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Patrycja19   
30 May 2007
Life / Priests in Poland [28]

nowogrod , near lomza Wroclaw.. was extremely rude to my cousin, said no information
about your family.

A this is what I want to do. I know this is wrong, because it isnt like we dont
contribute to the church. the other church we had written to, my mom side
said that what we gave was like two months salary to them. so it isnt like we
are frugle with it, we give what we think should be given.. that is only right by our
thoughts..

Thanks for the help A :)

Wroclaw do you have some connections ?? :)
Patrycja19   
30 May 2007
Life / Priests in Poland [28]

And the answer is: because she should have paid :):)

we always do G, more so then we are told to by professional genealogists.

he just didnt give her his time..

our family gladly gives gifts to the church each and every time.. no problems.

can someone look up the monsineur ? I know thats not the right spelling, but
I do want to write to him or if perhaps there is email? <~doubt, but this would be
nicer :)

Ps. Please with sugar ??
Patrycja19   
30 May 2007
Life / Priests in Poland [28]

ok, I am bringing this back up to top.. I am still upset, because what harm is
it that you want to know your heritage??

makes no sense. I would like to get in touch with the monsineur?

whomever is in charge of the smaller parishes.. is there one?

Im not a church goer, so I have no idea. but it would help if someone could
least find the proper person. I know this isnt right, and I am all about making
things right.. people have the right to know, those in poland as well as outside
of poland.. I just wish this wasnt the case, it wasnt expected at all..

Anyone?? your help will be greatly appreciated .. ALOT!!
Patrycja19   
30 May 2007
Life / Priests in Poland [28]

Where do I begin?

One of our cousins went to poland couple of weeks ago. she had great time,
and is excited about going back.

while she was there, she stopped in our ancestral home-town and decided to
ask for some help from the priest with some records. of course she thought as
I did, that this wouldnt be a problem.

It was.. so my Question is WHY?? Why is it such a difficulty for someone to learn
more about their family?? I thought that this was part of the priests job, or
whom ever is appointed to share this information as it is supposed to be. that is
what I am hearing, that the Priests are not supposed to deny you information.

I was also told to get in contact with a monsinur <~spelling please?
whom we should speak with because this is wrong!! and he was very rude. last
person you would expect to be rude to outsider.. he told her there was no information and sent her on her way.. but I had recieved some records from the same

parish not even two years prior.. so why is there information one year then not
the next??? or is it that they make the decisions on your family and whether you can
learn about them?

I am just curious as to what answers I will get. ive never snubbed poland and
I dont think we should be snubbed.. so whats the answers to this?

I thought priests were all about values, and family? or is this wrong?

I dont have anything against poland, but I know if it was me, I would have not
left till he told me why my familys info wasnt there.. I dont care I would risk
the brooming!!

:)
Patrycja19   
29 May 2007
Life / WHY IS POLAND SO DIRTY ???? [44]

To be honest it is the last thing I want my kids doing.

I know what you are saying, but, as kids, it teaches them that this is not the way
we want our city, our state.. some might see, others will not and will grow up
to be those very litterbugs who just dont care.

nothing wrong with putting on some gloves and working in the dirt..
its a soap and water fix.. and some self satisfaction that you actually did something
good for the community, and with little help from the news papers, could
publish something that says, " We can learn from our children" heading!

Yes the local council should be doing it, but while they are not its getting worse.
those who drop it should be punished, but is there enough officers around to
actually ticket these litterbugs? and if the kids initiated it, wouldnt it be ironic
that the city or state decide to actually act on it and pass some sort of law that
does require those to get ticketed for it.

I dont know if this is always been the process there, but here if you get caught
its a hefty fine here..
Patrycja19   
29 May 2007
Life / WHY IS POLAND SO DIRTY ???? [44]

Suburbs are spotless and i love it.

Me too. I get out the hose and clean my own part of my street.
sometimes when its windy, the garbage from someone elses house ends
up in my front yard, but easy fix,, its nature that did it. so I cant really get mad :)
Patrycja19   
29 May 2007
Life / WHY IS POLAND SO DIRTY ???? [44]

Its not my country yet , only when i get citizenship in like two years time ur Polish u shud be cleaning up bro.

