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GabiDaHun   
17 Oct 2012
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Just here to say, there are still plenty that disagree -just most can't be bothered. I think everything has been discussed to death now. Neither sides are going to agree. However, in the western world, you guys are in the minority, and with education and the abililty to use reason over our rather base and biological "disgust" mechanisms, our world has actually got more moral.

No one has any right to dictate their morality onto others, morality is not black and white. They tried it with slavery, with womens rights, with homopobia and prejudice, and reason is winning. People "do unto others...." more in our modern epoch than ever before. The fact that you all feel the need to dictate your world view onto others, is quite arrogant. I'm off, you can continue the back slapping contest.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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usually alive means, not dead.

Could you quantify not dead please?

Yes, and if they knew that there was no such option as abortion, I bet they'd be a damn sight more careful ...

There is no such option in Poland. And yet, women living in Poland have some of the highest abortion rates per-capita in the whole of Europe. Do you think people are being more careful or less careful?

An estimated 150,000 polish women got an abortion in 2010, in a nation of 30million ish.
An estimated 189,000 abortions took place in Britain in 2009 in a nation of 60million is.

Per capita the abortion rate in Polish women is nearly twice that of the UK. So much for being more careful.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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Girl, you're so vulnerable.

ORLY?

is the baby inside of you on a "life support machine" too?

Well I don't have a "baby" inside of me.

But metaphorically speaking... to a certain point, yes it is. A foetus cannot survive without the mother up to a certain point, and before a certain point there is no EEG in a foetus.

When someone is on life support in a hospital, and the higher mental functions are inactive (wheel's turning, hamster's dead) we normally ask the relatives of the person if they wish to switch the support off. It's a personal choice for them and very dependant on whether they (the relatives) consider them alive or not. Some say yes, and some say no.

It certainly isn't up to strangers.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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Again, if I'm on a life support machine and my EEG is negative I'm not, even if my heart is beating. At the moment I'm alive, but that's not because my heart is beating - it's because you can measure my brain activity and my conciousness.

A heartbeat is a metabolic reaction by a particular muscle group, you can grow a beating heart in a lab nowadays. What makes a person a person has much more to do with neurology, the formation of the brain, and the capacity for independent desires.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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As long as your heart is beating you're alive, right?

if I'm on a life support machine and the EEG of my brain is negative I'm not. My heart would still be beating, but I'd be dead.

But the point you really, really miss is that nobody is telling anybody what do to here, but this ISN'T just about the woman who

I'm sorry, but once again, the thing growing inside a woman is personal to a woman. Some women give the foetus personhood from the moment of conception, and others don't. It's not up to you who gets to decide what a pregnancy is for an individual woman, and if it is a child or not.

I'm not bleating. I'm not a sheep in some far away field. I talk and think like a rational person, so stop dehumanising me - I don't think you even realise that you do it.

I'm really sorry about what you went though. How horrible for you. There are definite issues, as I have already said surrounding the mental health of women and abortion, and personally I think more research needs to be done on this issue, some kind of psychological analysis by professionals, not just a check list/tick box from a GP. Clearly, you had given your foetus personhood from the start of your pregnancy, and it's terrible for you that this wasn't picked up on, or taken more seriously by the so-called professionals whose care you were in. Its also terrible that you had been coerced into your termination. This should be illegal, and there needs to be rigorous checking by unbiased medical professionals to ensure that a woman makes a decision independently of others. If a woman becomes pregnant, the support network needs to be there for the abortion procedure to really be the final safety net.

However, as tragic as your experience is, your experience does not equate to the experience of other women. I've already given you the links to the university research papers, which do show, contrary to your experience, that the majority do not regret their decision - these are papers which discuss the experience of thousands of women, not just yours. Whether you choose to acknowledge them or not is up to you, but by denying them, you are denying the very real experiences of other women.

You seem to be projecting your very personal, and very tragic circumstances onto other women, and equating the foetuses inside of them into the child which you lost, but they are not your child - and it is not your duty to protect them. In your circumstances your viewpoint is admirable, but other women are not you. Their feelings are not your feelings - you really should acknowledge that.

