I feel likewhen my partners friends (living in the UK) find out that he is with an Enlgish woman they are intrigued and want to know everything about how we met and more about intercultural relationships .. the men want to know things which I wont even go into.
agreed.
That's why (as a few already suggested) the whole thing about Polish men this, Polish women that, is just a pile or garbage and pretty simplistic attempt at useless and false generalizations.
Most interpersonal issues that I see here are mismatches between people - not between national backgrounds - a lighthearted chick and a deeply loving fella, or the other way around. That happens among Poles, Brits and Americans. I see no reason why the same shouldn't happen between Poles and Brits and between Poles and others.
As for the superficial, I still find my wife beautiful after 24 years, and yes, she is Polish. But I can certainly appreciate how beautiful and worthwhile are the women of other ethnic backgrounds.