Yes, I would.....probably....maybe...
Thank you for your answer, BB. Finally! ;)
As for me, I would NOT
be grateful to the rapist. I would console my wife, heal my wounds, regain my strength, and at the first opportunity I would kick the motherf*cker out of MY FUCKIN' HOUSE
, no matter how "ungrateful" it might seem to the bastard.
I'm just casually mentioning this, because the question of gratitude would seem to be a recurring one, when it comes to Polish attitudes towards the Soviet Union. :)