Big love to you natasia. I'm really sorry about your experience.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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You're supporting killing of newborns to be and I'm trying to defend their right to live and you call it groundless.

Your emotive language is groundless, yes, because as I said, for the 3rd time, over 70% of fertilised embryos are naturally rejected by the womb, so not everything is going to a "newborn to be". How can you kill something that you cannot prove was alive in the first place?
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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I'm rejecting their right to kill. It's not about these people themselves, it's about people they carry inside.

It doesn't suit me better. It's just more of the same boring, groundless emotive language - it's kind of dull now.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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Yes, Spain changed its law in 2010. think it costs more than 50 Euros, because EU health insurance is only limited to emergencies, and it's not seen as an emergency procedure. I'm not sure.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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Now, do you seriously believe, I get off on discussing killing of newborns?

I didn't say that. You said:

What I don't understand is how some people have problems with people being killed in a war but don't have any problems with killing newborns.

I'm simply asking who doesn't have a problem with killing newborns? Who has said such a thing?

In which case, of course you're going to be pro-abortion.

That's utter rubbish. What kind of a crappy term is pro-abortion anyway? I've said numerous times morality is not a black and white issue of "good" or "bad", "pro" or "anti". What I've said is that morality or "good and bad" "pro and anti" is incredibly difficult to legislate, and there is a morality issue in legislating (or forcing) unprovable moral opinions on another. Is this another of those emotive like "killing babies"? Pro abortion makes me sound like I want every woman to go out and have abortions. I don't, and I'm not going to box myself into any framework of thought by giving myself labels, if you wish to categorise the world, then you do that, but be aware; I'm an individual whom a label might not fit. I've already said that I want people to use contraception, the abortion procedure is (as it should be) a safety net.

What you don't like about my comments, really, is that *I have said pregnancy and children are good things*, and you think they are bad

Oh my God! Where do you infer this stuff from? I've made clear already in the thread that pregnancy and childbirth are personal and individual experiences, I don't think pregnancy and children are bad. I think pregnancy and children FOR ME would be bad, and by that logic, out of the 6 billion people on the planet, it's not unfesable that some think the same way as I do.. There is a difference, can you see it?

I think I am starting to see how your logic works.

You say:
Pregnancy and children were good for me ---------------------------------------------------------> therefore pregnancy and children are good things for everyone... so I will legislate it, no one must have an abortion.

You *think* I say:
Pregnancy and children are bad for me-------------------------------------------------------------->there fore children and pregnancy are bad things....... so I will legislate is and everyone must have an abortion.

What I actually say is:
Pregnancy and children are bad for me, but they are good for you --------------------------->therefore you do what you want, and I do what I want. Personal choice is personal. I don't force my wishes on to you, and vice versa.

make sure your personal choice is just for you.

I don't think you understand or respect that. If you did understand or respect my personal choice to fly off to the UK (with British citizenship), you'd also respect the personal choices of women,(young, poor or otherwise) of Poland, who do not have the option or the money, and are effectively having once form of morality forced upon them, who are made to go though pregnancy and labour (against their wishes - because we're talking about one group here), and are then given a choice of a) look after the child or b)stick it in an orphanage.

Poland has 80,000 children in orphanages - the highest in central Europe, housed in about 350 orphanages. With limited staff, the amount of attention these kids receive must be close to zero.

activechildaid.org/statistics

How many of you people pay frequent visits to the local orphanage?

I asked this on page one. There still hasn't been an answer.

If I got a woman pregnant I would intend on taking care of the child.

I am grateful that you would take on the child, and for some women you are right, the child and responsibility is the issue, in which case, more men should be as you are. There are far too many man that do a runner. However, for some women the issue around the whole "pregnancy thing" is the pregnancy itself, rather than the child or the responsibility.

If you got a girl unwillingly pregnant, and you wanted the child to look after the child, but for her pregnancy was the issue, would you also be willing to go through hormone replacement treatment for 9 months, have your body slowly contorted, and at the end of that 9 months have one of your orifices expanded to the size of a saucer and have a watermelon pushed through it? In solidarity obviously. Because if being pregnant is to be an issue for someone, I don't see how anyone would be willing to force the mechanics of it on anyone.

