Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

frd
somewhat true but not totally! there are many cases!

Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

kasia24

You guys are in a phase of relationship that everyone gets, its nothing new. every relationship looses interest and fireworks at sometime in the life, it happens even if you are married. Firstly try to decide one thing for sure, do you want to be with this person all your life or not, and try to know if he wants the same.

Married people also get bored but what keep them together mostly is the respect of the marriage those who dont get divorced and its getting popular nowadays.

My guess you moved in together very fast, you should have given some more time and thought to moving in together. Living together should be only when you both want to marry for sure and clearly and not just romantically. seeing the same face every morning makes you get bored but then there are different things to stay together.

Just for example if you are living with your parents or kids you get sick of them too sometimes but you dont have choice to remove them from your life because its a natural relation and you dont have the authority to break it. You always find something to compromise and finally love comes back. So when you marry you almost make the similar relation but offcourse in this case you have authority to break it.

So if you want to marry him and stay forever and he also want the same, i would say think for sometime and analyze how compatible and sacrificing you both can be towards each other. then think of marriage.

Having said that i know you dont look like in a situation of getting married right now cuz you are loosing interest. Now the question is how much do you really want to stay together or not? having second thoughts somehow prove that your love is not strong enuff yet. love gets strong with sacrifices and when they are gone love fades. Discuss with him once what is in his mind and what he wants.

If he wants to breakup or thinking of breaking up let him go, i know its hard but for now do it, try to do opposite of your feelings, but politely not harshly!!! trust me if he really loves you he will always comeback, worked with me. but this is a complete plan i will tell you later.

Symptoms
He doesnot really take interest when you talk romantic?
Sex may have become a need and not passion anymore? <--this always happens
He avoids long talks with you as before?
Spends longer outside home than before?
No more sacrifices?
there can be many other symptoms of loosing interest?
So for now decide do you really love him or not? and if yes how much? Do you want to stay together and get married? I am asking these questions because they are important to keep relationship interesting. If there is no talk of marriage then relationship will loose interest finally and it will happened the very next relationship you go into, trust me it will never stop until you will grow old and stay with the last guy, not because you want to but you have to.And this you have to make him to believe too but not by words but with love.

so ask him whats in his mind and have polite sweet talks about this situation and then take the next step. Its not the time for the third person to chirp in yet, one can advice but you are the one who has to do all. I have seen people change their minds from staying together forever to never overnight so always be prepared for the worst.

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Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

kasia24
Its all about having faith in a relationship, its all a psychological play. If he really loves you he will understand, probably he is getting bored of relationship routine. I personally dont like such people, but since you are involved you have to be very wise not to loose him.

Its by default nature of a man to loose interest in a woman after he has slept with her many times. those who dont are really caring and nice people.Try to understand his nature, you are probably not the first person in his life so in the corner of his mind he has a thought that this is not my final relationship even if he isnt interested in anyone else this time, but he has his options in his mind.

You have to develop faith in him. Giving too much attention sometimes kill the importance of the person. So do a bit opposite for sometime make him need you a bit but dont let go completely, do things out of routine like one weekend together some place nice and then whole week try to meet less with genuine looking excuses.

What we often do in love that we love too much too fast and then it starts getting boring. slow down things in relationship for example if you had meetings daily turn it to 3 times a week but in a way that he doesnot notice that you are doing intentionally.

Bottom Line:
Relationships are never very strong unless both are trying. to make your partner try, you have to make him feel that he needs you. For that you have to play Yard at times. Polish people are very flimsy they scare easy off relationships they want ideal all the time the Mr.Right guy or Miss Right girl, for that they can wait foolishly until they get old and then they settle for whatever they get. (most cases not all) beware!!

Goodluck!

Love / Sending flowers to my Polish boyfriend [73]

Debianco
Polish girl wud love it, but polish guys like a beer with the flowers :D. Polish Facts!

Love / PreMarital sex and Polish women or maybe all women [46]

krysia
hats off! there are very few people left in europe like you, i wish u happy married life always

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

Karolina
well i am sexually very active its true, i am obsessed with one polish girl not all, i dont hate all but i just post facts!

southern
what grade you goto kid? still in the elementary school?

Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

ShelleyS
I agree totally


very true.
lovewithpolish

I am also a muslim in love with a polish girl but if only she was strong enuff to stand for my love. she is just like you, she is also afraid of the things you are afraid of, its totally upside down of your situation for me. but i am not a forcer, i let her free its her life her choice, if she cant stand she chose it herself.

So you shud really decide if you really love her or not?
Then how important are parents for you?
If your relationship is strong that you are sure she can live with you for life and is not gonna change then go for her but before that tell her everything and see how she reacts to that. make your decision on her reaction!!

Love / PreMarital sex and Polish women or maybe all women [46]

nomaderol
well its same for male and female no difference.

