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Krakowianka   
17 Dec 2008
Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]

all of the things you said could also be a very cowardly way of ending it without having to face you

Dropping out of school & moving seem a bit extreme just to end a relationship, wouldnt you say?
Krakowianka   
17 Dec 2008
Life / Moving back to Poland after 20 unhappy years in Canada and USA [70]

The father stayed behind but the wife and two children (18 and 8 - one was born here) are soooo happy to be back.

I dont know how the 8 year old could be so thrilled. That child started their education here, transfering to Poland would be kinda tough at this age. No friends no nothing. The others had something to return to.
Krakowianka   
15 Dec 2008
Love / Polish girlfriend and birth control! [62]

You can't get free milk without buying the cow, its a law in Poland.

But in all seriousness, M_26 you are pretty stupid to talk about your girl the way you do, and also to bring this to a forum versus talking to her. She must also be a stupid 19yr old to be letting you get away with it.
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]

she had lessons starting at 8am Mon - Wed

Not sure if this is a far stretch, but first check out the Uni in Krakow, take Cardno up on his offer help ask around. Then go to the Tarnow train station, its quite small, you wouldn't be able to miss her if she were heading early Monday morning for her 8 am classes.

But if you do end up going to Krakow, Tarnow is a 1.5 hr train ride away. I say try your best on this trip, because I'd advice against going after this try.
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]

I'd go back to the flat, and ask the landlord what happened. If she suddenly moved out, I'm sure she would have to give an explanation.

Does she have a nasza-klasa.pl account? You could see her list of friends/family, maybe try emailing to see if you hear anything back about what's going on.

I think its very caring of you to go to her home town to see what happened. Even if her father wasn't approving (be prepared for whatever reaction he may have), at least you'd know the truth and can come to closure.

Sorry about your situation :(
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Genealogy / My grandpa was from Poland - Gresom Jopfa [44]

Wroclaw gave some excellent advice to follow!

Gregorz might be just a different version of Gregory. When dealing with the past, I like to keep in mind that what someone who has been there knows often trumps conventional wisdom.

I'm not talking from convential wisdom, I'm telling you that Grzegorz is the official name in Polish for Gregory, no other variation is that name. Hence why your grandfathers name seems foreign. Like Wroclaw stated, he had a Jewish name in a Catholic country, it stood out, that's why he likely compared it to Grzegorz. This also leads to another point that I didnt want to get started on, to get flamed. A man with a jewish name, leaving Poland during the 1930s when most Jews fled, living in eastern PL where most Jews lived. Lots of items in common for you to research to be sure you know your family for real.

But remember that some members of the family have secrets. Among these can be something embarrassing like a serious crime, suicide, or a child born out of wedlock.

One of these secrets may be your grandfathers family. It was quite common to change your name for fear of being labeled Jewish. While you are pressing that he isn't. He may have been, and decided that secret will stay with him, or he is the first in his family to announce being atheist... doesn't mean the family line was. Keep an open mind when doing your research. If you press that on items you are unsure about, you wont get far in finding the truth.

When Poles came to the US, few came during the 1930 period, that's why this is setting off a flag. Also, Poles upon arrival would shorten their names, from Kowalski they could have changed to Kowal, or Koval, or possibly changed to the american word for their last name's translation. Transitions from Gersom to Gregory more likely, than to Harry. Harry is totally different, kind of what Jews did to hide the fact they were of Jewish descent.

How can you have a Jewish name? Judaism is a religion. He was from Poland, not Israel.

Are you serious? All jews do not reside in Israel, there was no Israel at the time your grandfather left Poland. Jews were dispersed all around Europe. They typically chose old names from the first testament. Gersom is not a polish name, very rare actually. A catholic polish mother in the early 1900s would not just pick a name like this, hence getting back to the topic to have an open mind in your research. Take the advice Wroclaw provided on checking out various sites & records. Do you know the names of Gersom's parents?
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

To be honest I would think that was a slightly innapropriate text message ending to send a colleague

I second that. If he's not fluent in the language, it seems he sure tried to get that "piekna" in there, and has made you paranoid. Did you guys ever hang out with him, or with him & his gf? Maybe if you did, you could see how he acted towards your fiance.

