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From: The Low Landz
Speaks Polish?: Ein bisschen
Interests: Just(y) kiss me deadly, tonight

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tomekcatkins   
11 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

We don't have iceskating here mate.. This is a decent sized town in the northwest of england. We don't have 3 metre snow and -20 degrees here in england.

Wiem Curtis mate, ;-) I mean those artificial ice rinks! :-)

Im just going to be straight with her tomorrow. Ask her if she lives me, if she does, ask her to come out with me sometime. If not, thats it.

You mean "loves me"? Or does "lives me" means something like "if she stands me"? Anyway be calm. Even if she doesn't loves you, she might still like to go out with you. From my experience I can say that with girls things doesn't go that fast. They mostly like friendship and intimacy more than being in a relazione. :-)
tomekcatkins   
6 Dec 2007
Love / Sex in Poland (Not dirty or advertising post) [27]

i need a girl for friendship or longrelation

if u need me u can mail me or phone
muktaaa@yahoo
ibnuuuu@hotmail
muktaaa@gmail
00-88-01819107078

->bride.ru
tomekcatkins   
6 Dec 2007
Language / Why do people want to study Polish? [90]

What about you?

I like the girls and the culture. When you speak the language I think you better can get along with people (- you are less seen as a tourist). Especially when you visit someone's family. I know from my own parents that they speak reasonably English, but (of course) not as easy as their mother tongue. :-P
tomekcatkins   
6 Dec 2007
Life / I am buddhist, will I be mistreated in Poland? [6]

I would like to travel to Poland but since I am budhist I dont know if there is a chance polish people will mistreat me because of that since most polish peoplke are catholic, are they tolerant to other religions?

No, they will love you, I'm sure! ;-)
tomekcatkins   
29 Nov 2007
Life / rules and regulation for marrying a polish girl [68]

I LOVE HER. I WANT TO MARRY HER BUT NOT NOW BECAUSE I'M STILL A STUDENT AND WORKING PART TIME ONLY

SHE IS AFRAID TO LOOSE ME SO WANT ME TO MARRY HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BUT HONESTLY I LOVE HER AND I WILL NEVER GO FOR SOMEONE ELSE

Hey I believe you love her, I only want to say that you must not let yourself forced into a marriage. Just think careful. Two months is (too) short to get to know if your relation will hold forever.

Just start living together first and watch how it turns out.
Good luck!
tomekcatkins   
29 Nov 2007
Life / rules and regulation for marrying a polish girl [68]

One advice DON'T do it because she pressures you. Because you have a high chance to have a divorce if the relation doesn't work out as well as it looked in first instance.

I advice you to wait at least one year and then carefully decide if you are made to be together for eternity.

The real reason? Maybe she likes to go to bed with you and don't wants sex before marriage? Could that be possible?

Anyway be careful! Love can blind!
tomekcatkins   
28 Nov 2007
Love / Gift for Polish girls - question [56]

What she will really like is if you make your own *special* perfume for her. It's not hard to make such, just use your fantasy! :-) Maybe something with licorice-water, lemon juice and a bit of baby blood. And when you give it, just make sure she will put it on, even when she tells you that she want to save it for later, because she finds it to precious. ;-)
tomekcatkins   
26 Nov 2007
Language / Ciebie <-> tobie [22]

Ok. got it! Thank you both!
tomekcatkins   
26 Nov 2007
Language / Ciebie <-> tobie [22]

What is the difference between "ciebie" and "tobie"?
tomekcatkins   
26 Nov 2007
Life / I want some Polish Christmas. [22]

You can hide in his sweater when it got thrilling. I'm sure he will not mind. :P
tomekcatkins   
26 Nov 2007
Life / I want some Polish Christmas. [22]

Just play some nice Christmas songs, watch a nice Christmas film maybe.
imdb.com/title/tt0081505

Furthermore, google.nl/search?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Anl%3Aofficial&channel=s&hl=nl&q=polish+christmas
tomekcatkins   
26 Nov 2007
Life / I want some Polish Christmas. [22]

Find out what he likes. Or ask friends of him what he likes.

Polish rock/punk:
* Pidzama porno
* Kult
* Happysad
* Lao che
tomekcatkins   
14 Nov 2007
Love / Are men more unhappy about being single than women [47]

Im gonna have to take off my shoes and beat them with it.

<3

No. I met many many many great boys in life and didnt fall in love. Just dont want and dont do :D
It is possible.

I think you actually want to fall in love, but you are way too afraid to get hurt. So you build up a nice wall..?
tomekcatkins   
13 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

whats this, an interview?! ;)

Yes it's an interview for the Justysia Times. - Thank you for your time. :-)
tomekcatkins   
13 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

weeeell, i know some men who would call that sort of behaviour 'camp' but alright. ha ha

Well I meant it ironic. Personally I fall asleep when watching GA (when watching football also btw :P).. :-)

PS - why the sudden interest in my avatar? just curious. had to get rid of the old one cos it was attracting some weirdos and jerks...

I already had such a feeling........ <:-) You know what a nl.youtube.com/watch?v=52FRvAxmsa0 Siamese twin is? :-P
tomekcatkins   
13 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

i thought only girls done that! :P

We men are emancipated now, so now we do the same. And after it we don't watch football but Grey's Anatomy instead! ;-) :-D
tomekcatkins   
13 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

or for yourself.

Or for a clothes buying-spree in Poland.. ;-)

PS - Who is that Siamese twin on your avatar Justysia? :o :-D
tomekcatkins   
13 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

I think she is getting a distance indeed. Point is that she feels probably that you want more then just friendship, and I think she is right with that.

I believe that you helped her because she needed some help, but I think also that you have stronger feelings for her else you wouldn't mention the guys with whom she went out.

Like some on the forum said, just try to forget her. Those type of girls are mostly so interested in their selves that they are not looking for friends but only for people who can please them 100%. No-one can please someone for 100%, so they will be alone until they change their attitude.

I wasted one year on such a girl and I hope you won't do the same. Keep in mind that a person can look sooo cute but if that person is very selfish, you cannot have a nice relation with her.

In the end you don't want yourself ending up working, cleaning, cooking, doing the kids while she is polishing her nails and watching show news. ;-)

Most people are stupid so don't put too much money and effort in them. Save your money for good friends! :-)

PS - I'm not saying that she should love you, but just some kindness is in place I think. She could ask you out, or at least answer on you sms I think. I had some girls who loved me but I didn't loved them, but once and then I went out with them just to give them a good time because I think that it is nice if you can make someone happy with just a bit of effort.

Edit:

And about those other guys, you have a big chance that they have nothing more then their flash and cash. If you read some threats on the forum, girls mostly want someone who is interesting and pays attention to them and is romantic once in a while.
tomekcatkins   
10 Nov 2007
Love / Why my Polish girlfriend's mother started to ignore me? [74]

Jeez pal! Good luck! You're a really good friend to help her to get off those drugs. - But keep in mind that mostly it's a life sentence. I know stories of former addicts who where clean for some years and then started again. So look good after her in the future!