Love / How to make a Polish guy happy? (we're moving to Mexico) [51]


Well, no wonder, considering that the pay gap still
exists in Poland (even if it's smaller than in many other countries).


A quote from that article:

"While Rickne's research did not measure which party initiated divorce in each case, one theory is that the husbands of top managers who got promoted found the situation harder to deal with than wives who were married to high-performing men."

I have some real life examples, btw. After I graduated from university I was still hanging out with girls from my year. One of them dated a firefighter. He had a problem with the fact that she earned more money than him. He also didn't like the fact that she was meeting with us. Another girl from my year married a longterm boyfriend after graduating from uni. I don't know what was his current job, but I remember that earlier he was a lifeguard. So I'm guessing he wasn't earning much. And yet, suddenly after they married he told her that he doesn't want her to work and go out with us. They couldn't come to an agreement over this and she divorced him 4 months after their wedding. Now she's with a guy from our year from uni, they have two sons and they seem to be happy and great parents :) She says he's the best dad she could dream of for her kids :)

Also, read this:

The End of Hypergamy: Global Trends and Implications:

ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5421994/


Oh, trust me, we're not - I don't think anyone would want to be in your head :)))) And considering that more women graduate from universities than men - I think we're managing with our number of neurons just fine, thank you very much :D 😂

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@Alien, you're both good people then - I salute you! :D 👍

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@GefreiterKania, the chips were pretty good, maybe not as good as potato chips, but more refreshing :) An interesting flavour. As for the soup - I had only time for tasting one spoon, and it seemed nice although a bit bland for my taste. My mother said that it's very light. My father refused to eat it lol

And, yes, it's healthy - topinambur has a lot of inulin, for example, which is good for people with type 2 diabetes and high LDL ("bad" cholesterol) :) So it could be a healthy alternative for potatos. 🤔

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@GefreiterKania, yes, correct! Wow, that was fast! :D

It grows at my grandma's in the countryside and when my parents went there last weekend my mother made fried chips from it and later on also a cream soup with coconut milk:

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@GefreiterKania, nope, it's a vegetable! :)

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@Lenka, nope, but my father said that it does taste a bit like parsley :) 🤔

Travel / Poland in photo riddles - part 3 [818]

@Lenka, those are fried chips indeed, but not made from potatos :)

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What do you think is this?:

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@Feniks, what type of interiors do you like, btw?


Something of this kind, for example:

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Me too.


It's pretty much the same for me, although as I wrote earlier I do think some abstract art do fit certain interiors. I myself wouldn't mind some pretty abstract art on my walls - purely for decorative purposes though :)


That could be the case, but not necessarily - many people simply like painting colourful, cheerful stuff :)


I wouldn't know, since we don't have Ikea in Kielce ;) Until not long ago you couldn't even order anything online from Ikea to our city - I guess we were too far away from civilisation ;D They finally opened up some storehouse in the vicinity of Kielce and you can order their stuff on the internet and pick it up over there.

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Me too! :D I like gold on stuff and even in paintings and drawings, so I try to add some golden accents here and there to those neutral colours that I like in interiors in order to liven them up a little, like a white mug with golden spots, etc.


I actually like those, they look pretty (especially if they're golden :)).


That's pretty cool and clever + decorative - I can easily see it hanging on a wall in a minimalist (but not only) flat/house :)

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I like the sound of the first part (big white walls, high ceilings), but let's not go too far with that lack of paintings ;) I like paintings, drawings, posters, etc. on the walls and an occasional shelf here and there - just in moderation :)


That's amazing! :D If I were to visit you, you'd have me staring at your walls ;D Btw, who's buying them? You or your wife? :)


For me too - I paint/draw slowly (unless I'm pressed with time, but then I'm usually not entirely happy with the result). I didn't realise how big her paintings are until I saw that photo! I wonder how long does it take her to paint one, especially considering how detailed they are.


