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Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]
I have a story about a Polish man but I want to say that every person is different and it's not about the culture. But since you asked, I will tell you this story so grab a hot chocolate and read it.
Once upon a time, my classmate, Molly, and I went to Fabric, a club in London near Elephant and Castle. We took the tube from King's Cross to Elephant and Castle. Molly was wearing some high heels and makeup. I do not remember what I was wearing.
Molly and I were standing near the bar. All of a sudden, I saw a good-looking person standing there. Therefore, Molly and I approached him. "Hello," I said. We talked to each other. Then I told him that he was good-looking. Then we sat next to each other. It turned out that the guy's name was Tomasz Maternik. Molly and I met another guy there too and we became friends with him, and his name was Brian. He was a happy and friendly person.
Tomasz and I held hands and kissed. Then Molly and I rode the bus back home rather than the tube because it was getting late and the tube doesn't always run very late, you see.
After that, Tomasz and I texted and e-mailed each other. He wrote me flirtatious things in the e-mails, such as he asked me if I wanted to go to Paris, where he was on a business trip. However, later on Tomasz mentioned that he had a girlfriend. Therefore, I didn't talk to him any more.
Later on, I was at a club named Tiger Tiger in Piccadilly Circus with some girlfriends of mine. I saw a handsome guy there named Klodian Bukaci. We exchanged phone numbers and went to Regent's Park, where we walked around. We also had some biscuits and orange juice at a cafe. I thought that Klodian was going to be my boyfriend; however, he just wanted to get into my pants. That upset me, so I took Tomasz's offer to go to Paris.
When I got to Paris, I phoned Tomasz and said that I was there. We ate some food. When he was working, I went to the Bois de Boulogne and a museum across from the hotel, l'Etoile Meridien. We went to a club named Rex and walked back to the hotel. We saw l'Arc de Triomphe. I borrowed Tomasz's cell phone and took his girlfriend's number out of there and I got her Skype while he was at the gym because I felt that she should know that Tomasz was being inappropriate. I had a bad taste in my mouth about the whole thing and had made a bad judgment call when I was upset about Klodian Bukaci.
Later on I told Agata (Tomasz's partner) about it via e-mail and she viewed the e-mails which Tomasz had sent me, but they were still together.
Another time, I slept with a Polish man named Piotr because he was handsome, and later I heard that he had a wife and children, but I'm not sure if it is true, because I do not understand why he would not be living with them if he had a family.
Anyways, that's my story, but Single Female honey, not every man will be the same in a culture, but that's my story since you asked me. I have another experience with an American man as well who was married, so it can happen in any culture. Also, my friend's father cheated on her mum, and he is a Chinese. My advice is you are right, it is inappropriate for him to flirt with others when he is still with his girlfriend, so you should try not to date him, my sweetheart. My dog and I wish you a nice day and we love you very much <3