I have heard a lot about girls and even guys feeling guilt after having sex.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


This is just a perception, but the bigger question is : is sex the sol purpose of life? why everything revolves around sex?? Its just a part of life a need and not something to get addicted to. just like if you eat normal amount of food you will stay health but if you start taking excess it will kill you faster, same goes for sex.

Once you will change a partner you will never stop until you are old. specially men wont!
and even if they settle down there are greater chances of him to cheat, because now he has tasted more persons and might get bored of one. thats why marriage is important because it helps to stick longest.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


Its not about making decisions its about making wise decisions.

have you ever wondered why men are dominating the world today?
have you ever wondered why most famous researchers most famous leaders and most famous dictators were men?
have you ever wondered why there was no female prophet in the history of the world????? and then
Why there are most female prostitutes?
Why Red light areas are filled with women prostitutes than men?
Why women is used as a sex symbol or a symbol of attraction on boards and adds?
Why women has more exposing dresses than men?

What are the answers to these questions?

well there is an obvious difference in men and women and that is not based on physical strength
Nature made men/women different with different duties and responsibilities, there was a need of male domination but in a way that women dont get hurt, but today its not like the way it shud be,

men are using women in a way that they make them feel that they are deprived of everything and let them fight for more than what they are really deprived off by men.

Trust me its more in developed countries than underdeveloped countries.
I agree that in most Asian countries women are not honored as shud have been but in western countries women is in worst conditions too, being played as a toy and men misuse them.

have you ever considered why a women is called a ***** if she sleeps with multiple guys and if the same thing a guy does people call him a champ a player and not a *****? see the bigger picture

This is a mans world where you are living and corruption has ben leading for a long time, one way to mingle with it other is to see the facts.

One really has to see the real big picture. I have seen Asia, Europe and middle east, and trust me i have found women suffering in all parts but the only difference is that in Asia and middle east the local women atleast has an honor and respect in the men's eyes because she doesnot sleep with more than 1 guy in her life time and doesnot change partners on small issues. same goes for the men (general speaking on majority basis) if they are sleeping with more than one women outside marriage they are not respected although same goes here too that men escape easy due to male domination.

And dont say that you see women with respect in your country even if she had slept with more men. trust me i have met many guys from all europe and most lust on girls walking around, working with them or studying with them. reason: they wear exposing dresses more.

Conclusion: Women suffering everywhere in the world for different reasons and why? because they are going against their nature. Woman is not a lust symbol, not a sex symbol not something to enjoy. she has feelings and respect and honor, but she has to realize how to get these, and so called modernization has made her more and more get into insecurity and deprivation of feelings and honor. Trust me no cultured woman likes to have sex before marriage not even eurpeon woman. but its harder for them to save themselves since the society no longer support this thought. Men wants sex before marriage and to keep him interested they have to give sex. They enjoy too but thats not what the way they want!

Men they are not much sufferers because escape is always easy for them.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


doesnot make sense when you compare different people from different race, compare an italian man with italian woman not japneese. compare Japneese with Jap,


Well you should try getting in a real relationship you will know what i mean. Women are tricky when it comes to relationships whereas men are simple mostly, keep in mind i am only talking about commiting relationships and not mere sex partners.

Men are not egoistic they are deciders. If Logic makes sense they will drop the Ego.
Women are not deciders they just think of something and they stick on it even if it doesnot make sense and its really hard to understand them logic. You can only break the with emotions and mostly not logic.

Women are also more jealous than men. This is a world wide fact too.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


these are emotions too. and women are more egoistic than men too.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


I will also very happily marry if she is ready to change around her life 180 degree. but i have to be really sure if she is really so committed.


well i have never been with a prostitute in my life ever. and i understand that its not their ideal job either but its the lack of morality that makes them do like that, if i were them i wud die rather becoming a prostitute.


It happeneds every where and increasing greatly in Muslim countries too, but still its not so common in the real society, on forum one can chat anything because you dont know the next person, so it really doesnot count, its just a forum just like this one.


well when you live in a city you should know the whereabouts of the place. I lived quite long their so i know. you dont have to ask.


well then women cheaters will be eased and men cheaters will be punished severely, women are very emotional creation of God, you have no idea what sort of funny rules you wud hear if they become incharge. Soccer will be banned, no saturday night games, so much cleaning rules in the country blah!!! no way!

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

well i really doubt on your stats from a porn sites. The the news about Iraqi women in syria, come'on look at Iraq and look at your country the conditions doesnot match at all. And the cases are less and the list is not endless.

and about your last link well its again a limited community that does so, no doubt its increasing day by day due to removal of culture gradually and i also expect that the situations in islamic countries will also become the same as in europe pretty soon, but the reasons are same, removal of culture and removal of religions from the culture, that has been accomplished in europe.


