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Why some of the polish girls look so cold but they are not?


crasyman77 11 | 37  
3 Apr 2007 /  #1
why do polish girls give the impression to be cold but then they are not in reality. Though it takes time for them to show alot of love for there man. Once they love you though no other woman can replace them. My girlfriend realy conqeured my heart
muzyka  
3 Apr 2007 /  #2
why are you generalising about personality traits and turning them into a national characteristic??? Appearing cool on the outside, but hiding a warmer interior could apply to any nationality and probably does.....
ukinpoland 5 | 338  
3 Apr 2007 /  #3
I dont think it is a case of being cold but more a case of shyness. I imagine you met her in a country different to that of her own. My girlfriend was different at the start but then you have to realise that women are genarly different in Poland. They behave much more elegant and dont normally sleep with guys the first time they meet them. So they have to think how an English girl behaves and is probably thinking is she behaving much differently. There is also the language difference which between 2 people isnt very bad but all around her every day she hears a different language so it may have been hard for her to feel comfortable. Anyway Polish women rock and they are very loving towards their men.
Amathyst_  
3 Apr 2007 /  #4
So they have to think how an English girl behaves and is probably thinking is she behaving much differently.

Yet another generalisation!

They behave much more elegant and dont normally sleep with guys the first time they meet them

Oh and another :)
mbti  
3 Apr 2007 /  #5
My husband thought when he saw me for the first thime "there is no chance in the world this chick is going to take notice of me" - I did, but it took a little while for things to develp, and now marrid for over a year both feel very blessed and extremely lucky to have met each other.

On another hand - what is the go with some saing that polish girls are easy???????
are they cold and then easy or am I confiusing it with something alse?
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
3 Apr 2007 /  #6
women are genarly different in Poland. They behave much more elegant and dont normally sleep with guys the first time they meet them.

maybe in Poland they might.. but not most of ones Ive seen out here in the UK :)
OP crasyman77 11 | 37  
3 Apr 2007 /  #7
you are right everyone i didnot say that polish woman are cold i just said they look cold. i met my girlfriend more then a year ago and regret nothing of being with her. polish woman know how to love and respect their man. and also know how to keep their man satisfied and feel warm. POLISH WOMAN ARE GREAT.
szarlotka 8 | 2,209  
3 Apr 2007 /  #8
To repeat myself (not unknown) I think we smile to be polite in the UK whereas Polish people tend, in my limited experience, to smile when they are amused. They also tend to be a little more reserved and formal when first meeting someone. But when the smiles come they are warm and genuine. None of that 'have a nice day and give me a tip' smiling that you sometimes (and I repeat) sometimes get in the US for example.

Statstical note: The conclusions drawn are from a small sample and may not be statistically significant.
dannyboy 18 | 248  
3 Apr 2007 /  #9
Thank God there are 'some' women still left in the world with old fashioned morals such as faithfullness, loyalty, and monogamy.

This trait can often be found in Polish women, its getting harder and harder to find it in Irish and British society.
muzyka  
3 Apr 2007 /  #10
its getting harder and harder to find it in Irish and British society.

what might the causes be for this deterioration?
jqme  
17 May 2007 /  #11
Think SOMEONE should speak about Polish guys here.... also very bravado but subtle in private at times....my experience (non-pole but with 'em for years) generally (sorry for generalization - but my own 30 year experience as an outsider from them and also living in Poland more than 4 years) not the easiest people...

nonetheless artistic, and interesting but not for those who want a simple existance
The Polish girls I have met are generally extremely self-assured (I think it's a matriarchal society despite the men's testosterone levels) and don't put up with much BS - however can play coquettish when needed
mamma mia  
18 May 2007 /  #12
not the easiest people...
nonetheless artistic, and interesting but not for those who want a simple existance

can you elaborate please?
Trainspottting  
23 May 2007 /  #13
Thank God there are 'some' women still left in the world with old fashioned morals such as faithfullness, loyalty, and monogamy.

This trait can often be found in Polish women, its getting harder and harder to find it in Irish and British society.

Is this some kind of joke? Polish women are faithful and monogamous? Hahaha...good luck.
389 4 | 31  
24 May 2007 /  #14
My few thoughts on this...

I don't know if its so much of Polka girls being cold then it is the human nature of all females being like this.I think some females feel the need to look ''cold'' because they don't want men to think they are easy to talk to and stuff, so they leave cold or mean expression.But usually most of the women are pretty easy going once you talk to them.And i gotta say,i dislike when girls look cold or mean because some doesn't fit that look.I often look and say ''girl smile some...'' But there are just those females who are just straight angry looking, them, even a smile won't make them attractive,they are born to look angry for some reason.
warmmilkychoc1 1 | 50  
24 May 2007 /  #15
i have to agree with the cold look....my polish girl has not got that "typical polish look" and she says she is happy this way.....she calls the typical polish look a "stoney look" which is obvious 2 everyone if they are honest but when you do see a stunning beautiful polish lady it is normaly a girl who dont have the typical cold look...agree ?
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
25 May 2007 /  #16
it is the human nature of all females being like this.

its called stress . everyone male/female posses a stressed out concerned look on their
face, when in thinking we dont smile all the time, we are thinking so our facial
expressions "MALE/FEMALE" will look cold. ive seen some stone cold looking men
faces too, you dont always smile, matter of fact, you hide it all under beards
and mustaches so we dont see the softer side of you..

how you like that for a human nature sterotyping?? yeah thats what I thought..

now I am going to smoke a fag!!

Though it takes time for them to show alot of love for there man.

how do you know her father wasnt the culprit? maybe it was a man who showed
her how cold life is???

we learn from our piers, your personality molds from what you interpret lifes all
about, quit placing the blame on just women for christs sake..

Im not done,, when you look at someone and say, they look cold, your judging
that isnt advice. your plain and simple making a statement that you think is correct.

everyone has different experiences in their lives, some worse then others, people
carry burdens daily and its only sensible to look at someone and ask whats wrong
or maybe offer some smiles, people do possess smiles, just because they might be
in deep thought or minding their own business , then someone comes along and
judges a facial feature?

its more cold of someone to judge then to actually possess thinking abilities which
you dont have.. think before you type, that to me is cold.. down right freezin!

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