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carrie65   
16 Sep 2011
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

Polish b/f just proposed, lovely man but it's a big comitment as we are both divorcees and we are different races. Do polish men make good husbands????

Be great to hear your views/experiences.
carrie65   
19 Sep 2011
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

Thanx for all the views, interesting reading!!!!!!

they think women can't drive cars, can't do construction work, can't ride motorcycles and they have an opinion that women should do other stuff and leave cars and mechanical stuff to men,

Tend to agree here, the b/f does seem to think that men are genetically programmed to do these things in a superior way, which is annoying becos I enjoy electrical/electronic repairs!

like to be good providers and always take the garbage out,

very true in my B/F's case

Have in mind: Rewards are more efficient!!!!, but sometimes we simply cannot avoid some punishments.

So far the rewards do work better!!!! Polish men do seem stubborn!!!

As everywhere, it takes two or sometimes three to make one decent. :)

I'm probably being thick but I did not quite get that???? please elaborate it sounds intriguing

!

Poles making good husbands? The good ones are good; the bad ones are bad, like everywhere. If you can assert your position over the mother-in-law, you should be alright.

My potential mother in law seems very nice so far ?
though the rest of the quote is very true probably!

Don't want to rush into anything although he is wonderful!

moment

He was extremely jelous if I talked to another guy or if someone called me

Don't have any problems with this at moment, B/F never minds me going out with my friends.

What i do find a bit odd is that quite a few polish men in the local area seem to have a 'good girl/bad girl' attutude to women.

Where there are groups of men drinking together there are often one or two women who hang around but are never invited back
to the family homes, quite the opposite, the men certainly don't appear to be 'playing away from home' but there just seems some sort of

line drawn as to which women are acceptable to invite to meet the family.
B/F never really explains this one, just says 'some women are okay to have a drink and laugh with but you'd never want to be alone with them

or take them in your house/meet the family'
Not sure i like that attitude, even though it doesn't affect me personally!
carrie65   
21 Sep 2011
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

don't have any problems with the family, but this could be because his ex was Polish and cheated on him! Argues a lot wiv his family too by all accounts. Maybe they think more liberally about foreigners! They do seem quite open minded people by nature.

And remember that to Polish women, anything you do that is in the tiniest bit different to them will be seen as outrageous behaviour. Not to be tolerated. And they will want to rescue their own from your evil (or inept) clutches.

My main arguments are over a particular group of friends, mainly male but with a couple of female hangers on, this lot are heavy drinkers and don't work much, I know they think I've got him under the thumb, but I don.t think he's so keen on them anymore now he's got a stable partnership, he tends to gravitate more towards family people now or non drinkers, but this is his choice, though if he has the odd wild night with them it does tend to make me cross as he usually forgets to ring if he's out late with them.

The two females are quite nasty about me even though I've helped them a couple of times. His non heay drinking friends are fine and have actively encouraged the relationship, I'm quite good friends independently with one of the wives! Your quote neatly sums up what his heavy drinking mates attitude.
carrie65   
15 Oct 2011
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Polish women are definitely not the most beautiful in the world, no particular race is! There are beauties from every race and there are total mingers too! I have seen some lovely polish women but I've seen lovely Indian, Irish, welsh, Thai and every other nationality of women too!

Some in clubs are very pretty but too dolled up. Natural beauty has a radiance all of its own and they cheat ;)

I tend to agree with this comment, though it is quite often true of young Britsh girls too. I don't admire the obession that some Polish women have with appearance!

I remember being introduced to a youngish polish woman a few weeks back, her first words were
' I saw you on the station last week, I thought you didn't look very pretty and I couldn't think why your fiance had asked you to marry him? Now I have seen you close up I can see you don't look too bad!'

Did it it never occur to her that there are other qualities in a woman???? This charming lady then proceeded to ask me if I had met a particular member of my fiance's family? After confirming that I had, the lady (by now joined by a couple of her mates) proceeded to rip this family member's looks to pieces just because the family member did not put make up on with a JCB digger! Actually the family member is genuinely beautiful because she has a brain, a character, honour and a lovely nature and to me a lovely face too partly because she does not like the 'barbie doll' look! No language mix up here my polish is good and the barbie doll B---- has very good English!

It's a bit sad that so many of the threads on here rave on about the appearance of women rather than more important aspects of their nature!
carrie65   
15 Oct 2011
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Greek women have the same obscession.

Ok, point taken, we can all be ******* at times!
I was brought up in a very multi cultural area but have rarely met women who rate physical appearance as importantly as young Polish women do.

My other half is always apologising that he doesn't earn enough for me to spend all my own wages on cosmetics and clothes. I wouldn't anyway even if he had Bill gates' fortune!!!!
carrie65   
15 Oct 2011
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

like slutty appearance

Tend to agree with you here, can't see the attraction of putting all your stock on show, plus the 10 tons of goo on the face!

Would have thought a bit of mystery would be nice!
Judging by the innumerable posts on Polish girls' charms I obviously can't think like a man!
carrie65   
15 Oct 2011
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

few good men in Slavic universe

They have their faults, but I don't think they are any worse than other nationalities!

If they are drunk, everything should be as visible and subject of augmentation as possible ;)

LOL Some might get a shock next morning!

I will defend though Mediterranean appearance, think about Italy, Greece too, where genders are recognizable, and simply pleasant for the eyes.

Got to agree 100% here!

other non loyal girls

Shame about this cos no man is worth fighting for! Female mates are precious as I have been lucky enough to find out!
carrie65   
16 Oct 2011
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

slavic women are masters in it they become like dolls.(

I think this is what I dislike about the way some slavic women look! I suspect that it is exactly what some men love though!

Common western approach.

Not sure it's only a western attitude, I have Asian female friends and they would not fight over a man it's undignified.
If some woman hits on my man, it's his job to politely inform her that he is unavailable, if he doesn't do this, he's not worth having!

Knowingly hitting on another woman's man is a sh----- thing to do! for me , my honour would prevent me doing this, I have never known my female friends

to do this either!

But perhaps, mine and your definition of what is overuse of make up differ

True, does come down to personal taste!
carrie65   
21 Oct 2011
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

so why there are milions of girls around the world who dream to get screwed by this polish guy.

No I'll give him a miss thanks! the other millions can have him! (though to be fair he's not ugly )
carrie65   
3 Nov 2011
News / Poles start to feel arrogant and superior to Southern Europeans [182]

Why would any person feel superior to someone because of an irrelevance like nationality? Maybe that person has nothing else to offer.

Common sense at last!! No human being is superior because of their race! Depends on you as a person! There are good and bad things about all countries and cultures.
carrie65   
10 Nov 2011
Love / English Men vs Polish Men [207]

:)

I guess it depends on maturity and education, and other environmental and/or behavioural factors.

I think that you are right in many ways here, however I do think that some women need to change their attitude too. Quite a few women still have this view that they have to do everything for a'man' and be everything to a man at the exclusion of all else. If both partners are working hard, there is nothing wrong in asking for some help in the domestic area. Problems stem from the idea that women are not a success unless they have a man, so some will try to be cook, cleaner, mother, wh---- . it makes it hard for other women to live up to. The average female can be some of those things some of the time only!