I see you, me and jon357 have been traumatised by the decor of our childhood homes ;D

Love / How to make a Polish guy happy? (we're moving to Mexico) [51]


Nope, that's just real life :)

Life / Treatment for Ulcerative Colitis in Poland [5]


According to a documentary I've seen scientific research has shown that eating a lot of meat leads to greater risk of cancer. That's because eating meat stimulates growth hormone and if you eat a lot of meat the cells in your body grow too fast and don't develop properly or something like that (as far as I remember).

Love / How to make a Polish guy happy? (we're moving to Mexico) [51]

@GefreiterKania, thanks to those "sins" you're happily married now :)


I may be wrong, but based on what Kania wrote about his wife, I'm thinking that she may be more reasonable than him ;)


Oh, I couldn't agree more :)

Love / How to make a Polish guy happy? (we're moving to Mexico) [51]


Oh, so you and your wife had the opportunity to get to know each other both personality-wise, character-wise and sexually and thus you found out that you're a match. But you deny this opportunity to other people as "indecent"? How hypocritical of you!

Love / How to make a Polish guy happy? (we're moving to Mexico) [51]

@Poloniusz, I don't know what it's like in that hell-hole where you're apparently living lol, but in Poland in majority of relationships both woman and man have jobs and so both are "supporting their lifestyle" lol Actually, I remember reading an article some years ago where it was stated that people often move in together or even get married in Poland, because life is more affordable then - they can split the bills. So both man and woman are benefiting from the situation.


Men created this world for themselves - in which hypergamy was prevalent. And it was prevalent because men denied women education and jobs and so women had to find a man who would support them. This trend is reversing nowadays and the funny thing is that the misogynistic right-wingers like you are hating it lol So on one hand men like you complain how "opportunistic" women are and at the same time they're longing for the times when women had no other choice but to marry in order to survive and they had to stay married even if the husband was bad.


That is obviously a lie - it's your made up fantasy not backed up by any research or statistics :)

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@jon357, I personally can't have colourful art on my walls (even though I like colourful art), because I rest best in neutral, light-coloured spaces. I also don't like living in a space with too much clutter, especially on walls (although I like visiting such places lol). I'm guessing it's due to the fact that I grew up in a one-room flat with pretty dark furniture, dark carpets and a big, reddish corner sofa.

Btw, jon357, do you have any souvenirs from your travels, from places where you went to for work? You know, like handmade stuff, for decoration, something like that?


The thing is that it wasn't self-published, it was published by an actual publishing house and that's why I was so surprised by the low quality... The images weren't downloaded from the internet either, since the illustrations fitted the text and were clearly drawn by the same person. It's just they were really bad...
Maybe that wasn't a big publishing house (I don't remember which one was it), but there a lot of beginner artists who are just starting out and would be ready to make better illustrations for peanuts or even for free just to have something published, so it was hard for me to understand why they went for such low quality...


Me too... I didn't have my own room, so my desk was in the kitchen with a wall on the left and an old, noisy fridge on the right - there was no space for any cozy corner ;/


I've noticed many artists and craftspeople are - or, at least, of the Ikea's storage options (they use those mainly for storing art and craft materials) :)


And she has Ikea's pegboard over her desk too :) It seems to be very popular among artists and craftspeople and I was wondering whether not to get it at some point too since it's easily customizable, comes in different sizes and it saves desk space:

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@AntV, btw, could you post some of the paintings by Peter Doig that you like and explain why you like them? I'm honestly curious why some people like this kind of art. 🤔


So maybe I'll try to explain... Firstly, you have to have that "calling" for making art to become an illustrator in the first place. Because in order to reach that level at which you're good enough to be an illustrator you have to learn and practice a lot. And you won't learn and practice enough without that drive to make art. You'll just choose another profession. And then in order to be a successful illustrator you have to love what you're doing. It's not only about illustrators - the same apply to anyone working in any creative field, imho... You have to have a passion for what you're doing. That's why artists fear being replaced by AI so much, because they can't just get another job... Because making art isn't "just another job" for them, it's usually their life's passion, their dream job, part of who they are... Of course, just like with every profession you can experience a burnout, but it doesn't mean that this "calling" wasn't there and isn't there.

