AnglikMan 1 | 7 4 Dec 2009 / #1Okay before I get accused of being racist please just bear in the mind the following before reading the eventual reason for my post:I very much like the Polish people, so much so that in the multi-national workforce I work in, I have often given them more help than people of other nationalities. I have given them jobs within the company I work for, have helped them beyond the call of my duty as a mere administrator by helping them in their personal lives at zero personal gain to myself - only because I genuinely like being kind to them.I fell in love with a Polish colleague so deeply that I took it upon myself to learn the language, albeit I am not fluent but can have conversations. However I never did anything wrong, we remained very close friends. Then one day she just decided I was nothing when her boyfriend gave her hassle because she is not allowed to have male friends. The last time I saw her was nearly a year ago.I have helped many Polish people working for this company to a degree totally beyond my calling so why is it then that so many have turned against me to the extent that only one of them is now speaking to me? A large number of them have treated me like a piece of dogs excrement and no longer speak to me at all even though I have to work with them everyday? There are various other countries with large numbers of employees here and none of them have done this. India, Zimbabwe, Nigeria, Slovakia etc for example.How come Polish people are in the main, so ungrateful, rude, and in one case, totally uncaring?