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Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]
Zimmy, why are you so one sided?
I overview; the one-sidedness is all yours as you ignore all the facts while continuing to believe the standard hogwash.
I think your relationship- your past with your ex, has put you in a place zimmy
that none of us will understand,
Typical female projections; cut out the psychobabble. I deal with facts when it comes to issues, not 'feelings'.
sorry, thats what I am seeing.
So you did not look at my links which conclusively give you real facts and not the agenda driven nonsense that is so prevalent. Like many women you see what you want to see and not what has been objectively presented. My next comment below gives such an example.
now just because a few women (certainly not the same numbers of men) give a bloke a slap,
I cannot believe this poster even braved looking at my links, and if she did then either her comprehension skills are seriously lacking or she "sees what she wants to see".
Women hit back out of desparation, women dont just decide to start attacking a man, women are not built that way,
Pathetic.
Okay, here is a question for both of you. I will repost a link which has many disparate studies, that is, studies that are not related to each other or are agenda driven. Amathyst in particular seems to have bought all the hogwash that feminist organizations have spewed these past several decades; that men are evil and women are good. Pity.
Now here is my question;
what is it about the following link that you do not comprehend?csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm
Take some time and review the bottom lines of the various studies. and try 'critical dissonant thinking'. What that means is this; there are many assumptions we make about things which we believe to be true only to discover to our surprise and sometimes shock to be wrong. It's hard to give up ideas that make us 'feel' comfortable. Only objective and rational people can.
Get Divorce Insurance or better yet; don't get married until some semblance of equality is mandated. Divorce is frequently the ultimate abuse.
the-spearhead.com/2009/12/12/marital-insurance-an-idea-whose-time-has-come