Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Merged:My Polish guy is shy and prefers to wait - advice needed

OK, I have known this great Polish guy since March and we have really hit it off. I know he sees us more than friends (a girl can tell!!) and I know that he is buying me a ring (for what I don't know yet!!). We both work with another Polish girl who is a great friend to us both. She tells me that he has fallen in love with me and has 'plans for my heart'. I have told him that I love him, when I asked him how he feels, he blushes and says I am his 'best friend'. He is going home to Poland in November and I think he is coming back in January - he says he will tell me then!!!!!! If he does feel the same, why wont he tell me now????? I know he hasn't had a girlfriend before and he's so gorgeous (well I think so anyway :.) - is he just shy and why the wait??????? Is it the Polish way of dating - maybe friendship first - HELP!!!!

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Well, I've spoken to his mother on the telephone quite a few times (in Polish and English) so I doubt very much that he has a wife (I hope not anyway). I am going to stay with him and his mum and dad in March so I will get to meet his family then. Just wish he's bl***y say something - this is very hard :.) I know men are all differenct, he is such a gentleman and I love him to pieces, I guess he's worth the wait - btw - I'm ten years older than him too :.,

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Ronek - when I finally get my hands on him - I have so much to teach him - can't wait!!!!

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Hi Poshnpink - only joking!!!! I am probably more shy than he is - I wish I could just tell him to close his eyes and plant a kiss on those lips of his. Hi Krysia, this sounds like sense to me - he has told our mutual Polish friend that he wants to take things 'slowly' - I just wish he could explain it to me. I hate to keep getting told things about his feelings from someone else. He has gone home to Poland for a few days and on the day he left he stood in front of me as though he was going to kiss me and then ran away!!!!! It was so cute :.) x

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Thanks everyone for your replies. I really love to send him SMS's but I know he doesn't really like sending one back - I try really hard to write them in Polish too - given up using Poltran - I once sent him a txt saying - 'I am bored, what are you doing' - which translated as I am crazy - what are you baking! - lol - I will just have to be patient - he is so lovely - I really hope it works out - I am even prepared to move to Poland with him.

Sent him an SMS this morning (in Polish) saying I was really missing him - due to ring him tonight - God, I can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Hi everyone, Well, then 'phone call didn't go very well - we spoke for about two minutes and the it cut off - I tried to get through again but no luck. He never says much on the 'phone anyhow - the few times I have 'phoned him in the UK he has panicked and passed it on to Elzbieta!!!!! Thanks for all the advice, it's a waiting game. I'm picking him up at Liverpool Airport and Monday - I might tell him to close his eyes as I have a surprise for him - and then kiss him!!!!!!! lol xx

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Well, he has been offered a really good job in Poznan so will probably not be back in January. He keeps asking me what I think????? What do I say???? I am happy for him but not for me!!! :.)