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Are Polish women too controlling?


master 17 | 22  
9 Dec 2009 /  #1
are polish women too controlling
asik 2 | 220  
9 Dec 2009 /  #2
It depends on....some factors! We, the Polish women know/ and feel when to get things in our hands (that's why it seems we are controlling) to better our family life or our family future- excluding when we are mixed with muslims or with a very different (in compere to Polish) cultures - it's hard to predict, in such a situation, what can happen to the Polish women or her children, if she's, ie: abused -that's what usually happens.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
9 Dec 2009 /  #3
Some are and some aren't. Many try to be but it's a man's fault if he lets himself be controlled, rather than shaped through discussion. The golden word is NO.
terziev - | 49  
9 Dec 2009 /  #4
couldnt be said any better. the right question should be something like "are polish men too controlled".
frd 7 | 1,399  
9 Dec 2009 /  #5
I think every thread that falls into "are xxx women/men that or this" category should be deleted immediately. It's just going over and over through the same stuff. Not even on of these threads have tackled anything serious that wouldn't be a huge generalization. Most of them posted by people who had some personal issues or problems with polish individuals who happaned to be such and such.
Arien 3 | 721  
9 Dec 2009 /  #6
We, the Polish women know/ and feel when to get things in our hands (that's why it seems we are controlling)

So you're like the Borg? Awesome!

;)
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
9 Dec 2009 /  #7
are polish women too controlling

Its called under the thumb, there's many an English man married to an English woman with an indent between his eyebrows :D So in answer to your question, it depends on the woman the man and how their relationship is!
Steveramsfan 2 | 306  
9 Dec 2009 /  #8
I would not say controlling but they like to look after their men too much sometimes.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
9 Dec 2009 /  #9
That works both ways. It gives the woman a clear role but also can ruffle the feathers of men who like to do things for themselves.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #10
Polish women lack the slyness to be controlling.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #11
Lack the slyness, are you sure? There are quite a few here who could prove that wrong.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #12
Balkan slyness is of different level.We talk about worms here.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #13
Which part of the Balkans are you from? Why do you think they lack the slyness to be controlling? Have you been to Poland? Are all Balkans the same?
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #14
You know that.Polish women cannot bend or use the thousands of manipulations mediteranean women do.They simply do not know their stuff,they were not taught this properly.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #15
And how do you know this exactly? I beg to differ. Try coming to Silesia and test your theory out. You may be disappointed. Many women here are hardnuts and will squash you if you let them.

Mediterranean or Balkan? To me, Greece and Italy are Mediterranean and Balkan is upwards of Macedonia. The border is near Ohrid I'd say.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #16
Many women here are hardnuts and will squash you if you let them.

Slavic women are soft,emotional unstable,they cannot handle the pressure.They don't have the hard skin of balkan women.
The difference is that russian and ukrainian women are a bit softer than polish or czech,not that there is any big difference.
Western women are cold and that is how they avoid the pressure.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #17
Soft?? Are you kidding?? Some women here are anything but. As I said, come to Silesia and you will be proved wrong. They are tough and they know it.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #18
They are tough and they know it.

Ha,ha,polish women touch.They are soft like breast.They don't have any resistance point.
Juche 9 | 292  
10 Dec 2009 /  #19
Are Polish women too controlling?

they are taught from an early age to cunningly control their menfolk through an artful combination of manipulation, witchcraft, and pussiewhipping. Beware of their dark mystetrious power!!
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #20
What do you base that opinion on? The Poles have learned their lessons from WWII and will fight anything that attacks their own. They are defensive and can strike too. I do agree that some of their women can be controlled, esp by foreigners. In the main, they are Slavs just like yourselves.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #21
Yes,polish women need to be controlled by hard men.Real men,how russian women call them.Of course we all know this is bullsh1t since they end with the losers.(why,why?).

But they don't understand the dynamics,they think manihaistic good or bad?(good is the one who marries the girl,bad is the one who just feks the girl and leaves aka Italian,very bad reputation in Poland).
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #22
Quite a few Polish men are hardmen. Many Polish women like hardmen as they are the ones that get things done. They can't control them that easily but they like the challenge. Many women here are sharp-tongued devils and you'd best believe it!
DannyJ - | 129  
10 Dec 2009 /  #23
are polish women too controlling

Yes, Yes and Yes

Or maybe i,m just a soft C***
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #24
I think I'll return to my post of yesterday at 12.23.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #25
- excluding when we are mixed with muslims or with a very different (in compere to Polish) cultures - it's hard to predict, in such a situation, what can happen to the Polish women or her children, if she's, ie: abused -that's what usually happens.

And why do you mix with them?
mira - | 115  
10 Dec 2009 /  #26
are polish women too controlling

right, for me you're rather obsessed with the whole 'polish woman" thing.your gf checks your txt messages, she is too controlling and because of her you turn to pf to ask those questions.sort yourself out with a psychologist maybe or simply dump that girl.

and the answer to your question is: no, not necessarily.to be honest, i don't know about girls from other countries,but many polish girls are perfectly normal and don't feel the need to control their boyfriends.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #27
It is more likely that you tie a polish woman to bed with ropes than the opposite.I think polish girls are too submissive.(no woman gospoza).
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #28
Tying a woman to the bed? That's like foreplay and you are both likely to agree to that.
Balkan power  
10 Dec 2009 /  #29
Yes,polish women can agree to everything kinky like walking or biking with mini skirt without panties,wearing stockings,getting tied and a lot more,whatever you can imagine.There is nothing you cannot try with polish women,most do not have any taboos.Yeah,yeah.Sekstouristky.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Dec 2009 /  #30
Maybe the ones that are on holiday but not the ones here. Biking with no panties? Let's ask some of the girls here if they'd do that. They are sure to say no.

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