I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it!

Whether I have is none of your business. My boyfriend wouldn't make a baby and then tell me to abort it.

Why is she the evil wretch?
Shall we forget about the weak and pathetic male in this equation?

Can someone please tell me, why is it difficult to understand that if you have sex without anti-contraception you will, for sure, get pregnant sooner or later?

If you don't want a child use anti-contraception, you don't even have to be intelligent to understand that. If you don't use it you should get prepared for getting pregnant. It's the laws of nature.

Can someone please tell me why some people are not reading though the whole thread before posting?

She clearly stated that she did used the contraception.. obvious troll is obvious?

Or get yourself spayed or neutered. An operation like an abortion, but this way you won't be creating a new life and since you don't want a kid anyway, get yourself spayed.

But spayed women tend to get fat.

Can you please read my post more carefully. It was a general statement referring to all women and men.


Reversible anti-contraception is usually a better choice. Most persons want to have children sooner or later.

and men also I hope :) both are responsible to use contraception

It certainly is. I also edited my sentence to underline this.

sorry I see this now :))

Why don't you educate yourself before lecturing others about really serious matters? You know TV is not the most reliable source of knowledge about anything.


blah, blah, blah discussion is an essence of democracy blah, blah, blah so I wonder whether some posters here are enough developed to be considered humans blah blah blah we should consider whether their existence don't disturb us too much blah blah blah I hope that you tolerate my opinion (although this tolerance may turn fatal for you)

"It's a fetus not a baby" yeah that's what they alway say, it helps their conscience cope with killing a baby

Yup and you saying that doesn't have anything to do with this thread and the person who created it, bollocks..

about fetus not a baby, so.. loosing all the sperm during the intercourse is killing innocent hundreds of babies because you are actually preventing those from beeing born, if not than what is the actual moment of it becoming a child? gaining immortal soul rubbish? when it is beginning to feel? impudent religious ignorance at it's finest..

Did I say that it has nothing to do with this thread? Of course it has something to do with the thread. It was my opinion about the subjects expected/unexpected pregnancy, responsibility and normal logical thinking (which is a big part of this thread).

My post had a lot to do with the first post in this thread. But it was not about her, it was about the subject she wrote about. And it was addressed to all woman (and men).

I assume that you understand the difference. :)

Best regards,
SwP

Life has been created when the sperm fertilizes the egg.

About this, if he told this other girl he was completely single then he has no respect for you in the least. Just to be sure, was he talking/texting in Polish with her and if so, do you totally understand it?

Regarding the rest...

Ultimately it is not this guys decision. It's yours. You are carrying the being inside of you. This guy might have got you into this situation but clearly he cannot cope with being a father, yet probably you can cope with being a mother. Speak to people around you, trusted friends, trusted family. Your father might have opinions but they are based on thought and opinion rather than reality and when faced with reality his opinion might change. You were in a relationship for a year with this guy so it wasn't casual and your dad will realise that I am sure.

In the end, as I said, the decision is yours so please do not let this guy decide for you as clearly he is going to pursue the relationship with the other female. So either way you don't end up with the guy. Basically he wants you to abort to protect his reputation with this other female and that's not right. Make sure if you choose to abort the reasons are nothing to do with the guy.

Good luck with whichever decision you make. :)

The poster of this thread is very stupid for having sex and not being on the Pill or having the man protect himself its her fucken fault and number two its against Gods law to Kill Abortion is murder I am against it if you kill a baby you are cfommitting sin and will cease to exist after the lord secound comming.my God I have had sex and tried for years to have a baby when Iw as married but no luck but no stupid people like this one get knocked up and doesnt want it its fuckn selfish. I tried 7 long years. and I have dated and had sex but was smart enought to be careful.my mom was against abortion and had me and my father left my mom when she was pg with me. no ecuse live on have the baby or give it up to a family that wants a baby.do whats right and next time dont be so fucken strupid.

yeah, your pope is, LMAO

I don't think you are confused at all. Deep down, you know what the correct course of action is. You have a moral code, so live by it. You know what you ought to do. What is the course of action that will cause you the least guilt? You do know what it is.

LAGIRL, she is two months, she asked questions, but never said she was going
to give the baby up, she said that her boyfriend of one year is talking to another
girl and wants to have a relationship with this other girl , meantime shes pregnant
and he wants her to abort the baby, she never said she was going to.
its not her, its her boyfriend who is stupid and needs his arse kicked

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blah, blah, blah discussion is an essence of democracy blah, blah, blah so I wonder whether some posters here are enough developed to be considered humans blah blah blah we should consider whether their existence don't disturb us too much blah blah blah I hope that you tolerate my opinion (although this tolerance may turn fatal for you)

thank you lesser. im on the same page you are.

LA Girl, please read all of my post before you make assumptions.. i DID USE CONTRACEPTION!! It obviously didn't work. As i've said before no Contraception is 100% effective and i am proof of that.

You need a therapist.

lol...why don't you crawl out of the dark ages! It's the size of a kidney bean and is not a baby, it's a fetus.

I am not advocating abortion as a form of contraception...just think lesser, if this lovely Polish man hadn't forced her into this situation she wouldn't be forced to make this decision. If men were more responsible then women wouldn't abort!


Or a good fooking slap!

True :)

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Unless you're religious fanatic this is the only way to see it. This is not a baby !!!

Well nobody said anything about people getting pragnent because of lack of contraception in this thread - so there was no reason for you to write that..

It sounds like some random thoughts on the spur of the moment... fi like me saying:

Can someone please tell me, why people are not using papal surprise calendar?

Somehow connected to the thread, but is it really? I don't think so.

Current Pope is a very wise man indeed. However in my previous post I referred to science, because science is what you deny.


Obviously you are wrong but then let think about recycling!
So what is going on with aborted "fetus"? It is trashed, right? What a waste of resources! Why they do not produce a soap out of this? Would you really feel comfortable in your bathroom using such soap? If not, why? Please explain...

It's generally used by medical students or incinerated, as Ive stated i's only the size of a kidney bean at 8 weeks so hardly big enough to make a bar of soap.

Look lesser I will say again I am not advocating abortion - a very close friend of mine premiturely had her little girl at 25 weeks pregnant, Victoria is now a highly inteligent and beautiful 16 years old - our abortion laws are wrong and i do believe the limit should be a lot lower than 24 weeks.

The facts still remain that if men were more supportive and responsible, less women would consider abortion.

what are you talking about man? What science am I denying, probably your own science or whatever the church makes you want to believe.

abortion considered murder ?
Should abortion be considered murder? In the United States, women choose to end about 25% of their pregnancies through abortion. This number has been gradually declining since 1979. This is similar to the Canadian figure of 21%, but is much lower than that of the former Soviet Union 60% and Romania 78% where contraceptives are in short supply. Abortion is morally, scientifically, and The human egg is already clearly alive when it enters the fallopian tubes, many hours or days before it has the opportunity to be fertilized. Women release one about each month between puberty and menopause - a few hundred in a lifetime. Almost all of these are destined to die and be ejected from the body. Unless infertility is a problem, very little thought is given to these hundreds of deaths. Although the egg is a form of life, there

is a public consensus that it is not human life.

What type of life do you think it is if not human? What exactly is human life?