Is not a myth, since PL was added to EU in 2004 its increased a lot, its my personal observation also, when i used to live in dublin.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


Infidelity Statistics in europe, see Poland, I dont go for Rumors i research first.
Catholic populations like Ireland (80%), Northern Ireland (81%), and the Philippines (88%). The "always wrong" response found less favor in other countries: Australia (59%), Austria (67%), Bulgaria (51%), Canada (68%), Czech Republic (43%), Germany (data reported separately: East Germany, 60%, and West Germany, 55%), Great Britain (67%), Hungary (62%), Israel (73%), Italy (67%), Japan (58%), Netherlands (63%), New Zealand (75%), Norway (70%), Poland (74%), Russia (36%), Slovenia (57%), Spain (76%), and Sweden (68%). On average, however, only 4 percent of survey respondents believed that extramarital sex was "not at all wrong." Thus, moral judgments in Western countries continue to support sexual exclusivity between husbands and wives.

Read more: family.jrank.org

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


Even if so, it will not change the fact that its quite true, Poland is in europe and europe is famous for prostitutes.
living in Britain I saw here many polish girlz came since 2005 maybe before and they got popular for prostitution i came across many.
Poland is not a very rich country i presume this might be the reason.
I have great respect for those women from PL who are living life decently and in cultural ways.
I also know many polish women who are working in different technical fields and live respected life and i honor them alot, many are my friends.

I have friends from all europe and all accept the fact that culture has gone far away from Europe. and normal family girls are becoming prostitutes. and sex is becoming a major interest of life in europe.

In most scandinavian countries prostitution is forbidden strictly but the rest of the europe is filled with it.
Poland is also a transit for human trafficking throughout europe and women are transmitted for prostitution purpose.
I cud have started the topic as europeon girls are desperate for $........ but i used Poland because its getting very popular and it has a big number of prostitutes and since its a polish network.

Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]


grammer mistake i still love her but i let her go because i didnt want to force more. I am still waiting for her to come back, maybe she will. i will wait as much as i can, maybe more.


well this isnt only my opinion when i searched differen forums i also found that and i heard from many other people too.

Love / Polish Gay Life [142]

Cancerian
were you gay since childhood or you discovered later?

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]


they cant cheat much because sex outside marriage is quite rare, so not much cheating opportunities inside country. and since prostitutes are in a particular hidden areas and its quite limited cheating. unlike europe where most cheat. in finland boyfriends allow their girls to cheat, wives cheat husbands cheat there i am sure simmilar situations in poland too. europe is popular for sex freedom, not even in USA its so common.

Euorpeon women also use pillow mostly so that voice doesnot go outside, same reasons everywhere.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

nomaderol
thats quite a way u picked to attack lolz, screaming cant be stopped they just keep a pilow on their mouth. and muslim woman in a muslim country dont cheat (again general speaking, exceptions ignored) because the culture is still strong and still in effect of religion, whereas in poland its lost as in rest of the christian world.

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

Prostitutes are everywhere in the wold its true, but Polish girls are getting popular in UK also for prostitution and around all europe. The point is not that Prostitutes are everywhere, but now the point is that PL being a big religious symbol in euorpe and i think Pope is also from Poland, but over the years PL has lost its grace and decency of culture and prostitution has become very very popular, infact they are going to other countries and doing such things. In muslim countries there is a certain community who does prostitution and its not in common people, but in europe the very next person walking to you can be a prostitute. Poor people are also in muslim countries but they never pick up prostitution as a profession to get money (speaking generaly, acceptions can be ignored). but now polish prostitution has increased significantly specially since it has been added to EU and now to scandinavia.

Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

Its true that Polish women cannot accept any other culture, My ex was polish and she broke up because she supposed that the cultural differences will make big troubles. it was true but she was just not a strong personality person. she cudnt stand for her words when i was ready to do so! i still am. but now we are not together :'( i really miss her a lot though. She was my first love!

Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

In Poland prostitution is legal, but operating brothels or other forms of pimping are prohibited. Prostitution is present in various forms in the country and experts estimated that 18,000 to 20,000 women worked as prostitutes, many of them employed in "massage parlors" and "escort services" that functioned as brothels.

Human trafficking is also a problem in Poland.

some more stats
About 30.000 to 35.000 woman are working as prostitutes in Poland.How do the traffickers succeed to hire their victims? chk for urself
unet.univie.ac.at/~a9906738/Trafficking_in_poland-homepage.html

news-poland.com/result/news/id/1278

Love / How do Polish men treat their women ? [45]


hey i shower everyday sometimes twice :P

Love / Kocham Cię vs I love you - which sounds more sexy? [55]

my GF likes kocham cie more when i say to her more than i love u, but maybe its because i m nt polish!