Albanaich 2 | 31 6 Nov 2009 / #1I've got two major personal issues with two women.Is this a Polish thing - or women just being women.Firstly there is a 20 year age gap between me and them, secondly they are professional women in there early 30's, (money/power is not an issue) thirdly we've got along very well as friends. . . .. . but.The first woman got friendly with me after we met on business. We went for a walk together one evening, went dancing. Seperated for few days, then met up again - this time she pushed her telephone number under my hotel room door (I didn't know she was in the hotel) asking if we could go out together. So we went out most nights for a couple of weeks, cinema, long walks, meals, sight seeing great fun (like we were dating) it felt really good - but no hint of anything sexual at all.I moved to the other end of the country, so we couldn't meet up, but she still sends me emails asking if we can meet up, tells me our friendship is very precious and she loved the time we shared together.Follow to a few months later, another girl, in a fairly unpleasant situation, I did the father daughter thing, got her sorted out, then she starts phoning me (daily) and sending me emails to say 'I miss you and we have a very precious friendship' (almost the same words) again, no hint of anything sexual.I had a bit of an arguement with her and told her you can't send emails saying 'I miss you' to a 55 year old man and I didn't want to see her, but we patched it up and we meet up to go dancing as friends - but its wierd. I picked her up on Wednesday night and when I met at the Hospital (they are both doctors) she ran across the parking lot to greet me and her whole face lit up, and she told it had been such a long week without seeiing me.They both say that want to be friends, and friends only and that's ok with me - but they don't act like friends,Confused is not the word for it. . . . .