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rules and regulation for marrying a polish girl


rohit21sa 1 | 8  
29 Nov 2007 /  #1
I'm getting married to my polish girlfriend after two month so would like to know how is it possible?

i'm a non eu national and my girlfriend in polish
i'm here on student visa ( two years left to expire)

can you guys tell me if i can marry her in Uk or need to go poland? If i want to marry here

where i need to go?
what documents required ?
and how long will it takes?

i'm not intrested to get polish citizenship
only marrying her because she is forcing me to marry her as soon as possible and even her family. don't know real reason behind it...
Zeze 9 | 79  
29 Nov 2007 /  #2
only marrying her because she is forcing me to marry her as soon as possible and even her family. don't know real reason behind it...

right I will bealive you

i'm a non eu national

i'm here on student visa

some one will have right to work 40 hours a week

smart boy !!!

Oh I know you love her I do
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
29 Nov 2007 /  #3
westminster.gov.uk/communityandliving/registrar/marriage/immigrationrules.cfm

Dont think its possible. Try getting married in Poland.
tomekcatkins 8 | 130  
29 Nov 2007 /  #4
One advice DON'T do it because she pressures you. Because you have a high chance to have a divorce if the relation doesn't work out as well as it looked in first instance.

I advice you to wait at least one year and then carefully decide if you are made to be together for eternity.

The real reason? Maybe she likes to go to bed with you and don't wants sex before marriage? Could that be possible?

Anyway be careful! Love can blind!
the_falkster 1 | 180  
29 Nov 2007 /  #5
URL

very nice link! thx ShelleyS!
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
29 Nov 2007 /  #6
Where a person applies for a certificate of approval with the intention of engaging in a marriage of convenience to an EEA national it should be noted that such a marriage will not afford the non-EEA national a right to reside in the United Kingdom. Regulation 2 of the EEA Regulations 2006 specifically excludes a party to a marriage of convenience from being a spouse.
OP rohit21sa 1 | 8  
29 Nov 2007 /  #7
The real reason? Maybe she likes to go to bed with you and don't wants sex before marriage?

I LOVE HER. I WANT TO MARRY HER BUT NOT NOW BECAUSE I'M STILL A STUDENT AND WORKING PART TIME ONLY

SHE IS AFRAID TO LOOSE ME SO WANT ME TO MARRY HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BUT HONESTLY I LOVE HER AND I WILL NEVER GO FOR SOMEONE ELSE

Try getting married in Poland.

SO I NEED PERMISSION FROM HOME OFFICE. THAT'S NOT A PROBLEM
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
29 Nov 2007 /  #8
and how long will it takes?

If you practice some multitasking then you could do the kissing while you're sliding the wedding band on her finger. I'd say it's a matter of seconds ;)
tomekcatkins 8 | 130  
29 Nov 2007 /  #9
I LOVE HER. I WANT TO MARRY HER BUT NOT NOW BECAUSE I'M STILL A STUDENT AND WORKING PART TIME ONLY

SHE IS AFRAID TO LOOSE ME SO WANT ME TO MARRY HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BUT HONESTLY I LOVE HER AND I WILL NEVER GO FOR SOMEONE ELSE

Hey I believe you love her, I only want to say that you must not let yourself forced into a marriage. Just think careful. Two months is (too) short to get to know if your relation will hold forever.

Just start living together first and watch how it turns out.
Good luck!
marek s - | 269  
29 Nov 2007 /  #10
screw her. tell her you get married when the timing is right for you.
right now you dont have a pot to **** in.
she wants to marry for papers
OP rohit21sa 1 | 8  
29 Nov 2007 /  #11
she wants to marry for papers

WHAT PAPERS? I'M NOT BRITISH
Zeze 9 | 79  
29 Nov 2007 /  #12
come on men tell us the real deal

you want to rights to be in the UK dont you ???

all this bla bla about she is scare of losing you come on !!!

Visa visa visa that what it is
Hmmm 1 | 69  
29 Nov 2007 /  #13
WHAT PAPERS? I'M NOT BRITISH

Ha ha ha! That was a quick retort. You're right, she couldn't be after an Indian citizenship. You've charmed her.

But you're being borderline crazy if you're...

only marrying her because she is forcing me to marry her as soon as possible and even her family. don't know real reason behind it...

Think about it, mate! She may be all that and a bag of chips. But if you're being forced into it, then you're heading down to RegretVille. Re-evaluate the depth of the relationship - don't let the ring on her finger be the noose on your neck, boy. And before you post your reply please understand that we're responding exactly to what you've described, we're not conjuring anything up. G'luck! :)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
29 Nov 2007 /  #14
SO I NEED PERMISSION FROM HOME OFFICE. THAT'S NOT A PROBLEM

come on men tell us the real deal

you want to rights to be in the UK dont you ???

all this bla bla about she is scare of losing you come on !!!

Visa visa visa that what it is

He will get sweet fany adams, makes no odds if he marrys her...he gets no status in the UK as a result of - as soon as his visa is up, he's out!

