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rules and regulation for marrying a polish girl


say it as it is  
26 Apr 2008 /  #61
Wroclaw Boy: Pm sent hope we can clear up the miss understanding fella ,

He does that to any poster who stands up to him Wayman. Don't think it's something you've done ! He is just a jerk and a bully nothing more, nothing less. He then sends a PM trying to sort it ! You've been rumbled on that score Wroclaw !

I think you summed him up very well in your previous posts on this thread.

Wayman, best of Luck with your future marriage and you seem a really good bloke so am sure it will be a long and happy marriage :-)
Wayman123 - | 15  
27 Apr 2008 /  #62
Wayman, best of Luck with your future marriage and you seem a really good bloke so am sure it will be a long and happy marriage :-)

Thank u kindly im sure it will work out well.
Ive just come back from Kraków and im Back in the city that i have grown up in ,it made me sad to have to come back to London as i have fallen for your lovely country the worst thing about comming back here was getting on a plane that hade a large group of british drunks on it :(

I was ashamed of my own fellow countrymen and of being british to be honest with u there behaviour was disgraceful on the plane and made me realise why i have come to dislike my own country ,I will be leaving here to go to poland to settle down in a peacefull quiet country and im looking forward to it and from what i have seen already im going to enjoy living there ,as for my Polish its basic but in time i hope to be able to enjoy a conversation in Polish rather than my native tongue . Cant wait to leave here and get back on that plane to Kraków it,s city and it,s countryside are beautiful .

Thanks again and i look forward to being a regular on your forums :)
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
27 Apr 2008 /  #63
there are rules and regulations??? this is not me being sarcastic as usual i'm being dead serious!!! Are there really rules and regulations for marrying polish girls, lol, as if marrying somebody wasn't bad enough now you have to jump through hoops to do it!!!!!

Can somebody please explain this madness to me???? Am i lucky i'm not with my ex, well i mean if there was a contract i had to sign before i married her that said things like, you must do this, you can't do that, it is acceptable to, it is not acceptable to, ok that was me trying to be funny but this thread sort of puts me in a flap, lol. Should i stay away from marrying Polka's in the future??
rubbish  
28 Feb 2009 /  #64
The UK is the worst place to reside in. Poor social welfare, high teenage crime wave, expensive etc. I hate the UK. I wonder why the Uk has a high flux of immigrants. Go back to India and marry your Indian grilfriend.
bimber94 7 | 254  
17 Mar 2009 /  #65
Hope Rohit ji likes kiełbasa (shan't mention lard and vodka because "Wroclaw" told me off I'm overusing that phrase), chainsmokes and changes his religion to RC or be branded as "sekta". He loves the girl? Define love, what is it? Marriage has never had anything to do with 'lurve' and everything to do with economics. Let your head rule, not your heart. Forget this sentimental twaddle and simply live together is what I'd do. If she's as genuine as you are she'll be happy with you and your dunda without these outdated formalities. No papers needed; no hassle. Kya problem he, bhai?
karkufka  
18 Mar 2009 /  #66
Let your head rule, not your heart. Forget this sentimental twaddle and simply live together is what I'd do. If she's as genuine as you are she'll be happy with you and your dunda without these outdated formalities. No papers needed; no hassle

In my opinion getting married can answer both the heart and the head. I've been living with my Polish boyfriend in the US for about three years. We've not yet married as it hasn't really become an issue yet, but at the same time, we both acknowledge that it will make life easier at a certain point. For example, when we want to have kids. Is it necessary? Absolutely not. Will it make both our parents feel better? For sure. Will it make life easier for our kids. Without a doubt.

I think people just need to let the relationship develop in a natural, organic way. No need to artificially speed things up or mark certain levels of commitment as "off limits." Just keep the dialog open, and as long as you're both on the same wave length, all will be well.
bimber94 7 | 254  
19 Mar 2009 /  #67
DON'T DO IT, karkufka. That's the slippery, golden road to misery and divorce. You'll see in 20 years. Enjoy yourselves in the meantime.
vivianzizi 2 | 21  
19 Mar 2009 /  #68
i think you could find the infomation u want online at the home office website. i dont think u should rush into marriage to please anyone. i am on a student visa and from nigeria, i'm i'm with an english man at the moment, he is very interested in marriage but i am not. i'm not going to marry him for a visa or the chance to work more than 40hours, that said i totally understand why people are pushed into that, the system is unfair so people find short cuts to solve their problems. for example, an eu student can work over 20 hrs its not the same for common wealth countries. when it is clear who actually needs the money more.

pls dont rush into anything,

best wishes

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