From what I've read of Gabi's posts, she seems very level headed and well-reasoned in how she's presented her opinions.

Thanks. I'm happy for you being here. I feel like I'm blowing against a sandstorm, putting up with all this speculation, and inferring is quite irritating. Thankfully, I realise that my opinion, whilst seeming to be a minority on these message boards it isn't that isn't that of the minority in Europe.

Just for balance.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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I wasn't attacking you, was attacking your opinion.

It doesn't make it any less "charming" to be honest. And it's still dictating your personal morality onto others private lives. And I still don't understand why people get off on it...

how some people have problems with people being killed in a war but don't have any problems with killing newborns.

No one's talked about killing newborns. Where? Show me?

@polonius
Careful. You're starting to sound like a misogynist.

What would you class as "leg-spreading", and does it count for men too?
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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Actions and consequences again... we've discussed this already. Don't make me talk about all the actions you could take and all the consequences I might dictate you live with.

The bit in bold is particularly charming. Where do you guys get off on dictating the private lives of others? Really! I'm kind of flabbergast! Mind your own business!
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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wanted the abortion because they simply didn't want to deal with the responsibility that was the result of their not using contraception

Ah I see... well that's my point... how do you go about proving who was sensible and unlucky, and who was uneducated, or misinformed, or just reckless? We can't.

If you're going to start handing out abortions on whether or not you think someone took precautions or not there are only two things we can do:

1)Believe all of them, in which case they get an abortion anyway,
or
2)Believe no one, in which case some of the sensible women that took precautions may just be forced through pregnancy.

I think I prefer option 1. But that's because I don't want kids, and I don't want to be forced though pregnancy. I can't think of anything worse. It actually gives me the creeps just thinking about being up the duff.
GabiDaHun   
16 Oct 2012
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just DON'T HAVE SEX IF YOU DON'T WANT TO RISK GETTING PREGNANT.

Are you now telling me why I should or shouldn't have sex? Really? Sex isn't just about getting pregnant, it's not just about mechanics, it's about a bond between you and the person you love.

It's perfectly easy to separate pregnancy from sex... that why we invented contraception in the first place. I don't see where you get off on telling people not to have sex, and how they should see it! That's just not on. If fertilization is the most important part or consequence of sex to you, then so be it. It isn't mine, and I'm not going to be bullied into seeing it as such, and I'm not going to feel bad for having sex out of love, but not wanting kids at the same time. Many women feel the same.

GabiDaHun,what if they themselves say that it was from unprotected sex.There would no motivation for them to lie about this.

I'm sorry. You've lost me.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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Have you ever been pregnant?

No,thankfully. But if I do become pregnant I wouldn't mind having the option I'm very very careful, and have known all my life I don't want kids. Does not being pregnant make my opinion somehow less valid? And if that's the case, going back to the OP, can we just tell the men in the Sejm to shut the hell up?

GabiDaHun,ok so what if it happens through unprotected sex,is it still the right to choose?

I'd say yes, because how can we ever prove who had protected sex, and who had unprotected sex?

And even then there's the whole "where does the life begin anyway?", and "when do we assign personhood?" stuff, and the rather morally dubious "my morals trump yours" stuff too....

My stance is: Personal choice is personal.

contraception before abortion!!!And you said it would never happen ;)

I think that's something the whole of the world will agree on. See, abortion issues CAN unite us. ;)
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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I am not lucky in this sensitivity - I just listen!

You listen, yeah. But not everyone can, or has the ability to and this isn't about swimming every morning or measuring energy - this is about cold, hard facts. As you said we're all different, and saying that any woman can do as you do is not correct - it's also dangerous. If a woman reading this thinks that she can do as you, and gets preggers it's not going to be happy ending. If a woman's going to have sex the provably safest option is contraception. As the NHS states, your rhythm method has a realistic reliability of 75%, and that's after measuring body temperature etc.. for months on end, where as condoms and the pill are 98-99% effective, immediately. The advice you are giving may (not will) result in more abortions - something which nobody wants, so please be careful about what you say on a public forum. I'm not trying to take away from your personal experience, but seeing as we were talking about not getting pregnant and using contraception, I think the safest method should be advocated. I'm sorry if you felt that I wasn't being respectful to you, but your method is just more risky, and not everyone can realistically do it.