Oh right so you think that they grant everyone permisison to get married in the UK...think again buddy its getting harder and harder and if they do grant it, this does not mean that you can stay when you finish your education - you need to tell your wife to be this too.
Zeze 9 | 79  
29 Nov 2007 /  #15
if he marrys her...he gets no status in the UK as a result of

no no no she is POlish living and working in the UK if he marry her he will be on a EU partner so will be alowed to stay and work until she live in the UK with him
chaz - | 5  
29 Nov 2007 /  #16
Quoting: ShelleyS
if he marrys her...he gets no status in the UK as a result of

Before I proceed between us, how did you pool her? :~) niceone! pls see my order tread you intellegent so you know what am all about. Yes?

I think Tomcatkins Esq. gives some decent moral advice, inasmuch as I have some bones to pick with him on another thread.
Now son listen, I can't give you legal advice as its outside my proviso and you not my billable client. There are a number of things that's come into play.

1. your country of origin
2. how long you've know her (remember I'm not giving you an advise I'm making a statement based on my understanding of the law.)

3. have you lived together?
Shelley seems to know a lot about immigration law your link was great but outdated.

Son, she is an EU national, right? Then the EU law does take precedence over national law. ECHR is enshrined therein forming the bases of the EU laws pertinent to your predicament ECHR article 8 is your get away clause ( the right to respect for home and family life) I am not am immigration lawyer but I know that there are case laws to purport that fact. Presently I am on holiday away from my books but my email should be somewhere on this forum, should you wish to get in touch but remember I can't advise you.

I did say that Shelleys was outdated, hoops sorry shelleys you are.

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4894544.stm

If that what you want ( to be married, and your moves are pure) good luck. I get another French beer and continue pretending to ski-ing.
marek s - | 269  
29 Nov 2007 /  #17
don't let the ring on her finger be the noose on your neck, boy

and if shes in a hurry to get married, that what it will be a noose.
its her way or no way
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
29 Nov 2007 /  #18
I did say that Shelleys was outdated, hoops sorry shelleys you are.

You did say twice, thank you, I feel very important now :) I know that the laws seem to change quite a lot, never seem to get it quite right though IMHO

He has been with her for 2 months and he is on a student visa, you think that the Home Office are going to grant his wishes ; -)
chaz - | 5  
29 Nov 2007 /  #19
Shelleys, are you into immigration work? coz I know even the H O ebb on current issues with the law.

Nothing personal but ur IMHO is right, I did read his brief but remember i am not advising him just giving him my in-depth understanding of current issues in order to authenticate this fact; I needed to go beyond his recourse. Love you shellys :~)
lonely 2 | 97  
29 Nov 2007 /  #20
only marrying her because she is forcing me to marry her as soon as possible

What are you doing man??? You can not be serious about this!!!
AvJoeUK  
29 Nov 2007 /  #21
What a tool.
lonely 2 | 97  
29 Nov 2007 /  #22
hahahaha

you want to rights to be in the UK dont you ???

Who in their right mind would want to live in the UK? Too much legislation and beaurocrisy. It's basically a police state people!!!! It's a festering pile of crap and i would love out of it and he's busy hitching up with some chick in order to get in!! Amazing lol
marek s - | 269  
29 Nov 2007 /  #23
What are you doing man??? You can not be serious about this!!!

above comming from a guy whos in love with a hooker
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
29 Nov 2007 /  #24
No need to get married , just buy her a house , and give her half your wages for the next twenty years.....she will be happy.....
southern 75 | 7,096  
29 Nov 2007 /  #25
And find her a polish boyfriend.
Hmmm 1 | 69  
29 Nov 2007 /  #26
only marrying her because she is forcing me to marry her as soon as possible and even her family. don't know real reason behind it...

Okay, it's my turn to lie: The Pope's not catholic, he's muslim.
Now, it's your turn.
Nice game, ain't it?
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
29 Nov 2007 /  #27
maybe she is pregnant...shotgun and all.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
30 Nov 2007 /  #28
Shelleys, are you into immigration work? coz I know even the H O ebb on current issues with the law.

Not at all, hadnt you noticed ;-)

did read his brief but remember i am not advising him just giving him my in-depth understanding of current issues in order to authenticate this fact

Dont worry your pretty little head on it, he probably wont be back - they come and then they go...

Love you shellys :~)

Hmmmm....join the end of the queue ;-)

Who in their right mind would want to live in the UK? Too much legislation and beaurocrisy. It's basically a police state people!!!! It's a festering pile of crap and i would love out of it and he's busy hitching up with some chick in order to get in!! Amazing lol

Now now thats a bit strong - but if you would like to spread that rumour around 3rd world counties I would be most appreciative :)
lonely 2 | 97  
30 Nov 2007 /  #29
above comming from a guy whos in love with a hooker

What an opinionated knob you are!!!!
marek s - | 269  
30 Nov 2007 /  #30
just pointing out that the pot should not be calling the kettle black.

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