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shewolf   
18 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

k so whats a best way to avoid conflict and handle a situation nicely when i confront the bloke who just found out that i been seeing her girl.

Lucas, if she goes out with you, she's the kind of girl who cheats on her boyfriends and she'll do the same thing to you. Some guy will come along, get her number, she'll see him behind your back...do you think she's worth it?
shewolf   
17 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

I don't know many who would not have called you.

I thought it was because he really like me. We went out and the relationship lasted for a long time. Are you saying women don't call you back even if they really like you and want a lasting relationship with you?
shewolf   
17 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

They probably never called you because they didn't like you. I don't know. All women are different. I've gone up and given my number to a man and he called me.

I like Lobo's advice, to spend more time talking to her. If you hardly know her at this point, there's always a chance she'll say no because women are not all alike. Some will say yes. Some will say no. But if she knows you better, chances are higher that she'll give it to you. That's just my opinion.
shewolf   
17 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

why wont u give it to a guy if he shows interest in u

I see a phone number as my personal space. And I don't give it out to whoever. If I really like a guy, I don't mind giving it to him. But if I don't, it places me in an awkward position. Maybe she's different. Maybe she'll be glad to give it out to a guy she hardly knows.
shewolf   
16 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Lucas, are you serious? I don't know if you're just joking but in case you're serious, I think you should ask a woman's advice. My advice is to write your phone number on a piece of paper and give it to her. Just say "here's my number if you ever want to call me. It would be great to hear from you."

This is the best move because you won't force her to make an awkward, unexpected decision by asking for her phone number. Whatever you do, don't act like you're not interested because she'll believe you.
shewolf   
5 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

There was an oldish man flirting with her today in work.She seemed to enjoy the attention. It pissed me off no end but its a valuable lesson I guess.

Yeah, women are flattered when men flirt with them. She might respond in the same way if you do the same thing.
shewolf   
5 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

What about first impressions? If you feel the first meeting didn't go down well is there still hope?

Not every relationship starts out as love at first sight. I was reading about a married couple yesterday and the woman said she didn't even like him at first.
shewolf   
4 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Thats the thing, when I spoke to this girl today, she seemed totally unfazed by everything I said, totally confident and a bit cold. She didn't seem nervous at all and that is why I have the feeling that she is not keen on me.

Did she ever notice you before? The nervousness wouldn't come along until after she has met you and has decided she likes you. Sometimes that doesn't happen right away. As you said, women find it easier to talk to men they don't have feelings for but that changes when they do develop feelings.
shewolf   
4 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

I would however not recommend that you try to impress a Polish girl with your knowledge of Poland. After all you can only look foolish as she knows a lot more than you.

On the other hand, she might like it and feel flattered because you're so interested in something that is so much a part of her.
shewolf   
4 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

It's been frustrating and I've found myself wondering, 'why can't I act like that all the time'

Women have trouble talking to men they have feelings for, too. If a woman likes you, chances are she's just as nervous as you are. I once felt so nervous because a guy that I liked came up and talked to me that I started to feel lightheaded, like I was going to pass out.
shewolf   
4 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

i know many men who are not desperate and they go at least once a week to brothel

Have you ever seen the show Cops? They always arrest married men who have families for trying to pick up prostitutes.

However I don’t think women normally go for shy types, unless they are a bit older… but there are exceptions.

I agree that talkative men can get women easier. And their conversations don't have to be profound. Just say something, anything, and you'll be a step ahead.