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sapphire   
1 Jun 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

They are always hidden under a small cloth protuberance.

not if you are a nudist.

The women do not have good long distance sight.This is your advantage.

i love this gem.. wonder where this stat. came from?.. what is the percentage of women who are short sighted compared to men.
sapphire   
30 May 2007
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

maybe you mean szmata?

doesnt this mean slut as well????
sapphire   
30 May 2007
Food / Types of CHEESE in Poland [150]

it is if you are a hungry mouse... or live in an English village with a strange cheese fetish.
sapphire   
27 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

well done for speaking to her Ken. I'm sorry it didnt work out the way you hoped, but as you said at least you know the score now and you can move on emotionally.. Im sure you will meet someone nice soon and put this one down to experience. Good luck.
sapphire   
25 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

ok well maybe not.. orlando bloom is a bit girly looking for me.. prefer a rough type like Vin Diesel... oh god it must be friday afternoon.....aaaaaaaaaaargh. Please post some more of your lovely descriptive comments to cheer me up.

Maybe have a drink before you have a go at anything.

i tried that before a driving test once.. didnt do my any favours at all.. I hit a stationary vehicel and didnt even notice.
sapphire   
25 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

ok thanks. I did do a skydive once and that scared me.. but dont think it scarred me for life... deep breaths and a sense of humour help me get by.. I have quite a laid back attitude to presentations and if something goes wrong I just joke about it and that seems to go down well.
sapphire   
25 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

szarlotza.. what if you cant think of anything specific in your past that scared you? I dont like public speaking either, but cant think of such an incident.

Ken, you are very good at putting your thoughts down in writing, but fear the actual confrontation.. so why dont you email her?.. could start off with a bit of jokey banter, working up to asking her out..lots of colleagues share flirty banter by email in the office, brightens up the day sometimes.. anyway just a thought. is she going out with the flash bloke now?.. sorry must have missed that bit
sapphire   
24 May 2007
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

pina colada.. exactamente... salud.
sapphire   
24 May 2007
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

maybe you mean szmata?

means rag or worthless person

doesnt it also mean 'slut'?

what is pineapple in spanish?

Pina - prounounced peenya... but I can see why you are asking as you would think it would be ananas
sapphire   
24 May 2007
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

ananas

what does that mean in Polish? In Spanish it means banana!
sapphire   
21 May 2007
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

What I write is common knowledge for people who have some experience.

in your opinion! I must be lucky enough never to have met a man with experience such as you then. Perhaps you are just not portraying yourself in a good light?
sapphire   
17 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

sorry, having some probs. with my log-in. Well I am not advocating giving to anyone who asks.. ideally you would have more than a 5-10 min chat before giving him your number, so you should have some idea if he is OK or not and if you like him.. then he calls and if you decide you are not interested you either tell him then or make an excuse. If he calls again you will recognise his number and dont answer.. after a few tries he will get the message and stop calling.
sapphire   
16 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

this is off topic so feel free to delete.. but its making me so mad that Southern continues to generalise about other nations whilst refraining from telling us where he comes from in case anyone dares do the same...sorry ken for putting it here, but sure it will be deleted soon
sapphire   
14 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Ken I think you are need of boosting your self esteem.. look after yourself and find happiness within and everything else will follow.. you cant pin all your hopes on others.. many people think they will be happier in a relationship, but its usually not the magic cure you hope for.. you have to cure whatever problems you have yourself before you can find happiness with someone else. Sorry I know its easy to say,but small life changes may help you reach your ultimate goal. I dont know what your job is and if you are happy in it, but it sounds like you could do with some kind of change in your life.
sapphire   
14 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

I can't compete with that, I feel really sh*t.
I had been feeling really positive about life and the future but now...I don't know.

Chin up Ken.. you are way too good for her.. believe me that there are plenty of women out there who dont like flashy guys and couldnt care less about cars and money.. sadly maybe she isnt one of them. I know its hard, but try to forget her and look for someone who is worthy of your affections.. Good luck to you, you seem like a nice genuine person and Im sure you will meet someone far better than her soon. Remember life is what you make it and not worth wasting time pining after somebody who isnt interested in you.
sapphire   
12 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

I know from my own experience that language barrier may cause loads of problems in the future. you suddenly find youself with someone you don't really know. If you know what I mean

very true. I had a similar experience... but that can also make it fun as its a long process of getting to know one another..the only problem is when you dont like what you find at the end of it and have invested a lot of time.
sapphire   
12 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Ken.. I have been reading this thread with interest and wondered what the latest developments are? It doesnt sound like the signs are good so far.. and of course she knows you fancy her and she has most likely told her mates at work.. sorry to say this, but Im sure its true. Please dont listen to those mysogynist prats Southern and Lobo.. their so called results may possibly get you sex, but I doubt they would lead to a lasting relationship with a woman of any intelligence.. and it seems that you would like more than a quick romp with her.. although I guess that would be better than nothing. I suggest you lighten up.. abandon all strategy, try and make her laugh and flirt with the other girls too, then it wont be as intense for her and she will see you as a fun, happy go lucky guy... otherwise you might have the opposite effect than that which you are hoping for. Also, dont put all your eggs in one basket.. consider other women too.
sapphire   
11 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

i have to say I agree with Moire on this one.. a good looking girl of 22 working in a nightclub in a foreign country is much more likely to be out for a good time with as many man as possible and take them for what she can get than to be wanting a serious relationship with a man in his 30s. She was clearly playing you and talking of love in order to get something from you.. sorry mate, but move on and never look back.. and as someone else said, if its a relationship you want, then dont base it only on looks.
sapphire   
9 May 2007
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

My sister in law is polish,29 years old and ugly like sh*** but she thinks she's God's gift to men wich makes it quite embarassing...

LOL. well its great to know they are not all stunning!
sapphire   
3 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Ken Noddy, dont doubt yourself.. no-one is out of your league, imho if anything would put her off it would be more likely to be your lack of confidence rather than your looks.. although having said that some women find shyness endearing, definitely better than arrogance. Personally I dont think you should ask her outright if she is seeing anyone, that would put me off more than anything.. there is nothing wrong with trying to build a friendship first and you will then find that out naturally... although if you act very awkward around her then she will probably be aware that you fancy her. I dont know what kind of place you guys work, but she must have to speak fairly good English to work there.. no?

As for men and women being only friends.. my best mate is a guy and I have many platonic male friends, which I think is very healthy... sadly my bf doesnt see it in quite the same way.. but hey, thats Polish men for you. Anyway, whatever happens I wish you good luck.... believe in yourself and even if you dont get what you hoped for this time, I'm sure you will soon find someone lovely who reciprocates your feelings.. .Polish or not... but slagging off the local girls probably wont help.
sapphire   
23 Apr 2007
USA, Canada / CULTURE SHOCK! (of my Polish finance who visited the US) [210]

personally I feel culture shock every time I go to the USA.. and I live in London! everything is just too damn big there. I didnt even know how big a block was, til I tried walking 8 of them..