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Joined: 25 Dec 2007 / Male ♂
Last Post: 29 Dec 2011
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From: Poland, Gliwice
Speaks Polish?: Tak, umiem
Interests: Cycling, chess and language

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Seanus   
26 Feb 2010
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

Exiled, you can't go typecasting a nation like that. What I have found from living abroad is that people act differently when they use English. For example, in Japan, they tend to be more flowing when the linguistic peculiarities of Japanese are removed. Keigo (respect language) is less required and relationships become more natural and less determined by social strata, i.e hierarchical concerns.

In Poland, sth similar applies. When they are in their workplaces, there is more wrangling and arguing, this is part and parcel of some establishments here. However, they tend to get a new lease of life when using English. They revel in their learning and I make it my priority to tease that out to the max.

The point is, we are not robots and are often affected by out surroundings. I reacted differently in my Japanese cooking classes, for example. I had a heightened sense of awareness that I was in a different culture and tried to mingle and fit in. The same in Poland but to a lesser extent. I have to be aware of some cultural idiosyncracies here but it's more like home than Japan is.
Seanus   
26 Feb 2010
Life / Giving tips in Poland [235]

A good tip would be to smile more. I tend to give at least 10% but I'm trying to eat out less and less.
Seanus   
26 Feb 2010
Love / How do Polish boys feel about foreign girls? [163]

Absolutely spot on! You are old school Dutch. I get the impression that more and more Dutch are moving away from such values. If you don't have standards to live by, why live?
Seanus   
26 Feb 2010
UK, Ireland / Why are Polish people, especially women, so disrespectful toward the English? [442]

They are not there to show respect in their eyes. It's just not their way, they prefer to be boorish, isolated and in their own enclaves. Some Polish women are just sth else, they bring bitc*iness up to a whole new level but bear in mind that many uneducated ones went across. I know plenty that would be sterling ambassadors for their country. You just have to snap them out of their princess-like ways.

I'm really not attracted to many women in the Polish Brown Nose Brigade, they are nothing characters IMHO. God surely didn't intend that ;) ;)
Seanus   
26 Feb 2010
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

That doesn't mean that you have to be rude and boorish though, McCoy. It's not cool to be that way at all and thankfully there are many that aren't.
Seanus   
25 Feb 2010
Life / Polish Organizational Skills [83]

Yeah, I went to one of the Tesco's in Edinburgh for a month to get some food during my intensive CELTA course. It had a much better selection that here. I regularly enjoyed scrambled eggs with mayo in a container and other delightful products. There was service with a smile and helpful aisle attendants. Simply put, the culture is different here and more randomised. Some of the staff are nice and they reciprocate when smiled at but they are very much the exception to the rule here.
Seanus   
25 Feb 2010
Life / Polish Organizational Skills [83]

They can study Management, sure, but it is certain ingrained attitudes that need to be changed. Wow, sb picks up sth from a book, so what?
Seanus   
23 Feb 2010
Language / Polish was chosen the HARDEST LANGUAGE in the world to learn... :D [1558]

Well, if you are talking about counters then it's one of the harder ones but by no means the hardest. Try Japanese counters, the ending changes most times, e.g ippon (one bottle of beer), nihon (2 bottles), sambon (3 bottles) and yonhon (4 bottles) etc etc. Poland generally has the ów or, to a lesser extent, the ek ending for 5 upwards to 20 I think. Jedna butelka, dwie butelki and sześć butelek. Jeden widelec, dwa widelce i sześć widelców etc etc. You don't need to think about the endings all the time like in Japanese.
Seanus   
22 Feb 2010
UK, Ireland / "Strange " English language.. [264]

It's much closer than London is and I can fly to London from the NE of Scotland within an hour.
Seanus   
22 Feb 2010
UK, Ireland / "Strange " English language.. [264]

Scotland has so many dialects and some very strong accents and that can be a problem for many people, even English folk.
Seanus   
22 Feb 2010
Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]

I'm not saying that materialism is a measure of worth here at all. I'm very far from being a materialist. I'm just saying that if Polish women want to pursue the material life then it shouldn't be made harder by their country which doesn't pay well for the most part.

It's not sth I value, esp as a teacher.
Seanus   
22 Feb 2010
UK, Ireland / "Strange " English language.. [264]

The purpose of language is communication, making yourself understood to those around you. Whether we like it or not, language evolves in its own way and English can never claim that its purity is being distilled by slack use. I've lost count of the number of times that I've mentioned that a word is of French origin. There are so many dialects in the UK too. Just watch 'Learn Scottish Words' on Youtube.
Seanus   
22 Feb 2010
Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]

Try to understand their insecurities, though. They work hard and life is an ongoing obligation (Bittersweet Symphony springs to mind). Marriage provides them with some semblance of it. I have never agreed with divorce provisions and I was put off from when I studied Scottish divorce law.
Seanus   
22 Feb 2010
Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]

The thing is, there must be some that go for rich men because they love them, just as they go for poor men for the same reason. I've known many money makers who are so obsessed with their careers that their woman will always play second fiddle.
Seanus   
21 Feb 2010
Genealogy / What are common Polish character traits? [425]

Or ill-thought out agendas. Yes, Afghanistan has been hard to break down in the past but much of the lack of success comes from poor tactical decisions and dubious strategies. You can be the best bunch of soldiers in the world but when your instructions deny you the full use of your skills then what good is that?

Spot on, Steve. I'd say that they have some of the best but you can find good soldiers in any army.
Seanus   
21 Feb 2010
Genealogy / What are common Polish character traits? [425]

Dedication to the cause for sure. Americans know how good they are as they have invited them in the past. Poland has some talented soldiers, many actually. I'm just saying that it doesn't make sense to talk of better. If they are actually better, they should be snuffing out the Taliban on the front lines rather than letting more moronic soldiers take that position.
Seanus   
21 Feb 2010
Genealogy / What are common Polish character traits? [425]

Well, Ironside has a point in that Poles train for longer but the problem is that many Poles were forced into the army through the conscription process. British guys wanted to be there and signed up willingly. I don't think you can really say that a Pole is any better or any worse, Ironside. I've seen how Scots train and I can tell you that, with the right motivation, they will be victors in their fights.

Just look at the hype on the net about Pudzianowski Vs Fedor as a sign of grandiose delusions. Although I think Pudzian would pose more problems to Fedor initially than many would suspect, he would still cave in to the relentless barrage of punches that would come his way. A bit of realism doesn't hurt!

That's one Polish trait that can be stated, idealism/romanticism. Nothing like punches or sharpshooting to put an end to that.

In conclusion, Polish pride can definitely help but only if tainted by realism.
Seanus   
20 Feb 2010
Genealogy / What are common Polish character traits? [425]

Ironside, you were trampled in WWII, crushed by an army that would have taken you a day or a few to beat had you acted in 1933. Scotland knows a thing or two about being warriors and we have won battles being the underdogs.

Samoans and Tongans are pretty ferocious warriors. NZ Maori too.
Seanus   
20 Feb 2010
Genealogy / What are common Polish character traits? [425]

I didn't intend to give you one (a lesson I mean ;)). Oh, absolutely, privacy is golden!

I dislike gossip, of course. I'm lucky not to live on an estate. My place is central but remarkably quiet.