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From: Poland, Szczecin- the best city ever
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aphrodisiac   
15 Jun 2009
History / Poland before WWII or Poland now what would you choose? [390]

Well, I would have to write an essay and I would rather let freebird explain it to you. That is if you are really interested.

Somehow I think that you are not ready. Freebird does not seem to be emotionally attached to Poland unlike yourself and that makes a huge difference. He is taking a more objective position, therefore I am able to understand him better. He is also more realistic about what Poland can or cannot do. You are a little bit sentimental, with a lot of wishful thinking which is probably related to the Poland's past. It is all nice but in a long run there is a higher chance that you might set your self for being dissapointed, because you are not paying enough attentions to facts. I am speculating here and speaking in general, but I think I am pretty close to describing what I have observed reading some of your posts. Therefore, the is little room for a dialog with some Polish people. Close minds could be very frustrating to deal with.

got myself of this one;)
aphrodisiac   
15 Jun 2009
History / Poland before WWII or Poland now what would you choose? [390]

***bird may well be emotionally detached from Poland but it doesn't make his opinions better ?

I never said that it was. I happen to agree with his way of thinking more then with yours. It is just the way it is.

As for being less attached emotionally, I think it actually helps to think in a logical way. Just my opinion. I think I already explained that:).

Whats realistic, I know pretty well that Poland wont get back Lwów overnight )))))

that is just an example. As far as I know Lvow, or any other cities which used to belong to Poland are on another's countries territory. Correct me if I am wrong. How you going to bring those cities back? do you have a plan: A,B,C. You need to have a strategy:).

But if some aim is not possible to achieve tomorrow or next year its that mean we cannot talk about it?

sure you can talk about it, but you need to stay within the reality of facts.

I'm sentimental about my country but it doesn't mean I'm not realistic - maybe more so then yourself!!

I would not know and I would not want this exchange of ideas to become a competition. I wish Poland all the best but I also know that there is a lot of room for improvement in many areas and this is what young people should concentrate on, instead of dreaming about : I wish we had Lvow/Wilno and so on. This is not a main stream of the Polish foreign policies either, so it does sound really strange to me.

How 26 years old Sokrates is post communist bastard?- quote ***bird !

Well, he have heard it at home for sure. Most children follow their parent's political views.
Again, with so many young people still making other countries their home, how can one even imagine invading Ukraine? Or any other country for that matter. Poland is not a military empire/ nor an economic one

I am done here. I think I made my point very clear.
PS. calling your opponent names in the discussion is just not classy at all and you might want to reconsider, since you don't present yourself as a serious partner.
aphrodisiac   
15 Jun 2009
Life / Thunderstorms in Poland [44]

I always get a splittig sore head just before them

have you considered cutting down on spirits?;)
aphrodisiac   
16 Jun 2009
Food / Wroclaw has an Indian Restaurant [34]

thank you very much. I am growing some fresh mint this year, so I will use it, since I cannot drink mochitos all summer long LOL
aphrodisiac   
16 Jun 2009
Love / Polish men and Filipino women [73]

polish guys (the ones I met) were similar to a tasteless food :)

good cook always knows how to prepare the meal. In this situation not enough spices were used I think;) P provided we are talking about cooking;)
aphrodisiac   
16 Jun 2009
News / Polish nursery rhyme book says Germans smell and gipsies sell their children... [28]

Would it be possible to have a sane rational threaded discussion on this subject. I don't know Polish society so I am curious how this is going down.

It is hard to say, but what I have observed so far the problem is not keeping is away from children (easy to to since you, as a parent have some agency to what the child is exposed to) but the reaction of some people who see nothing wrong with it.

It is racist, it is outdated, it is just not cool anymore to have something like that printed. It is simply a low blow to a fairly good children lit in Poland.
aphrodisiac   
16 Jun 2009
Real Estate / Cancelling Tenancy Agreement Before End Of Contract Query [10]

He looked though the contract and said as there is no mention of this, civil code will apply, and that means that one months notice is required for us to leave or for him to evict us. He told me not to meet with the landlord again and to stay put and go through what was agreed at the meeting with the landlord this afternoon, which was stay here for the next few weeks and he can keep the 1500zl deposit. I thought okay, let's do that...

sounds like a good advice. I think that he was just trying to scare you and if you stay within the one months notice period I think you should be fine, since this is what the law dictates.

Keep it cool and don't let the landlord intimidate you. As long as you leave the place the way you found it you should be OK.

He has not base for taking you took court if you fallow the civil code rules.
aphrodisiac   
16 Jun 2009
Real Estate / Cancelling Tenancy Agreement Before End Of Contract Query [10]

well, you got the law behind according to the advice you have received from the layer, so I think you should be OK. From what I understand, he has not right to do that.

If in doubt, have somebody with fluent Polish on Saturday at your place for the purpose of negotiation, support and as a witness (that should put him in place I hope) and if that does not make you comfortable enough, change the locks and stay until you able to leave.

I would put my foot down if I were you and leave when it was initially agreed upon, unless you choose otherwise. Law is on your side and he can talk all he wants, unless you received the wrong advice from the lawyer. Double check to make sure.

DO NOT LET HIM INTIMIDATE YOU:)

good luck.
aphrodisiac   
17 Jun 2009
Love / THE TYPICAL POLISH WOMAN? [148]

esp when they think ppl dont understand them...

what do you mean by that. I have some stories too;)
aphrodisiac   
20 Jun 2009
Love / Gay Interracial Polish Dating [36]

Polonius3

from my observations he is an equal opportunity hater. Homosexuals is not the only group he has negative feeling about. This does not make him a better men, but we cannot expect tolerance from somebody of his caliber:)
aphrodisiac   
23 Jun 2009
Life / POLISH INSECTS CAN RUIN YOUR LIFE.... [27]

I suppose , because i am a survivor... During my life i have so many times had close encounters with death and serious injury , and i guess i am confident all will be ok....

wildrover
there is a difference between being a trooper and taking unnecessary risk.

Its slightly different now i suppose , as i don,t have the money to go seeing doctors , so i suppose i should be worried...

How much is a doc's visit these days? Are you telling me that you don't have a health insurance?
I would just borrow money from a friend or offer the doc some English lessons to pay it off. Come on now:)
aphrodisiac   
23 Jun 2009
Life / POLISH INSECTS CAN RUIN YOUR LIFE.... [27]

well, get going then, no need to risk your health that way and I am sure there are some people who would help you:). All you need to do is ask:)
aphrodisiac   
23 Jun 2009
UK, Ireland / Father's Day cards banned in Scottish schools [64]

28% of U.S. caucasion women who had children last year were single

US statistics
vs UK experience

different countries, different circumstances.
aphrodisiac   
23 Jun 2009
USA, Canada / Why Americans of Polish orgin do not exist in the USA politics? [34]

From what I understand politics is a "career" in the US. I have watched a documentary on it and I think that Poles just don't have the tradition nor the skills to par it up with other political wizzards. Is is possible that Poles in general are happy with non-political achievements in the US?