DBK 23 May 2007 / #4yes i think they can workCan you tell me what we do for childrens day in poland? my gf is polish
Justyna69 23 May 2007 / #8I guess you're asking me if I would marry one of them... Yes I would if i'd loved them.Love doesn't know races, countries, religions etc........ If it's a true love...But I don't fall in love very easy........Matter of character and preferences......I prefer to enjoy my life.... I feel too young to marry anyone....
warmmilkychoc1 1 | 50 24 May 2007 / #10it seems as those of you who are asking this question are people living in an almost white area/country/..........here in london we was asking this same question 30 yrs ago.....now its the norm and its 100% accepted over here...its normal as it is normal to brush your teeth in the morning :-)
unicornes 1 | 99 24 May 2007 / #15it may works, but ppl in mixed marriage must work harder. there are girls from europe who marry arabs, without any preparation, i mean, they know NOTHING about that culture, how should they behave, what shoudl they expect. 'because i fell in love'. after some time differences start to pinch. . and lack of knowledge appears to be reason to divorce. but if we try to find out as much as possible about our future - let s say- arab, moslem husband, if we accept his way of life, if we know what should we be ready for in relationship with him-then it should work!
FISZ 24 | 2,116 24 May 2007 / #16there are girls from europe who marry arabs, without any preparation, i mean, they know NOTHING about that culture,Yeah...they don't know that in some of these Arab countries women have NO rights and are prsoners within the country. Like Iran for example. There are American women who marry and go to his country just for a visit and are never able to leave.
unicornes 1 | 99 24 May 2007 / #17that shows, how stupidity disturbs in life:D the more u know, the BETTER u sleep:P
OP 99nat122413 1 | 11 24 May 2007 / #21one of the main reasons why i have mention this is due to the fact that, two different cultures have different values and ways of doing things.some people have we brought up in the way their parent expect them to be. thats why most people stick with thier own values and race. its like a islamic person dating a person african. you rarely see that happening
Lady in red 24 May 2007 / #22"its like a islamic person dating a person african."Erm.....I think many African people are followers of the Islam faith. Not quite sure what you mean in this respect.Marrying someone from a different culture and staying married is really difficult, so many problems to deal with that sometimes you can get quite worn out with it all and then the marriage disintegrates over time because of this. It's hard !! Love doesn't always conquer all, you just think it will when you first fall in love and everything is wonderful at the beginning. :(
OP 99nat122413 1 | 11 24 May 2007 / #23there is always one person who says a funny comments. you make me laugh
OP 99nat122413 1 | 11 24 May 2007 / #25well ok, african people is not a good example but what about a person from pakistan dating a person from india. most people who come from india are usually sikhs or hindu and people who come from pakistan usually follow the islamic values. in both of these cultures, it is a mortal sin for a person with different faith do get married. you hear the news all time, families killing families. even if for example two different people from both theses above cultues abandon thier families, relationship still tend to be hard and usually end up in a divorce. I personally believe people should love thier partners for who thier are , but for some people love involve thier culture. How many chistian and musliim people see have a sucessul wedding? my opinion Noagree or notshare your thoughsjust want to hear people opinions..
FISZ 24 | 2,116 24 May 2007 / #26I'm sure the most difficult is getting past the family. You'd just have to live on neutral ground. Love can change anything including religion. Many people convert.It can work if you work it.
FISZ 24 | 2,116 24 May 2007 / #28Because other cultures can make discussion more interesting. When you're in a relationship with someone, you want to learn everything about that persons culture. You can live by both. F ex I have no culture in America, but I try to learn everything about my gf's culture because it's interesting for me and it creates many discussion points.
