I have often given them more help than people of other nationalities. I have given them jobs within the company I work for, have helped them beyond the call of my duty as a mere administrator by helping them in their personal lives at zero personal gain to myself - only because I genuinely like being kind to them.
You have no idea how patronising this sounds.
I fell in love with a Polish colleague so deeply
However I never did anything wrong,
You are a star !
Hold up ! She got a boyfriend ?
totally beyond my calling
And just wtf is your calling ?
Here is some amateur Psychology for ya - you are perfectly comfortable with helping these poor,poor people as long as the power balance lies with you.
The minute there is a shift in this balance - you dont like it.
And dont try it on with anyone at the Christmas Party, they have you sussed.