Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

Yes that about sums it up. Wonder what happened last night!

Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

Yes I agree with you. However I think Reece does not want to feel used hence this thread

Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

Well if it is the natural reaction is go for it. But I have been in a situation where the only time this particular woman wanted to see me was for sex. It is great to start with then you very quickly feel used especially when she once said to me you can go now after we had had sex. The last time she sent me text asking me to go to her house I did not reply. I do not think Reece is okay with being used.

Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

When she says she wants to use you I am not quite sure what she means by that. But it sounds to me that it is not good for you and you should steer clear of her.

Love / Getting my Polish girlfriend back?? [32]


I did'nt start this thread!. To be honest I am not sure why you are having a go at me. Finding people in a similar situation that you can empathise with can be cathartic. It was for me. It helped me a lot and gave me a perspective. I feel for the guy who started the thread and it may help him to know he is not alone.

Love / Getting my Polish girlfriend back?? [32]

If you read my post I think you will find that I did not say all Polish women are the same. Of course they are not. I was merely pointing out that a number of similar stories have been posted on this forum. I do not conclude from that all Polish women act like that.

Love / Getting my Polish girlfriend back?? [32]

Sound advice above. I am afraid yours is yet another story of a Polish women befriending a non Polish guy in the Western European country she moves to. Everything goes great for a while then she becomes cold and distant. I doubt her attitude will change. In my case whilst her attitude has softened towards me it has not fundamentally changed. I now accept where we are ( we are very good friends) and am moving on. She relocates in the UK soon anyway which resolves matters.

Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]


In my case she is 38.


There are a lot of Polish women now working as escorts in the UK. In fact there are UK web sites which specialise in providing Polish women as escorts. The British escorts are annoyed because the Polish escorts charge substantially less.

Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

Very nice picture.

Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]


Seems strange he tells her he has bought her an engagement ring and then not ask her to marry him. Why tell her if he is not going to ask her unless it is to keep her hanging on which if it is is cruel.

Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

What is their reputation in Holland. Also could you have moved to Poland if she could not move to Holland.

Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

It is right to say that because a Polish women treats you badly during a relationship then all Polish women are to be avoided that is plain nonsense. Having said that there have been a number of threads ( mine included) of non Polish men meeting a Polish women in say the UK and everything going great then all of a sudden they become cold and distant. I do not draw any conclusions from this particularly. The reason I joined this forum was to try and learn more about Polish women to try and understand her change of attitude. Although each situation was different to mine it did help to read them. As It happens we now live together and are very close although we are not back to where we were and I doubt we will. She relocates soon anyway. It has been an experience!

Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

Justyna is right ( as always) it is tough but you must move on as she has apparently decided your relationship is over.


Have you moved on Justyna?

Love / Which is better? Being single or being in a relationship? [92]

That about sums it up. Top Post.

Love / Sending this poem to a girl - cheezy or not? [53]

[quote=Wyspianska] So u think that poem is just good for make girl more interested in u and take her to ur bed? ^^ Haha, good one

No I do not think that! I think I would be stupid if I thought that. It seemed to me that the relationship established does not require a poem or at least that sort of poem. Much better to talk to her and tell her his feelings. However I do know my Polish female friend does not like discussing her feelings for me nor me discussing my feelings for her.

Love / Sending this poem to a girl - cheezy or not? [53]

Hope you feel better soon.

Love / Sending this poem to a girl - cheezy or not? [53]

No need to send a poem then!

Love / Sending this poem to a girl - cheezy or not? [53]

If you have not gone out with her at all or only for a short time I think it is way over the top and she will run a mile. Lady in red's advice seems most sensible.

Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]


Yes I accept it is a generalisation if I was referring to all Polish women but I was not. If you had read the introduction to my post you will note I was referring to the many non Polish men who have posted similar situations. That is why I used the term these Polish women referring back to the Polish women these non Polish men have posted about.

Of course I do not say this about all Polish women. And lastly it does not suck for me anymore she and I know where we are now.

Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

I guess love can make fools of us all.

Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

I cannot offer words of hope I am afraid. This forum is full of non Polish men who have met a Polish woman and have quickly fallen for her and it ends in tears very quickly. Of course each story is slightly different but there are recurring themes. For example in my case she was very hot and cold but not cold in the first month ( I have known her since 1 April). Since we have lived together ( two weeks) things are much better she relocates August 20 as she has a new job. They do not discuss feelings. They have other boyfriends in other countries ( in my case she has a French boyfriend whom she says she loves but when she talked about him when we first met she referred to him as a very good friend). She also has a man in Germany I think. I have a perspective about her now and just aim to enjoy my time with her before she relocates. After that I am sure she will befriend a UK man where she is relocating to and I will not hear much from her.

