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Posts by osirion  

Joined: 20 Jun 2008 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 28 Jul 2008
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Posts: Total: 34 / Live: 33 / Archived: 1 		From: Baltimore, Maryland
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Interests: French Literature

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osirion   
20 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

Ok, this might seem really stupid, but I am an Asian (Thai) guy living in Greenpoint, Brooklyn. There are always many beautiful Polish girls around. However, I've lately been struck by a girl who works part time at this deli that I sometimes drop by for some food.

She is absolutely adorable and it seems she always perks up with a smile when talking to me. (I don't say much. I just order the food, pay, smile and leave.) I find myself thinking about her quite often lately. Whenever I walk by, I peek in to see if she's there.

Do I have a shot at all if I ask her out? How should I go about asking her out? Should I ask her to the movies? Dinner? What kind of conversation is appropriate when I'm buying stuff at the deli? I feel like I'm in high school again with this "crush" but I'd really love to get to know her.

What do Polish girls think of Asian guys? I don't know any Asian guys who are dating Polish girls. My co worker is Asian and she dates a Polish guy but he does not really hang with the Polish community.

Oh gosh her smile.....help!
osirion   
20 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

Is it trying to hard if I say something to her in bad Polish? Thanks for your comments guys! I have no idea why I'm so intimidated. She seems like the sweetest person ever and I've had success with beautiful woman in the past.

The other ladies that work the deli always serve up with a frown that seems to ask me..."what are you doing in here?" She sees me and lights up. I don't know why! I'm definitely not handsome and more on the chubbier side. Maybe it's wishful thinking haha.

Sigh...
osirion   
20 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

SeanBM - I think I'll try to work up the courage...I'll keep you guys posted

PolishgirlTX- thanks for the tip...but how do I pronounce that properly? Or should I just say it in English?

southern - um...that's not really an issue but I doubt i'll get far mentioning it.
osirion   
23 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

sigh..the wait really sucks. I think she only works once a week.

Mash pyinkna oshey....you have beautiful eyes?

sweet.

:D

OK...I hope she's working today...wish me luck people...sigh...here goes nothing...
osirion   
25 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

man it's been years since i've felt this nervous. might as well get it over with.

sausage - yes they do. i think all of it is polish. not the usual brooklyn bodega.
osirion   
26 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

I wasn't always self aware. I took some time off to take some film classes in Australia. I'll never forget walking into the studio on my first day. On the right side sat the white Australians. To their left sat the white Americans. On the far left sat all the Asians and the other international students. I'm sure it wasn't really anyone's intention but it does say a few things. Sad really. Everyone got along but that's how our production groups were formed.
osirion   
26 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

SeanBM: Have you asked her out yet? any updates?

Not yet. I haven't seen her since last Thursday. I think it's the only day she works. So maybe today's the day.

The question is: is she frelndly only with you or with other customers too? Maybe she is just a friendly woman. Sometimes that might be taken the wrong way.

I'm sure she's friendly with everyone. She just seems like a sweetheart. I don't think she gave me any special attention. Then again, I'm rather guarded and reserved so I would probably dismiss it as nothing if she did. So I'm not taking anything the wrong way. I just know that the last two times I've seen her, I walk away with images of her smile and beautiful eyes lingering in my thoughts.
osirion   
26 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

I am a bit thick when it comes to seeing that someone fancies me, always the last to know

I remember a few years back in a club. This girl I was interested in sits down in front of me, closes her eyes and leans in. I gave her a peck on her forehead and probably lost my chance forever. I am still clueless.

Where are you thinking of brining her? I might be jumping the gun here, are you going to ask her out or just introduce yourself today?

STOP PRESSURING ME! jk.

I have no clue really. I'll walk by and see if there's anyone else working with her. I definitely won't make a move if the frowning old lady is there. I might not say a thing if there's another young girl there. Hopefully I'll catch her alone so I can just ask her out for dinner or a movie.

I guess.
osirion   
26 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

Sorry.... ha ha ha but I think some people on this forum could give you a good idea what a Polish girl would like for a date. I'd ask polishgirltx first.

She gave me some tips but I think I'll skip the coffee...

PolishgirlTX wrote: ask her to grab a coffee with you...(----> then a movie, dinner, picnic, walk in the zoo, dinner with breakfast, then a road trip, then meet your parents, then meet her parents, ask her to marry you, then wedding and a honeymoon...then kids ...) as simple as that...

osirion   
27 Jun 2008
Love / Asian guy in love with Polish girl (any chance?) [125]

You know there are beautiful girls everywhere I go. I work in Soho and we have models walking in and out of our building every single day. Summertime only increases the eye candy. There are lots of cute girls in my neighborhood as well. Hipsters and Polish girls sunning themselves in the park a block away.

But it's just this one girl that my mind drifts too...