Unlucky is you don't smoke and you get lung cancer. It is not that you have sex and you get pregnant.

No, unlucky is you have PROTECTED sex and get pregnant. Not any sex, protected sex.

I'd say, that if you have a 1% chance of something happening to you, having taken precautions against it, that's pretty unlucky no matter what "it" might be.

If you go for an enjoyable drive, and plan to do so at the quietest point at night, don't speed, take all the precautions, indicate, check your mirros etc, and you still crash does this mean that you should "never have been driving in the first place" and "you were bound to crash" It just means you were unlucky, wrong place, wrong time, wrong box of condoms. Manufacturing fault.

Gabi Da Hun - does that mean you are German?

Hungarian :)
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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I know, but there's this misconception that abortions are done because people weren't careful, but actually, this is only the case in a minority of incidents. Most of the women who abort have just been plain unlucky.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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GabiDaHun,it would be more like she put herself through it,by not being careful.

Again, the majority of women (taken from US studies) became pregnant through contraception failure, the majority of the rest of them did not use protection so because they were misinformed and/or ill educated (ie.... "you can feel when you're ovulating"). So in the vast majority of cases it's not about "not being careful". It's about contraception failure and dis/mis-information.

^^^
The study and figures are linked up there somewhere. Go find em!

I feel like I'm constantly repeating myself :(

I'd assume that a woman who had a baby she didn't want would put her child up for adoption.

Exactly.

To me,you're alive when your heart is beating, simple as that.

Just seen this. What do you make of the beating heart they grew in a lab without a body?
youtube.com/watch?v=j9hEFUpTVPA
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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Rape is violence and torture being forced on another unwilling human. However, we know for certain that both "participants" (for lack of a better word) are definitely measurably independent humans. For every woman with a negative experience of abortion there are two with a positive one. The thing is we shouldn't be working on anecdotes, we should be looking at studies.

ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10920466
Here's a scientific research paper from the university of California which states that most women do not experience psychological problems or regret their abortion 2 years postabortion, but some do. Those who do tend to be women with a prior history of depression.

With respect, are you a woman? Of course I know that the fertile period is more than a day. Of course I know that the body can ovulate almost on demand.

I am a woman, and I've never been able to tell when I'm ovulating. Sometimes I can't even tell when I'm going to start my period. We are all different, I'm pleased that you know, it makes it easy for you.. but honestly I really don't.

So tell me, because I am very interested: how does a woman know, if she has never been pregnant and never had a child? And don't load it with 'put through' ...?

I use the words "put through" because it would be the correct term if a woman is forced to continue with pregnancy she wishes not to have. As we are only discussing women who wish to have abortions but are denied them I can't see how this is loaded. I would use the exact same terms if a woman was forced into an abortion.... in that case she would be "put through" that also.

As the study above shows there are definite markers to those that will suffer psychologically after an abortion, and a history of depression is one of them. The thing is, as the study says, we don't know if the depression is caused by abortion, or if the underlying depressional tendencies (low self esteem, poor outlook on life etc) cause the regret. Either way the figures show that after two years, the vast majority are not depressed, and the majority do not regret the decision.

Sorry to sound heated, but really, some balance is needed here, in all of this.

Quite, which is why I've provided an unbiased scientific study for you to read
archpsyc.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=481643
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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I thought they put some back in and kept the rest in the freezer. I don't think they should trash them, if that is what they do. It is all very tricky.

To be fair, only 30% of all "traditionally ;-) " fertilised eggs actually become viable attached embryos and 70% are rejected by the "mother" as they have too many chromosomes. As far as I remember the viably of IVF embryos are lower than 30%, but I have to check that.

Just checked. Of IVF embryos only 7.5% become viable.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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.I'm not a scientist and I honestly can't tell you when it is considered to be a feeling being with cerebral activity.

Wikipedia states - with references - that the first measurable signs of EEG movement occur in the 12th week.

So it isn't based on if they think there might be a problem - it is routine. A routine querying of whether to proceed.