I think these Polish women like to befriend men in the country they are in and I have to say use them to their advantage. In my case I have helped her find a job, take her out and now she lives with me. She has used my feelings for her. Having said that I know she has feelings for me but will not say so. However I am glad I met her but now I will be pleased when she relocates so I can get on with the rest of my life..

You will get over it but it is tough I know.Take Care.


Very well put and I very much agree. It is best to have met the woman than not to have met her no matter the anguish. Remember the good times.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]

I take it you have a polish partner. Interested in how you met, how long was it before the relationship blossomed ( sometimes I think I expect too much of her right now we met 1 April) , how did you deal with culture differences and language difficulties. Do you live in Scotland. I live in East Sussex. Hope you do not mind me asking.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]

Thanks mate. Her relocating will be the acid test really because I will then know how much she really cares for me. As I said if she is not much bothered about meeting up then I know where we are. For now we enjoy the time we spend together which so far has been great. I will enjoy whilst it lasts. Her attitude towards me is so much better since she moved to my house.

I thought it was £5m. I think Hearts should hold out for much more.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]

I have worked with a Polish woman and also met a Polish woman in the UK who currently lives with me in the UK ( that is not a straightforward relationship which I have explained in other threads). I have also spent 5 days in Katowice with the Polish woman who lives with me. So my experience of Polish women is very limited and I am very conscious of making sweeping generalisations. However based on my limited experience I would make the following comments about Polish women ( and some of these comments could equally apply to women from other countries);

- they are very attractive;

- they have good bone structure and amazing eyes;

- they are friendly most of the times;

- they dress well and are stylish without being provocative;

- they do not communicate their feelings as they are guarded which can lead to misunderstandings;

- because of the above they can appear quite cold and ruthless at times;

- they need a lot of time to get to know you;

- you never quite know where you stand with them.

In my case my Polish female friend is now much more friendly towards me since we start to live together ( 12 days now) like she was when we first met. She will leave my house in 5 weeks as she has a new job and needs to relocate. She will live about 90 minutes drive from my house I do wonder how much she will want to see me after she moves. That will be the test for me of her feelings for me. If she is ambivalent about me going to see her then i know I really need to move on from her.

Love / Which is better? Being single or being in a relationship? [92]

I guess it may be the case of trying to make new friends thus broadening your social circle. Personally I have always preferred meeting up with female friends than male friends as their conversation tends to be more interesting and varied whereas male conversation tends to revolve around football and sex.Nothing wrong with that but can get a bit boring.

Love / Polish-American dating success stories [41]

I very much agree with the above advice. Maybe there is something you do not know that is holding him back. In my case it was my Polish female friend has a boyfriend ( married) in France, a man she had mentioned to me but only as a very good friend. I live in the UK as does she with me until she relocates having got a new job. I think when you have gone out with someone for say three months you both need to stand back and ask where is this going and then make a decision. In my case at present she says our relationship has to be very good friends only because of the Frenchman. Anyway the situation resolves itself to a large extent when she relocates in the UK next month. But it has been so tough falling for somebody and then finding out she has someone else but gradually I get over it and living with her actually makes that process easier not harder.

Love / Are men more unhappy about being single than women [47]


Yes I think you are right. If you do not want a serious relationship with him I think you should tell him that now or at least tell him you need time.

Love / Which is better? Being single or being in a relationship? [92]

I think it is a case of getting out there meeting people and you never know one day you might meet someone. I do not think you can plan to meet someone like joining dating lines but you will not meet anyone sitting at home either.I have been married twice now single and had not had a serious relationship for five years then I met a Polish woman in London out of the blue although that relationship has been fraught ( and now we are very good friends only) it is best to have met her than not. As other posters have said sometimes you meet someone when you least expect it. Good luck mate.

Love / Which is better? Being single or being in a relationship? [92]


Yes I asked her the other evening why when she first talked about him to me why she did not say he was her boyfriend ( there is the complication he is married). She says we had only recently met. My point is if she had told me the full extent of their relationship I would allowed myself to fall for her. I have now fallen for her and now have to stop but it is so tough. Especially as we now live together ( as very good friends) but she relocates 13 August as she has new job which will makes things easier for me.

Love / Which is better? Being single or being in a relationship? [92]

It is a no brainer. A loving relationship with give and take is preferred. However this is so difficult to find. I thought i had found this with my Polish female friend recently but no she wants to be very good friends as she has French boyfriend which she did not mention when we met in fact she mentioned him but not as boyfriend. Single life is fun though.