Why not get together with some teachers of some schools and voice that this is
not the way we want out children to live, it would stand out more if children are
making a difference, then maybe the older ones who are spitting and or just
throwing things on the ground, or not taking care of their litter will see the examples
these children are setting forth which is should be the adults doing it, but hey,
if it has to be children they learn from, it isnt such a bad thing, sometimes we can
learn from our younger generations to be a better person..

have these schools gather for a clean our earth day, and walk to those areas which are the most littered and clear it away :)

just a friendly suggestion. we do it here in America, I think its great idea.. and
these children will probably be featured in a newspaper which might just get
those litterbugs attention..
Patrycja19   
28 May 2007
News / Tinky Winky from tellytubbies outed in Poland [145]

u guyz are messin arent ya :) LOL

ok, going to corner, Head hangin low, " OH WOE IS ME"
I feel bad that I said so many mean things about a purple tinky winky..

"runnin to my room now" she stops!!

I promise you all, I will never say it again!! I just promise!!
She turns ever sightly " evil grin etches on her face.. " well Maybe"

Muwhahhahhahhahhahahahahahahah "cough" hhaahahahahahhahahaha.
Patrycja19   
28 May 2007
News / Tinky Winky from tellytubbies outed in Poland [145]

and yes he is a symbol of homosexuality, but its not something that young children would pick up on.. the

I have nothing against homosexuality, but wearing something that symbolizes it
in a childrens show is really going overboard.. what purpose is it to do that, whether
the kids pick up on it or not, it sure doesnt need to be flaunted in every aspect of
life,, if they want to be considered normal then start doing normal, its not like
homosexuality isnt accepted more now, so why keep throwing it in every dam thing
out there.. for what reason?? to show you are homosexual.. I have limits to what
I find appropriate, and I do think things get way out of hand at times and this causes
problems more so then if they just be themselfs.. and it doesnt require whereing
skimpy clothes in public!!!

everyone else acts normal, so its time to wind it down a bit !!! start focusing on
more important issues then who you want to get in bed with...

sorry, but thats my feelings, I have friends who are, they even get annoyed at this
im out of the closet march.. we know, weve known for a long time, so please lets
just start being more respective towards each other.. keep it private. I dont tell
the whole world about my private life, and dont need to display it in public to
tell everyone that I am strong.. and that isnt courage, its plain out rudeness.

I dont care if your heterosexual, homosexual.. drag, whatever..

set some limits.. and I thin they should make the tinky winky wear the normal
costume, he has a problem with it, find someone else to do the job.. cant be that
hard to jump around in a outfit ...

Imho
Patrycja19   
27 May 2007
UK, Ireland / English people attitude towards Poles? [761]

What is a teaching thread? My wife might be a ewwwwe but she still speaks better Polish than you! In fact, so can I.

he calls his own wife a sheep, what a dork.

you post then you tell people to not respond, how bout you just not post?
least then we all wont feel inclined to call you a idiot.

your attitude towards Polish is sickening.. why join if your going to trash them?
your interests are what?? explain this so we can better understand your reasons
for joining??

you want to learn more? or are you the expert of 15 years of marriage to one..
in my book, those who think like you do are really arrogant Azzes..

you dont like everyone else's opinion, but they have the right to state it as you do
so if your going to dish it out, be ready to take it..

you could always join a dork forum, they would be happy to have you..
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
News / Polish/German/Russian relations [304]

You mean they out numbered the Germans....and thats why they won!!

how bout you include that all world powers were fighting..
heres some reading for ya!

worldwar-2.net
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
UK, Ireland / English people attitude towards Poles? [761]

You will find them all over the world, they all look and sound the same but like the sheep-you will never meet a clever one!

and who made you the clever one , you cant even handle a argument, I would change
my studies if I couldnt argue a good case.. your sure going into the wrong profession.

And many are also too picky.

this I agree with. whos fault would that be.. their own..
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
News / Polish/German/Russian relations [304]

No I don't think I would be speaking German.

yeah good thing us Americans didnt get involved .....
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
Love / BLACK GUYS POLISH WOMEN [809]

This happens when you try to express an opinion.Personal attacks follow and you have to defend.

as it was said before, its the way you carry yourself..its not our fault your this
way.
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
UK, Ireland / English people attitude towards Poles? [761]

but I saw a guy

Fisz, a guy to how many people??

I work hard, my hubby, I am sure you do, and your GF and so many others.

so right now , to that guy its 4 to 1

I agree. that is why I said some, <~who dont want to work, but their are those
looking right now , the economy is supposed to be up, but there is still people
trying to find work..

ive also met my share of lazy's and when they give me a excuse, I say whatever..
you will be the one who suffers later on when you dont even have a pension
to keep you going when your older and want to retire. good luck.

people dont think of that crap when they get a job , they think money for now that
is it, but its money now and later..
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
UK, Ireland / English people attitude towards Poles? [761]

some are good and some not so good,

yeah, and from what I see and who I know personally, The type of workmanship
he describes is not just a polish problem. if someone is really into this type of
business, his rates will be reasonable, not cheap, the quality of work will be
excellent and you wont have a problem with a guarentee's if something is not
done correctly. its dont right the first time because the man behind the work really
does care and knows this can make bad business if he fails to produce a quality
project..

