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Polish girls and this age thing?


Wersal 5 | 19  
22 Mar 2008 /  #1
Ok... so i visited Poland a few weeks ago and saw a lot of things most of them beautiful if you know what i mean;-) but one of the strange things i saw was that a lot of young polish girls seemed to be with older guys... when i say older i mean around 10 years older or so, maybe a little less but always atleast 5 years older. This is weird, you never see this in england... never! So why is this cos there has to be some reason and i cant think why?
Wyspianska  
22 Mar 2008 /  #2
So why is this cos there has to be some reason and i cant think why?

because those older guys have money

HELLO
OP Wersal 5 | 19  
22 Mar 2008 /  #3
wow quick answer lol

yeah you say they have money but from what i saw most of them didn't, i could tell this from the clothes they were wearing and their cars.

oh and.. hello:-)
Wyspianska  
22 Mar 2008 /  #4
don't be fooled. i'm polish so i probably do know better than u lol
OP Wersal 5 | 19  
22 Mar 2008 /  #5
well that put me in my place lol

but seriously... if a girl was say 20 would she even consider going out with someone older than 25 if it he didn't have money?

because i would be amazed if these guys i saw had more money than what i had in my back pocket
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
22 Mar 2008 /  #6
This is weird, you never see this in england

Yes you do.
Same in Scotland.
Also works the other way round too, older woman, younger man.

I dont see any problem with it either way.
Lukasz 49 | 1,746  
22 Mar 2008 /  #7
and some people like to use their own measure to value others ... ;)

Going back to your question, I haven't noticed big differences between Poland and some EU countries in this case, maybe you have better eye.
panienka 1 | 205  
22 Mar 2008 /  #8
hm, i prefer older men, i think it's normal... even if he is 5 years older, it's better :) you know, this sense of safety etc hehe
OP Wersal 5 | 19  
22 Mar 2008 /  #9
ok so maybe you do see this on the odd occasion but this is when the guy drives a ferrari or something... not one of those little polish fiats.
panienka 1 | 205  
22 Mar 2008 /  #10
would you choose girl with fiat, if ferrari was possible?
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
22 Mar 2008 /  #11
Fiat - reliable, hardworking, no frills but gts you from A to B.
Ferrari - High maintenance, most likely will get you in debt, unreliable.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #12
lol, its called being materialistic :) there are plenty of girls and probably blokes like that, steer well clear of them!!!!!! they are very superficial and usually aren't worth the ride.
panienka 1 | 205  
22 Mar 2008 /  #13
lol, its called being materialistic :)

ah, of course inside is also important hehe
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #14
i wasn't even talking about inside/outside, in fact materialistic could be considered and inside trait as you cannot see, if somebody is materialistic, if a girl is looking for a guy with a big wallet and a ferrari then you aren't going to see it until it actually happens. I think being materialistic makes you sad, if your more worried about the things that come 'with' a person, rather than the person themselves, then you seriously need to have a word with yourself!!!!.

I've been used before in the past, by girls, yes, only because i'm not gay, lol. I can't say i'm super rich or anything but girl's have been with/dated/had relationships with me either because of money/reputation or achivements, so its more like a trophy rather than for the person i was/am. Unfortunately i was young then and didn't see iit coming!!!!.
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
22 Mar 2008 /  #15
Its a confidence thing.
Materialistic people tend to be insecure within themselves, they are attracted to security and confident people.
hairball 20 | 313  
22 Mar 2008 /  #16
you say they have money but from what i saw most of them didn't

That's because they spent it all on their young birds...
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #17
Materialistic people tend to be insecure within themselves, they are attracted to security and confident people.

good point, however that dosen't make it any better, just because they feel insecure about themselves, they shouldn't suck whatever they can out of somebody else, if your a sinking ship, don't drag others down with you. Sort your own issues out first :)

That's because they spent it all on their young birds...

lol :)
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
22 Mar 2008 /  #18
they shouldn't suck whatever they can out of somebody else, if your a sinking ship, don't drag others down with you.

For some reason I am thinking of Heather Mills here...
panienka 1 | 205  
22 Mar 2008 /  #20
So why is this cos there has to be some reason and i cant think why?

so why not, as you see older is better from many reasons
lol
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #21
you prefer older, i think many girls do, although i'm not sure its healthy if the girl is young herself to like older men, yes when your 19 20 its ok to want 35 year old blokes but younger, i think people should be keeping to their own age group :)

hm, i prefer older men, i think it's normal... even if he is 5 years older, it's better :) you know, this sense of safety etc hehe

five years older, lol, you've just dissapointed some of the old men on here who thought they stood a chance, lol. Although compared with you i guess i'm an old man now haha
panienka 1 | 205  
22 Mar 2008 /  #22
Although compared with you i guess i'm an old man now haha

i mean, you are older than me Karl hehe ;) Yes 5 years, 6 or 7, everything is ok, i know a man who is.. hm 23 or 24 heh but his behaviour seems to be for 15 years old boy... so sometimes it's perfect to be with older man
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #23
hm 23 or 24 heh but his behaviour seems to be for 15 years old boy... so sometimes it's perfect to be with older man

lol, who's that, sounds a little bit like myself sometimes, i'm never going to stop being a boy, its part of my fun :)

i mean, you are older than me Karl hehe ;) Yes 5 years, 6 or 7, everything is ok,

well i think i'm 6 years older than you, funny that age comes up i've never had a serious girlfriend who is much older or younger than me, all have tended to be my age.

So you've dated older men??
panienka 1 | 205  
22 Mar 2008 /  #24
lol, who's that, sounds a little bit like myself sometimes, i'm never going to stop being a boy, its part of my fun :)

i was thinking about other guy, don't worry :) although i don't think you are such old (even if you are 6 years older) and you should be glad of it hehe

So you've dated older men??

i have never dated younger men
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #25
lol i didn't think you meant me, i was just likening myself to his behaviour sometimes.

i have never dated younger men

well to be honest you can't get much younger than you, lol :):)
miranda  
22 Mar 2008 /  #26
the reason some women date older men is mainly the fact that men in general mature later than their women, so it was logical to date/marry an older men.

These days thigs are changing and maturity is not assinged to age anymore, since the younger you are the more chance you have to remain a perpetual child - just a sign og age we live in. I would speculate further, however I would bore you to death and you ar enot looking for those answers anyways.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #27
the reason some women date older men is mainly the fact that men in general mature later than their women, so it was logical to date/marry an older men.

totally agree, it does take guys longer to mature than women :)
miranda  
22 Mar 2008 /  #28
I am glad somebody agrees. That is the main reason why women date older men. It just makes sense.
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
22 Mar 2008 /  #29
I am glad somebody agrees

I agree - but then as an "older man" I would !
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
22 Mar 2008 /  #30
i'm not lder but just agree, lol, maybe i've just put myself out there but hay, honesty is honesty

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