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rules and regulation for marrying a polish girl


lonely 2 | 97  
30 Nov 2007 /  #31
Did i say anything at any point about being forced into marriage? Nope. There is quite a difference in being mutually in love to being forced into marriage. Pot / kettle / pot / kettle... no i don't see any sense in your comment. Perhapse you caught your d*ck in your zip the other day and are still in pain but chill out and get off my feckin back!!!!!
miranda  
30 Nov 2007 /  #32
reading comprehension seem to be a problem for some people
lonely 2 | 97  
30 Nov 2007 /  #33
Hope you weren't talking about me there miranda? :o)
miranda  
30 Nov 2007 /  #34
no, you seem to be on top in that department. I might have a problem sometimes, but English is not my first language, so I at least have an excuse. I meant marek. He seems to be an emotional "reader" and that could be a problem.

Check in the mail, please.
lonely 2 | 97  
30 Nov 2007 /  #35
Thank you miranda. Marek does seem to be a pain in the butt. Your english is supberb, i would never have know that it's not your first language. Wish I could speak another language :o(
miranda  
30 Nov 2007 /  #36
Your english is supberb, i would never have know that it's not your first language.

thank you very much.

Wish I could speak another language :o(

it is never too late when it comes to learning languages. Good luck.

Marek does seem to be a pain in the butt.

yeh, he is still going through something, that's why I said "emotional" instead of rational.
lonely 2 | 97  
30 Nov 2007 /  #37
he is still going through something

I'm sorry to hear that he is "going through something". I am under a huge ammount of stress just now but obviously handle things differently. The forum is a cross section of the general public so i guess there will be various types of people here. You seem to be a pretty level headed person though :o) thanks for that.
marek s - | 269  
30 Nov 2007 /  #38
hello everyone. I am recently back from poland where i met (a lady of the night) initially it was a straight forward thing but when she left she asked me for my mobile number. She text me the next morning and we met up again on a regular relationship basis. We spent the rest of my time in Krakow together (5days) and it seems we fell in love. Am i mental to get involved??? Please help me.

What are you doing man??? You can not be serious about this!!!

you telling another guy he cant be serious?
hence my comment pot calling kettle black

What an opinionated knob you are!!!!

name calling, how cool

There is quite a difference in being mutually in love to being forced into marriage

after 5 days your both in love or so she said she also was.
to top it off, your in two different countries

no, you seem to be on top in that department. I might have a problem sometimes, but English is not my first language,

in this post, your comprehension is off.

yeh, he is still going through something, that's why I said "emotional" instead of rational.

are you a doctor or something? im not emotional at all, i just think that a guy who falls in love with a hooker after hanging out with her for 5 days in a tool.

miranda, is it that time of the month for you?

Marek does seem to be a pain in the butt.

lol.

The forum is a cross section of the general public so i guess there will be various types of people here.

yup yup, like crazies wanting to marry hookers in different countries.
miranda  
30 Nov 2007 /  #39
in this post, your comprehension is off.

not really, I have read your other posts an you seem to force your bitter opinion about life on everybody. In comparison to you , everybody is naive and stupid and childlish. My take on that is that you have had some negative experiance in the past and that colours your opinions, therefore they are not rational, but "emotinal" It is easy to spot, but you don't see it.

miranda, is it that time of the month for you?

is that what you say when you run out of argument? Pretty pathetic and I think you have been hurt by a woman and you are jeleous that somebody is infatuated/ in love etc.
Wroclaw Boy  
30 Nov 2007 /  #40
rules and regulation for marrying a polish girl

1. Make sure shes not marrying you for a passport
2. Make sure shes not marrying you for your money
3. Be sure her brothers are not muscle bound steroid heads
4. Take a good look at her Mother, always a good indication how she will look in 20 years.

Thats the basics!!

Hope it helps
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
30 Nov 2007 /  #41
not really, I have read your other posts an you seem to force your bitter opinion about life on everybody. In comparison to you , everybody is naive and stupid and childlish. My take on that is that you have had some negative experiance in the past and that colours your opinions, therefore they are not rational, but "emotinal" It is easy to spot, but you don't see it.

I personally think you should charge him for that - about time someone smacked his arse! Well done A :)

Make sure shes not marrying you for a passport

She is Polish - he is a paki, some how I dont think thats the reason

Make sure shes not marrying you for your money

Again see above so I dont think thats the reason either.

Be sure her brothers are not muscle bound steroid heads

Nah..

Take a good look at her Mother, always a good indication how she will look in 20 years.

Sunbeds were not (I would imagine) popular in Poland 20 years ago, so there is no telling what she will look like, but it is an indicator :)
miranda  
30 Nov 2007 /  #42
I personally think you should charge him for that - about time someone smacked his arse! Well done A :)

hey, he was getting on my nerves a LONG time ago. I was just trying to be politicaly correct - so much for that:)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
30 Nov 2007 /  #43
Hmmm, leave political correctness at the door when entering in to the forum :)
miranda  
30 Nov 2007 /  #44
I am under a huge ammount of stress just now but obviously handle things differently

for sure, it is not easy but it could be learned.