Interesting. I had no idea. Have you any idea why the check-list is there in the first place? I have an inkling it may because the doctor is under obligation not to assume anything, and as such acting "chirpy" when the woman has doubts could be seen as coercion on the part of the doctor. It's tricky and I really don't have an answer for it.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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If a young or unmarried woman goes to the doctor and says she finds herself unexpectedly pregnant, the doctor will say

I would admit this is a bit off... I don't think there should be suggestions being made at all. Although I guess it could be difficult subject to broach as a doctor has to care for the physical and mental well-being of his patient. If the doctor suspects some kind of issue he has to tactically broach the subject, but at the same time I can see how such a suggestion could plant seeds. Tricky.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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@natasia
I completely respect your viewpoint and thank you for replying so politely, however, these are still your opinions and I still ascertain you have no right whatsoever to legislate your moral beliefs onto others, unless you can prove to me otherwise. Why do you think that your beliefs and moral standards should automatically trump the beliefs of others? I certainly don't believe that mine trump yours, and you are free to hold on to your beliefs and live by them, however and I would expect you give other women the same kind of respect, and allow them to make their own personal choices in life.

If you don't believe what you quoted is a justifiable reason for abortion, then don't get one for those reasons. What right would you say you had to tell individual women how to feel about their pregnancy, and what right would you say you had to legislate against their very personal experiences and decisions?

we know automatically when we have the potential ... and if we don't want a baby, we control ourselves

This is the exact kind of misinformation that leads to more abortions. Please be careful because it's an astoundingly bad piece of advice. The fact of the matter is no woman knows automatically when they are fertile, and the fertility period can be anything up to a week, not just one day. If women don't want to get pregnant the first port of call should always be birth control. ALWAYS. If any women are reading this, who think they can magically "tune in" to their body, they'd be wrong. Always use contraception if you do not want to get pregnant.

a)that the pregnancy has not exceeded its twenty-fourth week and that the continuance of the pregnancy would involve risk

Exactly. If a women were to become pregnant, and fall into depression knowing that she had to have the child upon discovery of her pregnancy, and if coming to terms with being pregnant and having a child could cause mental health issues, for whatever reasons, then abortion should be allowed. How do we know if a woman is likely to suffer mental health issues being put through pregnancy and childbirth? We ask HER... that's how mental health practice operates, we ask the patient. Individuals thoughts and feelings need to be respected and woman knows her own mind, and her own capabilities better than any outside parties wishing to dictate morality to her.

country where abortions can be performed without the express written consent of the father

Whilst I sympathise with your sentiment, I don't know how this would be workable. I also wonder what kind of man would force a woman he loves through a pregnancy and labour against her will? The consequences could be quite, quite grim.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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Why women who do not want to have children would not take the necessary precautions to prevent pregnancy?

Erm, I'm pretty sure they do. No one is saying that precautions shouldn't come first, but accidents do happen. Condoms do split you know? A fair few people I've know have got abortions, the majority those pregnancies were due to contraception failure. I'm sure you know plenty of women that also got abortions, they just haven't told you.

RESULTS: Forty-six percent of women had not used a contraceptive method in the month they conceived, mainly because of perceived low risk of pregnancy and concerns about contraception (cited by 33% and 32% of nonusers, respectively).

So the facts are that 54% of women who go for abortions HAVE take precautions and out of the 33% of the people who did no use didn't do so because of misinformation and lack of education.

Again though, don't let the facts stop your "take responsibility" standpoint. 54% of women [guttmacher.org/pubs/journals/3429402.html ]in this study took responsibility. The vast majority of the remainder were ignorant or badly informed.

When I choose to debate a subject - when the life beings?- I will take it into account.

When human life begins, is actually the main crux of the abortion debate. That's why it's so divisive.. because no one knows the answer yet everyone seems to have an opinion on it. If you knew an embryo was not a person you wouldn't give two monkeys about what happened. Or, for you is it honestly only about women not having sex?

I'm not here to learn or study because I can do it myself somewhere else - thank you.