we have lazybutts here in the states too, from personal experience, my mom had
hired a guy to do her kitchen, they went without running water for two days because
he was inbetween jobs.. which no one expected this to happen, it was supposed to
be a one day project and turned out to be a mess.

really to tell you the truth, its another way of backlashing at the polish for
taking away their jobs, while I do agree that some arent quailfied for certain
work, personally its annoying to keep hearing the same whinning all the time
and my thoughts are get over it already!
Patrycja19   
26 May 2007
UK, Ireland / English people attitude towards Poles? [761]

Actually, this is another common complaint about the Poles.

michal, like with any company or contracted 0ut businesses, these guys you hired
could have been less then credible, but that dont mean the whole population of
electricians are like that, we have same problem here, and if one guy does a crappy
job, you dont pay till he fixes it, and not all take their time and do it right and they dont have to be polish to do a crappy job, so your trying to shoot down the polish over one

small group of contractors , well, sorry, I think your grabbin at straws...

People in general, depending on how well you checked his sources and background
can be lazy, and not credible, so if you hired them, and didnt go thru the normal
process just to save a few bucks. it is your fault... case dismissed!!
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / Someone please explain this to me [14]

And it does not matter anymore, we have said our peace. Any hope of friendship and reconciliation has just gone to hell. Thanks Patty, but this things, are just meant to be or not to be.

well, it looks as though you made your decisions, I hope your path leads you to
better days.. maybe this is what she needs then, for everyone to leave so she
can realize that all the best things in her life she pushed away..

whatever the reasons, i hope things smooth out for you, take it easy
nicgentile and try to stay focused :)
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / Someone please explain this to me [14]

its either all or nothing

Im stopping you right there , she said she isnt ready yet, doenst mean she will never
be, when she says things changed, its probably because you making her choose
and she sees you differently then the person she fell in love with.. you cant make it
happen or not, love grows, all the nice things add up.. stay friends , help with what
you can, but dont drive her away, your making the choices, its two way street you
have to lighten up or you will lose.. and see her often and just be there, she will
see that your the honest and good hearted one. you dont have to bend over
backwards, just being there, for other situations besides money, like going out and
talking..

thats it, I should just start a dear patty thread.. lol

I am ignoring my chores.. I hope it all works,, just dont force the me or the door
issue.. :)

I'll be going to Augustow near our home town Bialystok and she is already creating issues about it. So I told her that if she wants to come, its all good, it could be good time for us to figure our selves out, but she can't seem to make up her mind.

you should probably go without her, the only sense I can make is that she
is fearful of losing you, but for what reasons? and her friends saying she
messed up and you possibly leaving is creating anxiety for her because this is her
last shot at something good..

And she told me that before me, she had someone wait 6 years for her to tell him it wasn't going to work. And he waited patiently and he was crushed,

well, six years is a long time to wait,, i hardly think he would wait such a long time
and not know which way a relationship is going. she might not have felt the same
as he did, with you it sounds different.. she is confused.. maybe feeling rushed?

six years you can fall out of love with someone , every relationship is different so
I wouldnt compare the two either.. he could be in her eyes just a very good
friend whom she didnt want to hurt so badly but did so under her consious eating
away at her..

why dont you ask her plain out, do you love me or not? if she says no, then move on
if its I dont know, then shes keeping you around for that just in case, and if she
says yes, your rushing her, so try to be more patient.. all in all ,ask for honesty.
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / Why some of the polish girls look so cold but they are not? [16]

it is the human nature of all females being like this.

its called stress . everyone male/female posses a stressed out concerned look on their
face, when in thinking we dont smile all the time, we are thinking so our facial
expressions "MALE/FEMALE" will look cold. ive seen some stone cold looking men
faces too, you dont always smile, matter of fact, you hide it all under beards
and mustaches so we dont see the softer side of you..

how you like that for a human nature sterotyping?? yeah thats what I thought..

now I am going to smoke a fag!!

Though it takes time for them to show alot of love for there man.

how do you know her father wasnt the culprit? maybe it was a man who showed
her how cold life is???

we learn from our piers, your personality molds from what you interpret lifes all
about, quit placing the blame on just women for christs sake..