You seem to be a pretty level headed person though :o) thanks for that.

I am trying and you are welcome;) I guess I have a very rational brain.

Hmmm, leave political correctness at the door when entering in to the forum :)

you are absolutely right':)
Wroclaw Boy  
30 Nov 2007 /  #45
She is Polish - he is a paki, some how I dont think thats the reason

Ahh OK I didn't read the previous posts just thought i would try and be funny.

Obviously these circumstances are somewhat different.
marek s - | 269  
30 Nov 2007 /  #46
is that what you say when you run out of argument?

considering you assume things about me, i assume things about you.

jeleous that somebody is infatuated/ in love etc

being jealous about a hooker, not
OP rohit21sa 1 | 8  
30 Nov 2007 /  #47
2. Make sure shes not marrying you for your money

i'm not rich....

he is a paki, some how I dont think thats the reason

i'm from (bangladesh/united arab emirates)

i love her alot. so even if home office don't allow me to marry her in UK i need to go back to DUBAI or bangladesh where it will be easy


oh by the way how about marrying in poland? IS IT EASY?
polishgirltx  
30 Nov 2007 /  #48
oh by the way how about marrying in poland? IS IT EASY?

it is easy....it is so easy that many ppl regret doing that...:)
Buddy 7 | 167  
1 Dec 2007 /  #49
This is a really amusing thread, nothing like a good ***** (in both meanings) is there folks?

Mr.Rohit, just a few enquiries have you met her parents?
Do you enjoy drinking vodka neat?
Do you speak Polish?
What do your family make of all this?

I only ask because if you are serious you need to consider the above as well as many other factors.

This is a really amusing thread, nothing like a good ***** (in both meanings) is there folks?

They ***** out the word B I T C H . Seriously admin what if this was pet thread and I was talking about my female *****. Censoring words doesn't really acheive anything.
Wayman123 - | 15  
25 Apr 2008 /  #50
Thread attached on merging:
The Marrying Kind :)

Hello to everyone ,

Just one question , i have been seeing a lovely polish girl and im very happy and we have been together for over a year now , Im engaged to her and whant to marry her in poland could anyone help me out with the right and legal way for me to do so , have met her family and spent a little time in Krakov witch is a lovely city , Im english myself and have lived my whole life in the uk , im intending on leaving the uk to go and live in poland and was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on getting married in poland also with living in poland as im not polish myself .
plk123 8 | 4,138  
25 Apr 2008 /  #51
SEARCH AROUND THE FORUMS.. THERE IS ONOF ON BOTH OF YOUR QUESTIONS. GOOD LUCK. VISIT PL FIRST BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO MOVE THERE.
IronsE11 2 | 442  
25 Apr 2008 /  #52
was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on getting married in poland also with living in poland as im not polish myself .

How about asking your fiance? ;)
Wroclaw Boy  
25 Apr 2008 /  #53
was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on getting married in poland also with living in poland as im not polish myself .

Are you a nervous type of person Wayman?
Wayman123 - | 15  
25 Apr 2008 /  #54
No son im not the nervous kind are u , it,s a question and if u have any respect for people u would ask her parents aswel as the lady herself , as for her english it,s spot on and we have been together for over year now as for asking her i think the smile on her face tells me how much she loves me , also the fact that she is wearing an engagement ring tells me she understands english perfectly unlike yourself , Thank u plk123 for pointing me in the right direction shame other members seem to think all polish drink large amounts of vodka , not the case as i have met many polish people who dont live inside a botle of vodka ,those that do are a minority and if i thought all polish hade drink problems i wouldnt be asking the question in the first place .....
Wroclaw Boy  
25 Apr 2008 /  #55
No son im not the nervous kind are u , it,s a question and if u have any respect for people u would ask her parents aswel as the lady herself , as for her english it,s spot on and we have been together for over year now as for asking her i think the smile on her face tells me how much she loves me , also the fact that she is wearing an engagement ring tells me she understands english perfectly unlike yourself

Before you jumped down my throat you should probably try and ascertain the reason for me asking the question. It had nothing to do with marriage.

The reason i asked is for this.

also with living in poland as im not polish myself

And my question was are you the nervous type? I am not particularly a nervous person and never have been although I have to say in my two and a half years of living here as a British national i have become a little edgy when it comes to visiting offices. For the first year I was cool, calm and collective as I didn't really understand what was happening but now unfortunately I understand almost everything and I gotta tell ya its stressfull. They always shock you at the start and then its ohh actually thats not a problem, and it just goes on and on.. Stamping, talking, typing, copying documents and 25% of the time there wrong anyway and you have to go back to the beginning.