Yeah. Why facts and published sources get in the way of a good argument?
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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AFAIK contraception's a nightmare in Poland. Getting the birth control pill is such a palava, and so expensive one has to rely on condoms, which gives women far less control of their own fertility. I haven't tried yet because I was thoroughly put off by the process. Getting the contraceptive pill in Poland (from what I've heard and understood - from a doctor friend of mine, but please correct me if I'm mistaken) consists of a visit to the GP followed by a referral to and an interrogation by the gynaecologist. Rinse and repeat every month. And pay through the nose for it.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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A sperm isn't a human life. An ovule isn't.

As said above. A fused embryo could technically become quadruplets, or an infinite amount of people if given an infinite amount of space. In fact, under 30% of fertilised eggs become viable. Now, if you wish to assign every single embryo, viable, or non viable a personhood, that is entirely up to you but I don't see how forcing "personhood" onto something that may or may not become one, two or ten million people is helping anything. Especially when this possible person will never have anything to do with you, and especially, when you can't possibly for see the effects of the abortion on the mother.

Yes, some women are coerced into abortion, and of course this is horrendous, and the psychological damage is awful. I also know women who have been coerced into proceeding with the pregnancy and the psychological damage has been equally as atrocious and the morality of it just as horrendous. I also know women who have had abortions and say it's the best decision they ever made.

So abortion is as subjective a thing as anything can be. Why is your subjectivity more "correct" than another's? Why can't it just be left down to the individual?

I agree with you that it's the women who need to be protected in all this, but for me they should be protected in whichever choice they want to make, regardless of whether I think it's right or wrong.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
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How is that dehumanising? i would say that those are very human features. Would be rather described in mechanical terms?

Oh please mate! You have got be on a wind up! I've repeatedly asked you to stop guessing about my personal circumstances and here you are CONTINUING to do so? Why is that? Every time you and your genius have made any kind of ill-informed guesswork you've been wrong - as you are now. I belong to no activist or political groups, feminist, pro-choice, or otherwise. Once again, this thread is not about ME. Stop trying to drag ME through the dirt and instead why don't you talk about your opinions and try to back them up with some kind of factual information? Seriously you are embarrassing yourself. You think you are being much smarter than you are.

All you've been doing on this thread is making stuff up, and then debating this made up stuff as if it were reality.

You continually misunderstand and misread (deliberately or not, I don't know) anything I, or anyone else whose life view you disagree with, says. You continually have shown your ignorance of anything to do with women's reproductive health , and are still somehow trying to blame me for your ignorance. Any experiences that differ to yours you just dismiss as a "moot point" without actually looking at the context. You constantly back-pedal, then change the goal posts. And when presented with cold hard facts you use dirty tactics by either selectively quoting, or you just reply flippantly with more of your "opinion" without backing it up with any form of evidence.

Have you even referenced anyone or academic or philosophical standing yet?

You say you're against propaganda, but then you selectively quote me, use emotive terms, more personal attacks, and more guesswork; "pro killing life" "looking for insults" "victim" "member of an organisation"

Now, finally, when all this hasn't worked you're invoking Godwin's law and banging on about the Nazis!!!!! Really?!? It must be a wind up!

put on an ignore list only because you never have a point to make and you're insufferably boring.

Quite.

Just in case anyone missed my earlier post, I'm sure it was ignored rather than taken into account:

where you consider individual human life to begin and therefore at which point do you consider life to become human life to become "sacred"

GabiDaHun   
14 Oct 2012
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As usual rape comes up to imply that being anti-abortion is to be anti-female and pro-rape

I didn't say that at all. I said that if people think it's "all about responsibility" try telling that to a rape victim. No one in their right mind would be pro-rape. Don't put words into my mouth.

wow, you people are sick.

Sick in what way? I've not been the one that's been saying that people need to suffer in order to "take responsibility" for their actions.

why bother to post if you are just going to repeat the standard non-thinking 'wisdom'?

So using correct terminology, in a philosophical debate closely linked to the biological process is now classed as non-thinking? Great.

Pregnancy is not an illness. Woman body is able to nurture life of another human being

Pregnancy is personal to a woman. It is whatever she makes it. If she wants to give personhood to the potential independent life inside her then that's her prerogative. If she doesn't then that is also her prerogative. If she wants to eat organic mung beans for the duration of her pregnancy, then that is up to her too, as it is to neck a bottle of vodka week in and out.... it's not illegal, although I would doubt her capabilities as a mother.

