thanks shelly s for being honest.
Join a dating agency - get to know someone and then see how it goes- western culture is very different to that, that exists in India - arranged marriages are easy in comparison - in the west it is normal to date for a couple of years (some have been known to date for over 10 years) fall in love and learn about them and then the next step is to plan a wedding and then to live together and learn more and more each day about the other person.
You simply can't just walk up to someone and expect them to give up their life and home and marry what could be considered a complete stranger. I don't know how old you are Roy but I think possibly you need to grow up a little bit and consider what it means to another person to have to leave their family and to go and live in a country which is culturally a million miles away :)
You have a picture in your minds eye of your perfect dream woman, maybe closing your eyes to others is stopping you finding something that might be right in front of you.
Good luck :)