My point being if youre a NERVOUS type of person you may find it quite difficult here.
Wayman123 - | 15  
25 Apr 2008 /  #56
Before you jumped down my throat you should probably try and ascertain the reason for me asking the question. It had nothing to do with marriage.

The reason i asked is for this.

U no something u should go back and read your own posts , your obviously somewhat immature in the way u reply to peoples posts as for jumping down your throat far from it son it,s an issue with maturity and u should think about what you have to say before u put your brain into gear and your mouth into action , and obviously with some of your posts in this issue your no help what so ever in fact it,s like your telling people that we shouldnt bother as most poles are drunks in your eyes with mothers like pitbulls and brothers like cage fighters .

What i cant belive fella is why u cant just reply with a honest reply , not all poles are the same and as for the minor red tape it is only minor , it,s a polish forum for expats and polish people but all i see and read in your posts are negative remarks and your not every helpfull , Im a brit matey and a little red tape means nothing i need two things to married in poland and only two things .

Above is a URL ..... THAT HELPS AND IS STRAIGHT TO THE POINT

all u hade to do was point me in the right direction as some members try and be helpfull others try and poor scorn on anyone who asks a simple question as for my patients i have plenty i just dont have time for childish unhelpfull remarks made by yourself , just read your posts above , Nowmy question to u is why are you living in poland if you think most poles are **** heads i quote ...

1. Make sure shes not marrying you for a passport
2. Make sure shes not marrying you for your money
3. Be sure her brothers are not muscle bound steroid heads
4. Take a good look at her Mother, always a good indication how she will look in 20 years.

Thats the basics!!

Im a mature adult and have spent the best part of my life living in London so a little stress means nothing as for your help well it,s about much use as a pork chop at a jewish wedding , thanks for your help , maybe u should consider going back to the uk if u feel so negative about polish people , did someone break your poor little heart bet she was polish , thanks but no thanks for your help others members above have given a helpfull approcah to my question . Hows your nerves now fella , what you going to be like when u have to go back to blighty ,peace dude and love will send u an invite when i do sort it out ..
Wroclaw Boy  
25 Apr 2008 /  #57
What i cant belive fella is why u cant just reply with a honest reply

I did.

I from London I know everything.

For your information matee I have a succesful business in Poland - innit, and a Polish wife.

I remember when i came here i was like you full of wind and ****.

Just come on over and find out for yourself London boy dont sit there and comment on issues you dont really have any idea of. Your GF knows although i suspect she has forgotten she predominantly and then you will have a re-entry shock.

Go away boy and come back with comments when you are in a position too.

Welcome to Poland.

Funny thing is I can just imagine you and your Polish bird going over 1000's of posts researching me just to come up with the best response, LOL.
Wayman123 - | 15  
26 Apr 2008 /  #58
Im in the position to read your posts on this issue if u think i would waste my time by going over all your posts on this forum your mistaken , u have married a polish woman and your advice is so negative it just shows your maturity , As for your english ( init ) not everyone is thick and not everyone who is british talks in slang , im a mature man not a little child , ive seen what u have to offer in the ways of advice to others on this issue ,it,s immature and unhelpfull to people who are serious about living in poland , and what makes me smile more than anything is you say your british .

Typical English comes to mind you would think living in poland would of slowed your mouth down and your brain but obviously not , if u hade anything helpfull u would of said it by now but your about as much help as a chocolate fireguard .

Ive seen english people like yourself all over the world and ive done more than my share of travel WORLDWIDE and do my best to avoid english people like yourself Ive no doubt your just a beer drinking football lout who was lucky enougth to find a woman who would put up with u , as for my education im not an idiot and i speak fluent english not slang( Bird )( innit ) think u will find im a little older than the new generation of London scum thats breeding in the city now .

Im 39 not 15 . Nice to see the forum has some helpfull members on here ,shame i dont tar everyone with the same brush but your just another english idiot

,Im doing my ground work to settle down in a country thats not english to avoid people like yourself .

Your wife must have the patients of a saint to put up with your childish manner , then again she is polish so she has patients to entertain u i dont nor do i have to entertain you .Thanks for your useless Help you should read your posts just on the issue of people getting married in Poland it just highlights what little brain cells u have . expat and your still english u cant change u just think your smarter ,but your not .
Arise_St_George 9 | 419  
26 Apr 2008 /  #59
If she's forcing you to marry her then be prepared to be walked all over after you're married.
Wayman123 - | 15  
26 Apr 2008 /  #60
Im getting married because i love her and she loves me , if anything i welcome leaving the uk to go somewhere more peacefull ,it,s not about being forced into it im very happy just as she is :) Thanks for your concern .

Wroclaw Boy: Pm sent hope we can clear up the miss understanding fella , we all bite every now and then and being english im sarcastic just as u are fella , pm sent to yourself :)

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