Just because one is able to do something it doesn't mean that one HAS to do it. Ability and obligation are not mutual and do not go hand in hand, and whilst no body is forcing anybody to get pregnant there people are forcing pregnancy. See the difference?

Telling you what to do?

You told me, in your complete ignorance, that if I didn't want to get pregnant I could get the snip. Which clearly I can't, genius. I and many other women take the necessary precautions already.

Is not? It is very unusual for mothers to refer to pregnancy as "a trauma".

As I said, pregnancy is whatever a mother perceives it to be. If she wants to see it as the most wonderful thing ever, then that's up to her. If she doesn't, well I'm sorry but that up to her too, not up to you.

Well I can say that you are under the age of thirty, have no children and you haven't convinced two doctors that you are serious and mature

Erm, as Harry pointed out:
1) You can't get the snip in Poland
2) Doctors will not perform unnecessary, expensive, and painful medical operations on women of child bearing age unless there is a real necessity. It's in their code of ethics. I'm not the only person who's been turned away in the "liberal" UK. I suggest if you don't like it, you should take it up with the doctors and stop trying to find flaws in my personality in an attempt to make things personal. Is there no depths to the lows which you will not go? Also, before suggesting people in Poland "get the snip", a vague idea of the actual law might be a good idea.

Nice one IS, way to distract attention from the fact you know nothing about Polish contraception law.

Quite.

So far we've had a whole host of ill thought out and straw man arguments as well as personal attacks from the usual suspects:

1) We've had personal insults, and dehumanisation - "quasi-human", "hysterical women", and "immature" being a few.

2) The ascertation that in order for society to stay moral people need to "face the consequences" of their actions, and then U-turning when tapeworm and childhood accidents come up. It seems this "moral rule" is therefore only applicable for pregnancy, and more to the point, only for women, cos men don't get pregnant. It's do as I say, not as I do hypocrisy.

3) We've had emotive and incorrect language; "baby" and "murder" from one side, but when other incorrect and emotive terms are used such as "parasite" suddenly the tactic is no longer acceptable! Moreover, using correct terminology is now called as "non thinking". So whic is it to be? Incorrect emotive language? OR correct non-thinking language? Goalposts are constantly being shifted, but only as long as it suits the anti-abortionists.

4) We've had some people trying to say that it's all about the welfare of the child, but yet these same people actually deliver no help, physical or monetary, to unwanted children in Polish orphanages, or any struggling mothers, and actually do nothing to make the situation that they wish to implement on these vulnerable people any better for them. More do as I say, not as I do.

5) We've had people projecting their personal views of a morality, on to others, and then demanding that only their version of morality is acceptable and should be legislated. So.. totalitarianism then.

6) We've had people wanting to force dogmatic views taken from their own religion on to others. I think that called religious fanaticism.

The ONLY and I mean ONLY reasonable response we've witnessed so far is actually this one:

As said earlier, it depends on whether you believe life begins at conception or not. I see no reason to assume it does not. I'd rather err on the safe side.

Which is fine and dandy. Should really be having a discussion about where life begins. Or more importantly where you consider individual human life to begin and therefore at which point do you consider life to become huiman life to become "sacred".

There can be five possibilities for this:

1) Metabolism. - Cellular activity. Such as respiration and metabolism. This includes skin cells, and sperm cells.

2) Genetics - A complete genome, in other words a fertilised egg. It is an independent "being" from its parent, but is still not viable. We must also think of some paradox's when talking about this. A a single ferilized egg can give rise to twins, triplets or quadruplets, in fact theoretically with infinite space, a singe fertilised egg could give rise to a million monozygotic twins. So is this fertilized egg a life, a million lives, or still just the potential to become whatever it pleases?

Here's a scientific view on some common inaccuracies and untruths:

- The Embryo is Safe Within the Womb. Modern research shows that 30% or fewer fertilised eggs will go on to become foetuses. Many of these early miscarriages are because of abnormal numbers of chromosomes. The view that every fertilised egg is a potential human being is wrong in around 70% of cases.