For example, here Kate Pellerin explaines when and why she decided to become an illustrator:

mossery.co/en-ca/blogs/inspiration/artist-collaboration-an-interview-with-kate-poopikat

"I went to art school thinking I'd go into character design and work for game companies such as Blizzard. It wasn't until my second semester at Seneca College when one of my professors told me my work didn't communicate anything.

He happened to be a children's book illustrator and he basically opened my eyes to this whole new world. Since then, I've strived to make my illustrations more narrative-like, and begun to pursue a career in picture book illustrations."

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Yes, he is and I forgot to add that I really like how he paints people - he's great at it.

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And the author :):

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And those are her digital illustrations:

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I forgot to add two important reasons - because she enjoys it and to make people like me happy :)))


Me neither, but I would like to see his paintings in real life :)


Oh, Lenka, I'm afraid you have no idea what you're talking about :))))


I don't remember exactly, it was quite some time ago, but probably yes... That wasn't the problem though - a skilled and experienced digital artist can make lovely illustrations for children's books, even resembling traditional art. The problem was the skill level...

For example, there's a children's book illustrator based in Canada, Kate Pellerin, who creates both traditionally and digitally (in Procreate).

Here are some of her works done traditionally:

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Then why did you write that you "would classify Annie Stegg more as an illustrator" as if an illustrator wasn't an artist?


Not really, it depends what you're illustrating and what kind of illustrations the client expects :) (and it depends what you consider to be "solid technique" vs "weak technique"). Also, I've seen some really bad, very low quality illustrations in e-books for kids... The author/publishing house must've been really stingy or with zero taste lol


As for style - that's rather rare, from my observation... Often authors pick an illustrator precisely because they like their particular art style and they'd like that style for their book.


I disagree... It doesn't matter much if there's a material to base on or not. The artistic creative process is the same. Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo were basically "illustrating" the Bible :))) Does that mean they weren't artists?

Also, you and Atch seem to forget that besides the paid work illustrators usually create their own art too :)))

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Based on some of his paintings I'm wondering if he has drinking problems lol:

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And some more:

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Another artist :)

Nick Alm is mainly an oil painter, but he also paints some very good watercolours. His paintings are defenitely not "comfort art" for me, since they can be sort of depressive and they sometimes make me feel uneasy, but I like his art style and compostion in his paintings. I like how he builds shapes with his looser brush strokes and creates a sense of intimacy in some scenes - it feels like we're in the room with the person depicted in the painting.

nickalm.com/about/

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I have no idea when that photo was taken - I found it on the internet and posted it because I like the fact that her painting is taller than her ;D From what I've managed to find on the inernet it seems that she was born in 1982 :)


But... as far as I know she isn't an illustrator :) She's a painter. I am not aware of her illustrating any books or anything of this sort. 🤔

In case of confusion about what I mean:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illustrator


Sorry, but I'm not sure what you mean by "illustrator"...

If you mean the difference between an artist and a painter (as in "rzemieślnik"?) then I guess in your view the Renaissance and Pre-Raphaelite painters were "illustators" and not "artists"? 🤨

If I'm to be honest I don't care about that "question", that distinction anymore :) Especially that in English people seem to use the word "artist" very freely. I used to care about that distinction when I was at art school. I guess that's what an art school does to you - it turns you into a bit of an art snob :) Fortunately to a great extent I grew out of it and nowadays I just enjoy art.

That's why every time I'll post about another painter I will probably just call them "artists" interchangeably with painters or illustrators, because I personally consider illustrators to be artists too :)


I did and I'm afraid he's defenitely not my cup of tea...
From the paintings I've seen I only like this one a bit - I'm not crazy about the style, but at least this one is pretty good:

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@AntV, I can't say that I am.


You probably could if you practiced :)


I forgot to post the artist herself :) - Annie Stegg with one of her paintings:

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And some more:

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