Im not done,, when you look at someone and say, they look cold, your judging
that isnt advice. your plain and simple making a statement that you think is correct.

everyone has different experiences in their lives, some worse then others, people
carry burdens daily and its only sensible to look at someone and ask whats wrong
or maybe offer some smiles, people do possess smiles, just because they might be
in deep thought or minding their own business , then someone comes along and
judges a facial feature?

its more cold of someone to judge then to actually possess thinking abilities which
you dont have.. think before you type, that to me is cold.. down right freezin!
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / Do mix culture marriages work in Poland? [68]

im mixed up in my marriage, lol or maybe Im just mixed up?

ahhh well, I have to get something done today and stop being so lazy
its my day off, I am enjoying it with all of you but need to really get
moving..

its memorial weekend, so I plan to go visit my parents graves which my dad
was WWII veteran. have to go buy some flags and flowers..

hugs to yas.. have a great day :))))))
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / Someone please explain this to me [14]

She said, u know, I had ur picture in my wallet that was stolen. And I asked why, to which she responded, cause its normal for me.

first of all, she probably still has feelings, and second why would you even
think its just polish women who do this?

when you break up, it depends on the situation, some might not feel they did the
right thing, she could still have feelings but because you show so much arrogance
she dont want to let down her guard and get hurt again. why would you send her
money? you still have feelings for her obviously, so the two of you need to sit down
and get your sh*t in one sock and talk about it.. love isnt about rules.. who says
your supposed to get rid of all evidence? I had dated my husband and broke up
with him and carried his pic around for two years before we re-united and we
always stayed friends, I felt that was necessary to accept him then to abandon
him, we always stayed in touch, and I did things for him and he for me, so it isnt
a rule of relationship to get rid of the picture, maybe she told you so you would
give her another since she can't be with you physically she still has your photo !!
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
News / American wanting to know about views from Poland [37]

Don't be so paranoid ;)

we live far more comfortable then our parents did. and their parents and their
parents.. and so on and so on.. :)

I can tell you, when my lights went out last week, I had to pee in the dark, thats
fear!! what if a spider was on the toilet?? lol
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
News / American wanting to know about views from Poland [37]

insecure borders

theyve been insecure,, illegal aliens been coming to United states since
I can remember, but now since they want to put a stop to it, they are getting
riled up, why do you think they come to the land of livelyhood? how else you
going to feed your family??

every president since we nominated minus a few, know when the balls in their court
they hold it over the nation.. whats new???

social security,, hmmm hearing that is been gone since I was a kid,, still there..
I dont agree with the crap they pull, but as long as people work and pay it will
be there,, how is it going to not be there?? are people of the united states going
to stop all consumer production and become couch potato's??

sky-rocketing fuel prices

again, bush with the ball in his court.. when he leaves the next guy will hopefully
put a stop to it.. he is soakin us dry.

you have some points, but look at the great depression?? what the heck, they
survived it, my grandfather lost everything just about less the home the lived in
thats fear!! when you cant provide for your family, because the whole city you
live in is getting food rationed off and practically starving. weve come out of it before
we will come out of it again.. you are trying to instill fear, which makes people
stop living,, im not buying it,, if I thought of this daily, my life would be crap..

its the war thats crunching us, because all the govt spending is going towards it.
all these other issues suffer because of it,, why do you think our senators are trying
diligently to stablize our states spending, bush isnt having it..

what is so retarded is, all these news men following govt officials who are just having the time of their lives on govt money, makes me sick, we work they play.. and

dont get me started on the ones who get busted for looking at child porn..
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / My Polish boyfriend never says 'l love you' to me, what should i do? [93]

Patrycia I love your way with words. :)

lol, thank you, I try to be inspirational when I can :)))

if you at the begining think of how to protect your money from divorce,

Pre-nuptuial agreements.. or am I way ahead of this conversation ? LOL

oops that was meant for moire :))

wroclaw's name was thrown in the quote for some reason... sorry wroclaw :)
you know I still think about doughnuts :) LOL have you brought in any lately?
Patrycja19   
25 May 2007
Love / My Polish boyfriend never says 'l love you' to me, what should i do? [93]

You cannot force him

moire,

Im truely thinking this isnt your soul mate.

it appears as though he likes the cake and eat it too situation. it doesnt matter
your career, because he is content with that, but your convienence is just out there
in the open for him to use and he is using it.

my suggestion is call his bluff. he knows your going to be available, so do what he
said to you, tell him, well, its been nice, but, I want a man who is willing to make
me feel like a woman. so I am cutting you loose..

my guess is, hes thinking he has you wrapped around his finger, and this shouldnt
be this way, its equal or nothing!

I dont know about you, but loving a man that doesnt feel that way about me isnt
worth my graceful presence next to him.

you are not a piece of dried up bread, your young and want more. so why waste
time on someone who is a prune? kick his shrively butt to the curb..