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PlasticPole   
25 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Okay, Seanus, there are exceptions to the rule. Seanus are you saying there are no rich, good looking people in Poland? Good looking people can have lousy jobs, true. They can be in debt.

Maybe there's misunderstanding. My premise is that being good looking or beautiful isn't a hindrance to success, it can help one succeed. It doesn't mean every good looking/beautiful person is going to be wealthy. Life is easier for people who are good looking, generally.

And as for the blond bimbo theory...there's a study that says good looking people are more successful, generally. There's also a study that says taller people have more success too.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

So, PP, how about discussing those Polish women who struggle?

This has nothing to do with how attractive they are. It's always better to be attractive than not no matter what. Being unattractive makes things that much worse.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Whats wrong with being good looking?

I never said anything is wrong with being good looking. It makes life generally easier. The dilemma is when things become some sort of contest where no one is ever good looking enough. Where does one draw the line? There's always going to be someone who is more attractive than someone else and there's a point where it's more a matter of subjective opinion.

People generally agree on what is classified as ugly and what is considered beautiful and it's better to be on the "beautiful" side of the line even if one isn't the most beautiful of all.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

I was making observations about beautiful women. Seanus you have to admit women are luckier if they are beautiful no matter where they are. Beauty is something prized among women and their admirers.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

There comes a point when beautiful/handsome people are judged on character.

Character matters but if you are ugly with a good character people take you for granted more or don't care. Something has to allow you to get your foot in the door and that something is often the way you look at a job interview or when someone sees you for the first time. That's more important to people. They want good character and physically attractive too.

Being good looking is about PR.

Exactly. PR is what most women do well anyway. Their beauty facillitates their PR skills. It's easier for an attractive woman because people see her and they want to talk to her and get to know her better. She needs a good personality to go along with it but the physical appearance is what people see first. It's the first conclusion they reach about a person. They see someone (especially if this someone is a woman) she is ...ugly, pretty, fat, thin, gorgeous, etc. Some people have a prejudice against unattractive people and they don't want to talk to them, be seen with them, get to know them, listen to their point of view.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

What good job can you take without a degree and qualifications?

Being good looking gives one the confidence and the drive to get the qualifications needed and they get the rich husbands because men want a good looking wife. Beautiful women can have anything they want.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Most beautiful people get lower grades.

Lower grades don't have as much to do with success later in life. A beautiful woman can get a good job later on people want to do her favors, help her out while ugly ones no one cares as much about.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

It just seems to me you have a problem with good looking people, are you that self aware?

I don't have a problem at all with good looking people. I am just observing reality and what goes on. The good looking ones who are well groomed, clean, wearing decent clothing get farther in life.

She was discovered a long time ago, she used to make music singles for charities.

But she wasn't as famous internationally as she is now.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Many Polish women are very sexy but work as secretaries.

Most want their secretaries to be good looking.

Seanus, how am I winding people up? I did not make this topic. This topic was most likely made by a man while staring at a picture of a gorgeous Polish woman.

PP, do you know Susan Boyle?

A singer and not too attractive, overweight and frumpy but look at how long it took her to get anywhere, Seanus.

If she were much more attractive with the same talent she would have been discovered long ago.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

I see plenty of good looking people going to college and plenty of ugly people working as cashiers at wal mart, lol. I sure don't see good looking people working there.

dtaylor I do not believe for one minute that beauty and looks is a bad thing, for a woman. I don't know about men because I am not one. What woman is not helped along by beauty? What woman if given the choice would choose to be ugly?
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

It's starts early and shapes their personalities, their mentalities. Everything. They become the family favorites. They become the ones who expect to get their way. The go getters who have the confidence to go after what they want. It's a scientific fact the better looking the person the more money they make, the better their lifestyle, etc.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

I know people like that here and they have the jobs and money, lol. Seanus, I am not the one who writes the rules so why blame me? Look around and you will see. The good looking people are the ones with the easy lives, jobs, moneys, promotions, qualifications, etc etc etc ect ect.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

I am talking about evenly matched. Good looking men and women are often assumed to be friendlier, more sociable and better at getting along with others. Team players. That's a plus in favor of the good looking candidate when an employer has a short amount of time to figure out which one he wants to hire and only has the resume, superficial appearance and interview to go on...
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Two with the same qualifications and experience. There can only be one hire, right? So if there's two that are evenly matched except on appearance why would a guy give an ugly woman the job?
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Look, there are some job interviews where there aren't any pretty candidates.

This is when a woman is being considered for a job. Everyone knows the good looking chick gets the job if the only two applying are an ugly one and a pretty one with the same experience and skills.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

they will choose the one with the know-how and skills to do just that.

ha-ha-ha-ha

They want the one who looks good because they know the one who does will go futher in the PR department.

If you are a man hiring a woman you are going to hire the attractive one. If you say that looks don't matter you would be lying to people.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

these people are shallow... do you associate with them?

I don't associate with them because I think shallow ones are boring but they are everywhere and they will look down on someone who isn't well groomed, clean, and has fairly nice clothing. Not expensive clothing, but stuff that matches and is flattering.

Yes, some care of course. What's the use in looks when they don't have the right skills for a job?

Seanus I know where you are coming from and I agree with you HOWEVER most do not agree with us and they make a huge deal out of appearance. If they don't like what they see when they first spot you it can RUIN your chances. Let's say ten people have the same skills but only two or so are attractive and well groomed. They are going to go with the ones who are well groomed and attractive and consider them for a position first. I didn't write life's rules, I just observe them :)

So don't blame me for the way reality is.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

In America, maybe.

Seanus do you actually read the posts on PF???
People do care about how others look. Why you think so many people say "Polish women are the most beautiful in the world"??? It's because they want a good looking woman. Otherwise they wouldn't bother typing those words. Seanus, you can tell yourself lies all you want, but that's all they are: lies. People care most about looks everything else is secondary to that. Looks are often all that matters to most.
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

You can be dressed in the most beautiful clothes but have a horrid personality and stink like a rat.

I am not talking about the personality, I am talking about clothes and first impressions are what matters most anyway. People make up their minds about you in the first five minutes after first seeing you so better make it good, Seanus ;)
PlasticPole   
24 Jun 2009
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

You are right, Southern. Hair is important too. Hair and clothing both. Men should always have longer hair. Bald looks bad on men. Men and women both should always pay close attention to how their hair can compliment their overall look.
PlasticPole   
17 Jun 2009
UK, Ireland / Mercy flight for dying Polish woman living in the UK [21]

For so long, people have been just ticks on a piece of paper and this example gives us hope.

Seanus, that isn't true. People all over the world do nice things for others every single day. Saying we are all reduced to "ticks on a piece of paper" status is overdoing it a bit.

Still it's cool someone does something nice for another.