I'd say leave it be for now, and see if she mentions him in conversation later.
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Genealogy / My grandpa was from Poland - Gresom Jopfa [44]

he always pointed out that his name was a form of Gregory from Poland

Gregrory in Polish is Grzegorz, not Gersom.

Even though he wasn't Jewish, maybe his family was, hence how he got that name.

Either way, you should try and chat with that aunt, or first verify what his real name is, because if you are saying Sopfa, Topfa, you will have a hard time trying to figure out history without a correct name.

Also, as Wroclaw stated, lots of names were written last name, then first name. You should find out the real name.
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Genealogy / My grandpa was from Poland - Gresom Jopfa [44]

If he is Jewish, the early 1930s was a period when many Jews sought exile in other countries, feeling the unrest towards Jews, some sought visa's to the US (few due to immigration restriction act of 1924) and some to Palestine.
Krakowianka   
10 Dec 2008
Genealogy / My grandpa was from Poland - Gresom Jopfa [44]

Where it says previous names he has Gresom Jopfa and that's what became Harry Juva

You know, a lot of people changed their names when they arrived in the US. He could have one name, then entered the US as Gresom Jopfa, then americanized and changed to Harry Juva. Either way, they don't sound very Polish.

Did you do google searches for the names? Do you have any Jewish links in your family? The name Gersom is an old Jewish name... it was one of the sons of Moses.
Krakowianka   
8 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / No US Visa Waiver for Poles - 8/9/07 [96]

Polish guy wants to buy a car but doesn't believe the mileage is accurate so he asks if the dealer turned back the meter

Why bother even asking a dealer this type of question. Has anyone ever met an honest dealer? If they were, they wouldn't be turning back the miles.

Other nationalities tend to favor business with their own, but Poles in Chicago try to rip you off more if you're Polish... then complain that there is no solidarity.
Krakowianka   
8 Dec 2008
Real Estate / People who bought in Katowice Oak teraces phase I and phase II [102]

Thanks Wroclawboy for the detailed listing :)

Based on everything you've listed, the 32K pln that SusanC mentioned, doesnt seem that expensive. My mom purchased a new condo and had to do the finishings herself and came out at just that amount, and she did this about 5 years ago, when labor & materials were presumably cheaper.

I wonder if these "fit out" companies offer the same finishings for homes in "surowy stan". Do they?
Krakowianka   
5 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / OBTAINING POLISH CITIZENSHIP (living in the USA). Petition documents? [28]

If she just used me to permanently live here, is there a way to take it back.

If she has her permanent resident status and 10yr green card, then she is set, and no "taking it back" based on the claims you stated.

She didnt have to stay with you this long, as soon as she had her green card, she herself could "sponsor" her family, without you, so if this is your main reason for this fraud thought, its without basis.

Perhaps this relationship, is like others regardless of immigration status, someone cheated, someone fell out of love and decided to split. Its sad to hear she would just leave her kids like that.

Here's a forum for immigration, they might be able to help. visajourney.com
Krakowianka   
5 Dec 2008
Life / Thrift Stores in Warsaw [9]

My friend informed about TomiTex today!

Their website says "TOWAR MOŻNA OBEJRZEĆ PRZED ZAKUPEM". Wow, how nice of them to actually let you SEE what you are buying! A revelation!
Krakowianka   
4 Dec 2008
Love / How to date Polish girl/boy ?!!? [13]

is the Polish ppl are rly so weird? NO! The only barrier can be language

Actually, I've found that Poles sometimes exclude foreigners as possible dates, on purpose. They dont want the drama with 2 languages and situations of misunderstandings. One friend of mine said she wont date a non-Pole, because she doesn't want to translate everything he would say at a family gathering. She would want her parents to understand her mate, and this topped her list of criteria.
Krakowianka   
4 Dec 2008
Life / God parents (chrzestni) in Poland [8]

she is the most selfish lousiest good looking woman on earth

She has never called. My uncle hasn't spoken 2 me since I was 5.