- There is a Moment of Fertilisation when the passive egg receives the active sperm. Again recent research has shown that the previous commonly held view that the fastest sperm races towards the egg and, bingo, we're up and running is wrong on many levels. Fertilisation is a process taking up to four days. As such there is no magic moment, rather there is a process.

- There is consensus amongst scientists that life begins at conception. There isn't even consensus amongst scientists as to whether there's consensus. However, Scott Gilbert's paper lists embryologists who support each of the major view points belying the common and oft repeated assertion that there is consensus amongst embryologists, let alone scientists.

3) Embryology - This places the start of life at gastrulation, where the uncertainties of the genome become fixed. Twins will now be twins, viability becomes much more likely (but not certain), at this point however all embryos are female, and we still don't know for certain what it will develop into. The stem cell argument hangs in this stage.

4) Neurology - Or brain activity. Death is usually determined by brain activity, so most people consider this to be the start of life. It's the point at which we decide to switch off the life machine. It's much a much more reliable indicator of life than a heartbeat, which is actually just involuntary muscular activity, and is not really that much different to the metabolic process described in 1).

5) Ecology/ Technology - The point where a fetus can sustain itself outside the womb and becomes viable. As technology progresses, this moment is pushed to an earlier time.

6) Self awareness - Which actually comes after birth for us humans.

Scott Gilbert (a developmental biologist) says:

The entity created by fertilization is indeed a human embryo, and it has the potential to be human adult. Whether these facts are enough to accord it personhood is a question influenced by opinion, philosophy and theology, rather than by science.

So if we're going to talk about where life begins, it's always going to be a matter of opinion, and opinion alone. It is not something anyone can say for definite. What we do know for definite is that a woman IS a living being, and an embryo "might possibly be one", so I'm of the opinion that we should be giving far more rights to "definite life" than "possible life".

Because where life begins is a matter of opinion, can we really, in a moral sense, legislate an unprovable philosophical opinion over the real feelings, emotions, and experiences of a definite provable living being? Do your unprovable opinions on this subject, trump an actual human? If a woman, or a living being, is that an unwanted pregnancy seen to completion would be the same as torture, and wishes to do something at say, stage 3 of the process where there are still many uncertainties about what this embryo will become, would you force her through that torture, on nothing more than your opinion?

I guess the answer to those questions would be yes. We've already witnessed dehumanisation, projection and name calling, so I don't see forcing someone through torture that for from the dehumanisation process. It's very easy to ignore the feelings and wishes of someone who we no longer seem as human. It's how we get soldiers to kill the enemy, and it's how the governments win us over with propaganda. I wish to be no part of it, which is why you will never see me dehumanise anyone, no matter how much I disagree with them.

Personally, when it comes to morality I prefer to go on definite truths and leave the rest up to personal choice of a provably living human. Anything else on my part would be arrogant and cruel. Why should I be forcing my opinions on to others? Where does legislating opinion stop? Do we make heresy illegal? Do throw people in jail for eating meat, I mean, animals are sentient aren't they?? If my morals dictate I don't do something, then I don't do it. What other people do with their lives is none of my business, and neither is it yours.

You don't agree with abortion, then don't get one.
GabiDaHun   
13 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

A good parent will make sure the kid doesn't end up on a cliff in the first place and if this were to happen it's the parent's responsibility.

So you'd be happy for them to forgo the emergency medical treatment then?

So when you have sex and especially outside wedlock you know there's a "risk" of getting pregnant

Ah ha, so now we're back to dictating one black and white version of morality onto another human. I bet you complain about "barbaric Muslims", without noticing that you are doing the exact same thing which you complain about. I think it's time for a reminder of the old logs and specks quote from the holy bearded one.

Sex isn't meant to be casual and it is not a woman's "right" to end the pregnancy

Isn't it? Tell me why it isn't. Is it because you said so? Cos your book says so? Are you yet again forcing (just like Muslims do ;) ) one version of morality over another.

just because the new life emerging does so in her womb and dispose of it as if it were mere garbage.

I think you're mixing up "new life" with "potential life". I hope you don't masturbate.