Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one

Well in the Uk this would be a crime....probably in Poland too i think....?

yes, she can... she can leave the house before he gets home and do not contact him, because what for...

Yes,but he can claim that she also blackmailed him by threatening to talk to his parents.
Only if she has bruises,will the police arrest him because her life will be in danger.

If its a rented flat she could take all her stuff to a hotel tonight so he couldn't damage anything tomorrow. Take care of her business in town over the next days and then leave.

Police and flat owner need to be informed soon.

Its not illegal to tell people the truth...i believe it only gets illegal if she asks for money or favours NOT to tell them , which is not the case here...She needs to tell the Police , so that if anything happens they have some history on the situation , and perhaps warn him what the result of carrying out the threat would be...Perhaps knowing the Police are aware of his threat would help him to realise she is not going to be a helpless victim...He is a bully , and the one thing a bully really can,t deal with...is somebody who is going to put up a fight...

I have had experiance of this kind of person before , and in every case the only way to stop it was by making their lives more unhappy than they are making yours...Even a sociopath gets tired of being arrested , spoken to by the Police , and as a last resort getting their face punched in....Not that i am advising a woman alone to get involved in a punch up with a guy..she will lose...in her case the only solution is to get out of the situation by whatever means , and keep the guy at a distance by legal or otherwise actions....

Agreed 100%...these people will not stop until someone makes them. There is no reasoning with these psychos.

There are now laws for relationships.Laws are for marriage.If sb decides to leave,sb leaves without any legal consequences.So what is this fuss about?

Its about a woman who has been threatened with a hospital stay by a no good user...or have i missed something...?

Because she wanted to take revenge on him.She threatened to reveal everything to his parents and girlfriend.

I would be just as concerned about the 'petrol money' and 'sex'

so what? how would it harm him? he'd get some good reality check...

anyway, i hope she's packing her stuff as we post here...

I hope so too.....I will be glad to hear she is out of this situation...and in a safe place..

yeah, but they never come back to say how it went...

Lets hope that no news is good news....?

Rightly so...he abuses her mentally...threatens physical abuse (and this IS a crime) and he is also cheating and scamming another family. Stop defending the ******* and support the victim.

yeah, i can hear the laugh at the precinct when he's telling cops how one of his gfs threatens to tell his mommy, daddy and the other gf about his messed up life and personality... lol

i pity you find this amusing quote=wildrover]
called being a sociopath [/quote]
i do think this is the case-

i still say just change the locks

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i do think this is the case-[/quote

Then you realise you have to get out of this situation as soon as possible....Do please let everybody know how it goes , and that you are safe.....If you need help ... just shout , one of us will get to you....Take care....

This can be solved by having a a three way.

And yet more class from the Polish/Greek crowd.

What a real man you are.

Yes. I can handle two women at a time.

Yeah like you would ever know unless you paid for it. Yourself and two hands is more likely.

Yes, a hand from each woman.

he turned up to night-i had the door locked-i hid where he could not see me- i eventally answered his calls-i told him i was not at home i was at friends-he told me to get back and see him-i said no-i told him to go spend more time with his girlfriend-he was banging on the door-i kept to my story-i stayed calm-he had told me he was seeing-her tonight-me tomorrow-hesaid i should always be waiting for him

i told him i was scared of him that he would hurt me-he said no-i told him i was happy he had girlfriend i said its okay i wont cause trouble i understand and i was staying with my friend till friday so he could see his girlfriend and i will see him on friday-he said i was good for accepting his girlfriend and he was going back to her-and he would come back friday-he believed me and he went-i was so scared-he has just called to say he loves me and not to be scared of him and what a good woman i am for keeping the secret.

i wont sleep tonight i will go to the police in the morning

Good. This piece of sh1t needs to be put in his place. He is a mistake on this Earth.

Did you see?I advised you to comply and it brought results.Don't go to the police.It will drive him mad.Just vanish.

Nonsense. Stop giving dangerous advice. She NEEDS to go to the Police so she is protected until she can manage her affairs and get away from there. The guy is mental and dangerous.

In Poland they will not believe her kind of story.It is not a feminist country.

You are very odd. It can't hurt to try and I have had pleasant dealings with the Police here. They are generally good and she needs help.