Maybe your attitude has something to do with it?
Krakowianka   
3 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / Polish Resturants in chicago [12]

I enjoyed a polish resturant in chicago called : Peaches and Pears..

I've never heard of this place. Where is it located?
Krakowianka   
3 Dec 2008
Travel / Nice places to visit around Krakow [14]

What about the salt mine in Bochnia, its about a 45 min train ride from Krakow, but worth it. Its not as "touristy" as Wieliczka is, and Bochnia is much older. We had a tour guide and explained lots of interesting stuff. They even have an underground hotel/motel type arrangement, where you can sleep in the mine. When we were there, the head religious Indian guy was there for a 2 week stay/retreat. He also had his own staff to clean, cook & entertain him.
Krakowianka   
3 Dec 2008
Life / Warsaw Vs Krakow which is best for raising family and working in? [21]

listings are in English but when I talked to them they said you need to also know Polish.

The listings are in English, because they seek bilingual people. If they write in Polish, many Poles with no english skills will apply. So this is a method to weed them out.

Actually Moscow being 37th does not look right on that list. I hear that Moscow is quite expensive?.

Moscow is #1 most expensive city in the world. Its followed by Tokyo; London; Oslo, Norway; and Seoul, South Korea.

forbes.com/2008/07/23/cities-expensive-world-forbeslife-cx_zg_0724expensivecities.html
Krakowianka   
2 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / Why would someone leave Poland for the US? [120]

I think the US has plenty of immigrants to supply the bottom of the food chain. I agree to think we dont need any more for a while... maybe would help us get out of this recession quicker.
Krakowianka   
2 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / No US Visa Waiver for Poles - 8/9/07 [96]

if poles have a visa waiver there will be so many illegal poles immigratnt i US that wont want to come back home

Actually a lot of the illegal ones have or are leaving. Why stay and make $10/hr, when they can go to the UK or Ireland and make at least twice that and be "legal" and not worry about being caught.

The only people coming now, are grandma's visiting their grandkids, or people just to see the US. Now is hardly a time to flock.

Actually, so few people are coming/travelling, that LOT has reduced their flight schedule quite a bit.
Krakowianka   
2 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / Why would someone leave Poland for the US? [120]

don't work that way here in the USA, not at all.. tell someone you're not ana american citizen and see how long they listen to you then..

are you even in the US to be claiming what you do? who the heck goes around stating what immigration status they are, if its a legal permanent resident, or a US citizen before they start talking, to see if someone will listen? maybe people are judging you on your poor accent and you feel the way you do.

I have no idea where you get your info on all these educated people that flocked to the US. Here in Chicago, 80% have at most a high school education, any one with a college degree is young and immigrated within the last 10 yrs. The only exception is those doctors & dentists... of which the population is quite small compared to how many Poles are here.
Krakowianka   
1 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / Why would someone leave Poland for the US? [120]

dcchris:
it only matters if you are born in america?

yeah, that's actually how it works.

No, that's not how it works.

“Give me your tired, your poor; your huddled masses yearning to breathe free; the wretched refuse of your teeming shore; send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me. I lift my lamp beside the golden door.” If you have ever had the privilege to stand beneath the Statue of Liberty in New York, you would have seen these words inscribed on its base. For over 100 years these words have called out to people from all nations—welcoming all, no matter who they are, to come to America.
Krakowianka   
1 Dec 2008
News / POLES the BLACKS of EUROPE? [104]

Polish people like to copy black people

So do other white people.

Thank goodness Poles don't speak Ebonics.
Krakowianka   
1 Dec 2008
USA, Canada / Black Friday (in American stores) [28]

I think we need places like that to keep the unemployment lower and there are people willing to work for $8 an hour!

Walmart pays minimum wage, not $8. I think the only good reason to have these stores is that they are cheap to buy in. But as for lowering unemployment? I think unemployment compensation from the state is higher than the weekly wage at Walmart.

I think they need a union, lol