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Posts by dania dude  

Joined: 23 Aug 2009 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 19 Nov 2009
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dania dude   
19 Nov 2009
Love / Age difference, my Polish girl is 23 and I am 39 [42]

I met a really nice and sweet polish girl on my last trip to Poland. We are still in contact and Im going to visit her this coming weekend. My question is about the age difference. She just turned 23 and Im 39. She says it dosnt matter to her. But I can feel I feel a little bit strange about it. Is that big an age difference usualy in Poland or? Also I would like to start a family sometime soon and when I think about how I was when I was 23 I cant imagine she would be ready for that. Perhaps its different in the polish culture? She comes from a small villiage near cz border.

Hope to get some thoughts from you guys on this one.
dania dude   
19 Nov 2009
Love / Age difference, my Polish girl is 23 and I am 39 [42]

Thanks for the feedback.
Actually, I dont have any clue why she feels attracted to me :-) not that Im ugly :-) but I mean, when I was 23 someone just beeing 30 was so old in my eyes and in a whole other world than me. So why she wants an "old man" I have no idea. I dont have any money if that comes in mind :-) We also have a communication problem. Her spoken english is not very good, and I dont really speak polish. Im a bit confused about this situation. She is part student, part working. She is studying to become a vetenarian and work part time at a animal hospital. Dont know if that counts. Also, on the night we met, she didnt want to kiss. I could hold her hand and kiss her on the chin when we said good bye. That night she told me there were no good polish men in town. All drinking and not serious. We met the next day and this time she also didnt want any really physical contact. She did however kiss me on the chin when we said goodbye. I could put my arms around and that was that. When I got back to Denmark, she wrote me email asking if I was sure I didnt have family. Do you think that could have been the reason for her not to want phsycial contact if she thought I had family and just wanted adventure abroad? When I come to visit her now she has invited me to sleep at her place. She has an extra bed :-) All this confuses me. She dosnt sound like a girl just looking for adventure or?
dania dude   
19 Nov 2009
Love / Age difference, my Polish girl is 23 and I am 39 [42]

actually she lied about her age on the first night. She said she was 23, but at that time she was in fact only 22. No big deal, dosnt move the scale much in my perspective. But funny I think. Dont know what I will do. Now this weekend I visit her and then will see what happens. But nice of all you to spend time to give your opinion.