Love / Dating a Polish guy. Do they cheat and have multiple women? [50]

Merged: POLISH GUYS CHEAT - IS THIS COMMON IN POLAND?

I know this question sounds stupid,but cant stop asking-because my friend told me that Polish guy tend to cheat on their gf or wife(She has been in Poland for 3 years for study).Is it true? I doubt that you can tell about it because of nationality.She also said divorce rate of polish married couple is high too.Her friends who married to polish guy get divorce a lot because he cheated.

I do not like having such preconception that is why I decided to ask here,where I can hear many voices of poles.By the way we are Japanese,our divorce rate is getting higher,one married couple in 3 married couple get divorced these days.

Thank you for reading :)

Love / Dating a Polish guy. Do they cheat and have multiple women? [50]

Thank you for your reply,Wulkan :) I am kinda relieved to hear that,because I am moving to Poland and there would be possibility I would married to Polish-I dont take her seriously anyway,just wanted to make sure I am right.dziękuję!!

Love / Dating a Polish guy. Do they cheat and have multiple women? [50]

This rank does not mean couples in these countries are good or bad,they just can not choose "divorce" because of religious reason even if they wanted to?

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Merged: To be in love or not to be? He is so shy. Polish guy - Asian girl.

Hi,
I am kinda embarassed to talk about it here.
Girls just want to be listened-my friend said to me,which is true,,that's why I am writing..

First of all,I work in some city in Poland,and getting attracted to a guy at work.Technically speaking I am his boss(I am an Asian btw).

I like talking with him,I secretly wish if he would ask me out.But I guess he wouldn't,because he is too shy,even though I wrote I like talking with this guy,but he never talks to us(me and other staffs)first.So we always have to talk to him to make him talk.But once he starts talking,he makes funny jokes a lot,always I laugh until I cry or having pain in my stomach.

I work in small city,there are some Asian girls who study at some universities,but never seen any Polish guy-Asian girl couple.If he would'nt ask me out,I would love to...but I don't think it is good idea,because it is small city,someone we know could find us and could be harmful for work...I think he also likes me,but I have no idea how I should deal with this situation,like stepping forward or giving him up.

Poles here stare at me so hard,so if I walk with him,they will might look at us harder lol.
somehow,I have noone to talk about this,so I posted here.
I like him,I want to know more about him..I am 29(but he said I look like 22,yey!),he is 21...am I too old for him? lol

Thank you for reading,would be happy if you leave any comment.:)

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

To cms
Thank you for your advice.Today I wanted to ask,and had good chance,but I was too scary to ask...Because I think it is too challenging for me,I've never had date with a guy from work,even had a coffee...

Is it not embarasing to walk with asian girl for polish guys? I think I don't have confident myself,because polish girls are much taller than me,more beautiful than,they have better propotion than mine...

How can I have guts to ask to him...Help me :/

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Wulkan
I think I have-but somehow I will try next time I see him.

Marsupial
I will try,I want to be clear how he feels.

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Hi,
I asked him for dinner,he accepted.We are having dinner together tonight.It took me 2 hours to ask him,even we were talking..I was almost about to give up,because was too scared if he turned my offer down..

Somehow,I did it,I am proud of mysel...even for small thing :)

Thank for people that gave me advices.

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Hi everyone.
Sorry to announce this,we didn't go dinner.
I will explain the reason.
On this monday,he had work,I was on dayoff.So I passed by his workplace on purpose-to ask him.
When I asked him,he said ok,we could meet up at 20.He said he would call.
But when the time was 20,he texted me,"he didnt want to go tonight,because preparing(shower,changing clothes I guess)took some time,and if we go to dinner,we cant enough time to eat,so wants to have another day"

According to him,he's gonna have dayoff on same day with mine,and we will have dinner or gouout...it will be next monday(11 May)

It's just dinner,why he needs to change clothes anyway?
I was kinda shocked he changed his mind.(well we still have plan though)
Guys(Girls too ofc),give me any comments :)

Sorry,if my English is not enough to make you understand how it went.

Thanks!

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Thanks for many comments,I am so grateful for all of you.Thank you all for making time to write these.

Yes I also thought he should have CALL earlier if he get freaked out or changed his mind.He didn't say sorry to me in text,even when we met at work.

I can say he's young,but was not
Well-mannered.I guess he's not so interested as I am in him.
Anyway if he changes his mind again for next Monday,I will no longer waste my energy :) I don't want to make same mistake that I did in past.

Thank you all again,I feel so supportive from everyone who commented for my post.
Serdecznie Dziękuję:)

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

After I read all opinion here,I changed mind,and canceled next monday plan.
Like some people mentioned,his attitude was not accetable,and he didnt say sorry at all,didnt have any respect to me.
Even I texted him to cancel,he didnt reply,so this is how he is,and I am glad I saved my time.

Thank you for everyone,I much appriciated :)

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Hi,
It's totally ok he's not interested.
Things I annoyed was his attitude.That's the reason I canceled.
Well maybe I am not attractive enough for him ;( too shame though,is ok.

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Thanks for Harry and cms
Yes he's young,still kinda childish on his mind-but thank to your opinions,I could save myself in some way.
I hope I will have some decent one ;)

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

Haha it's funny to see this thread is going longer than I expected.
Some people got me wrong,but I don't care at all :)

Thanks,Harry.I will try!

Love / Are Polish men shy and take things slow? [118]

I just wanted others opinion,if you think it's childish,just leave us alone ;)

Off-Topic / What's your connection with Poland? Penpals. [554]

Merged:

Any Polish in winnipeg?

Cześć ;D
I live in Winnipeg in Canada, I have lived in Poland for a year because I like Poland very much.
I visited Poland several times before I actually lived there, learned the language.
I am getting missed Poland, so searched about Polish community here, seems like it does exsist, but not so actively..
I would like to meet polish people living in winnipeg if they are willing to :)

Nie można po polsku dobrze, ale lubi to! chce kolezanka/kolezanki z polski w tutaj w winnipegi.