlike many western people, they don't have the complex of superiority you see, they don't look down on us but see us as equal.

As I said, this is just one of MANY reasons sourthern but you will never understand it as you are not a part of this particular milieu.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

I know it's silly but... I love PL weather!!!!
I just came back from Belgium where it rains 360 days/year and I just can't get enough of these sunny days - I was so happy to wake up this morning and see sun coming through my window, beautiful!!!!!!!
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

you must have some secrets to share,

secrets must stay secret - bez spóły ;)

The sense that western world and eastern world looks down on them?

looks down on them????!!!!! Maybe in your imagination.
If you think that this is why PL girls go out with Arabs/Pakistani/Indian guys than it means that you know absolutely nothing about social relations my dear southern.
Nika   
19 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

Girls, please rate sex out of 10. Let's keep this on topic.

yes Sir!

Sex with someone you love: 10.5 (important, very important).
Nika   
18 Sep 2009
Love / What do Polish Guys Like Women to Wear? [64]

Because you only posted 2 quotes without any comment, njc. Well, that's what came up on my computer anyway, amigo.

came up the same way on mine!
Nika   
18 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

if she says 'well aren't you going to get me a drink then??' after we have been talking for five minutes, i'm afraid that is a bad sign!!!!!

it's a VERY bad sign - if it happens then that's when you turn around and run.
A well educated girl would never ask such a question. Not only is it rude but also humiliating to ask a guy that you've known for 5 minutes to buy you a drink - I'd rather die of thirst ;)
Nika   
18 Sep 2009
Love / What do Polish Guys Like Women to Wear? [64]

Spend a bit more and get a good make rather than the cheap, nasty imitations lol......

I wouldn't want them even for free :)
Nika   
18 Sep 2009
Love / What do Polish Guys Like Women to Wear? [64]

They are hardly sexy but they are practical.

hardly sexy? They are all the contrary of sexy! They look so much like Relax shoes - the most popular winter shoes in communist PL.

They will make any foot look like elephant's.
Nika   
18 Sep 2009
Love / What do Polish Guys Like Women to Wear? [64]

Why do you hope they do?

I hope because I find them ugly, they just make me think of some Eskimo shoes and I can't believe that people pay a lot of money for such an ugly thing...

My last boyfriend thought they looked cute..he wasn't Polish but English-Cypriot...maybe Polish guys are way behind the rest of Europe?

since when liking Ugg boots determines whether or not you are behing Europe - what a silly statement....

I mean, if women have to go around looking like high class escorts or something?

Another silly statement. I don't like Uggs, prefer high-heels and nice clothes but I'm not some kind of high class escort!
Nika   
18 Sep 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

does that mean men are condemned to slappers, slags, gold diggers and sluts when we go to a bar??

no you are not. I disagree with Amaranta - it's not like only sluts and gold diggers go to bars and nice girls go to work and crochet in their spare time!

When a men meets a girl in a bar than I guess it's a question of intution to tell if she's nice or not. If you feel that there is something wrong with the girl you just don't continue the conversation with her, don't buy her drinks etc It's just like when you meet anybody new - the person makes either good or bad impression. If it's a good one then you will socialise with the person, maybe become friends and if it's bad you just don't...
Nika   
10 Sep 2009
Life / 3 reasons why you hate Poland. [1049]

None of the above are exclusively Polish traits.

God bless you OsiedleRuda.
You are one of very few people on this forum that understand that...

after all you should be open to some critics, ore you shouldn't read it at all.

Critics are fine but not such rubbish like you've said about insurance in PL. Car insurance is mandatory in PL my dear. Also, you can get any kind of house insurance if you wish. If you don't know how to get it it's not Poland's fault but yours....

living abroad mostly of the time,

in your previous post you said you lived abroad all your live so make up your mind.
Nika   
10 Sep 2009
Life / 3 reasons why you hate Poland. [1049]

if you are in a car accident, ore having housebreaking, etc you dont have any insurance that pays ore covers for your costs ore loosings. if you are in a car accicent u usally deal with it btw the persons involved,

where did you get this rubbish from?
This was true maybe 20 years ago but not today.
And if you've never lived in PL how come you have so many reasons to hate it - you should avoid talking about things that you have no idea about, it is not credible.

You should change your name Kasia - go by Kate.....or is your Polish name the only thing that you like about PL and PL people?