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Why are Polish people so ruthless? [87]
Perhaps my comment was uncalled for especially on a public forum, but your comments and reasoning is immature. Given the position you hold at the place of your employment you should have know better than let your emotions and personal life choices dictate your ability to make sound decisions on behalf and in the best interest of the employer. You are unfit to hold such position in the first place. What you describe as acts of kindness and friendship can only be viewed as playing favoritism to one particular group simply because you like the girl. Even this so called act of kindness as it was described by you was not a selfish act but rather a sinister plot on your behalf hoping to get something in return. The girl, even willing to bribe her friends and grant them favors to get what you wanted. Believe it or not but this is not professional behavior or that of someone who is mature and rational.
You were and still are willing to use your position for personal gain (read revenge). Those are all signs of a derange mind, not of someone who takes pride in his work, being professional no matter how minuscule his position is, one that keeps his personal life separate from that of business. Where is your impartiality, objectivity and ability to evaluate any given situation on individual basis? You let your feelings do the thinking for you. Since when a relationship that went sour is a national trait for any group of people and how you can make that connection is beyond me. Perhaps you were wronged by someone but that’s no excuse to blame entire group of people. In time your personal feelings expended this hatred of perceived wrong to entire nationality, judging from the title of this thread. Does this sound rational to you?
Since you asked the question opinions were given, yet you still pick and choose the ones you like while dismissing the ones you don’t like. Given the fact you decided to have this discussion on an open forum you open yourself to all kinds of criticism so perhaps you should grow a thicker skin before starting these topics. In conclusion; I can honestly say you have a lot to learn about relationships, mature behavior and professionalism. Try to keep them separate.
Since I take offense to what you have said perhaps I should start a thread how inconsiderate and stock up the Brits are, surely this must be a national trait.