JustysiaS
6 May 2008
Love / I just met a Polish lady & we like each other, but its complicated. [26]
i do not think life is black and white. if the guy was totally innocent here, he wouldve told us the whole story without the "complicated" bits in it, thats what i think. if you feel like youre in a dead end relationship and you might've grown apart over the years, sit down with your partner and talk to her, see how she feels. maybe she doesnt feel like its over yet and she is not looking for "replacement" yet either? maybe it will actually hurt her feelings if you move on so fast. growing apart in a relationship is not only caused by boredom but also the lack of communication. even if it is over, you must have this talk no matter how much you dread it. i know the polish woman seems interesting and a breath of fresh air, but you dont really know her yet by the sounds of it, so why sacrifice something that was so important for so long for something so sudden and unclear? im usually not the first person to jump at ones throat, but as i said, i do not like when somebody who is in a relationship is already looking for a "better model".
and as for you, really stop being so desperate to offend me or annoy me everytime i post something on this forum. you dont like me - thats cool, but be a grown up and try act like one without picking on me all the time for no apparent reason.
i do not think life is black and white. if the guy was totally innocent here, he wouldve told us the whole story without the "complicated" bits in it, thats what i think. if you feel like youre in a dead end relationship and you might've grown apart over the years, sit down with your partner and talk to her, see how she feels. maybe she doesnt feel like its over yet and she is not looking for "replacement" yet either? maybe it will actually hurt her feelings if you move on so fast. growing apart in a relationship is not only caused by boredom but also the lack of communication. even if it is over, you must have this talk no matter how much you dread it. i know the polish woman seems interesting and a breath of fresh air, but you dont really know her yet by the sounds of it, so why sacrifice something that was so important for so long for something so sudden and unclear? im usually not the first person to jump at ones throat, but as i said, i do not like when somebody who is in a relationship is already looking for a "better model".
call me what you want, i don't care
and as for you, really stop being so desperate to offend me or annoy me everytime i post something on this forum. you dont like me - thats cool, but be a grown up and try act like one without picking on me all the time for no apparent reason.