Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Yes, American Guys are definitely looking outside the borders.
But you cannot bring a nice girl back to the US or she will probably change.

So lots of guys simply emigrate.
Then find a girl and stay.
I think it is a good strategy.
For family life, the US is bleak and has a bleak future.

And for this poor guy who posted this thread, I think he just got a bad apple.
But his post concerns me.
Because things are really changing in Poland.
I can see it.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


You have courage.
I really appreciate that someone speaks about the stuff that you are speaking out about.
Most people in Europe have no clue about the stuff you are talking about.

But I think it might be a little off-topic for this post.
For me, no problem, but for other people maybe a problem.

If you are in the US have you though of emigrating?

Many normal guys do it and they are much happier.

After all, a guy would have to be a little gay or masochistic to be happy with American Women.

So a normal hetero-sexual American Man does not have much of a future with American Girls.

And there are so many better girls in other parts of the world.

Once again thanks for your postings.

For me they are thoughtful and intelligent.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


I add, I have not heard of any other cases like this.
My experiences were mostly bad, but not violent and they were outside Poland.


I agree. You are a big boy. Good luck. You are going to need it.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


You should not have even had to do this.
Already things have gone to far.
You are playing in a bad game (drama) with her.

I can tell just by your writing and by the fact that you came to this board to seek advice you are fairly reasonable.

1) Leave her forever.
or
2) Threaten to leave her if she does not control herself and follow through if she does something again (but I think she will laugh at this).

or
3) Leave her temporarily until/if she learns to control herself.

If she does not change, life with her will be miserable.

This is real "white trash" drama.

It is difficult to rise in life with a woman like this in your life.

I think this is an exceptional case for Polish Girls and not the rule (I hope).

Love / Polish man dating Russian women [42]

I speak some some Russian and have lots of Ukrainian, Belorussian, and Russian friends here in Prague you jackass.

In fact I celebrate my birthday with this community because these are my best friends.

You are a bookworm Russian.
No common sense.
I can tell that.
Comfortable in front of a chessboard or computer but a worm in the street.

Love / Polish man dating Russian women [42]


Punk.
As if your post is somehow better.
I have noticed the typical Russian Arrogance in you.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


You are correct.
Probably impossible to accomplish in a Western Society.
What lots of guys from the USA do these days who are serious about having a normal wife and family without the interference of Social Pollution and the corrupt US Family Courts is Emigrate. They still hold onto their citizenship but they live outside the USA and gradually build credits to another nationality.

You can get Brazilian Citizenship in one year if you marry a local girl.
I don't know how good Brazilian Girls are but they cannot be worse than American.

People on these forums don't realize just how corrupt the US Court Systems are and how actively hostile they are towards men.

And how the American Society actively makes vilifies men any chance it gets and unfairly so.

Really, it is sick and anti-Christian, anti-Jewish, and anti-Muslim what goes on in that country (USA) at the family level.

And in my opinion things are at such a low level there is no solution.

It is like a cancer that needs to run its course.

But in the meantime it is a miserable life for a man in the USA.

Better to leave and never look back.

Love / Polish man dating Russian women [42]

I have lots of experience with Russian Women here in Prague.

In my experience, Russian Women are probably the worst women character-wise in the world.
Mostly after money.
And very treacherous.
Don't let the beauty blind you.
Don't let the bedroom skills capture you.
For me, Russian Women are reptilian.
Cold-blooded.
And always taking, taking, taking.
And very superstitious and domineering.
And a little stupid.

Why did she come to Egypt?
What kind of work was she seeking in Egypt?
Check her passport.
Has she been to other Middle Eastern Countries?

There are many Russian Girls working in Dubai.
Can you guess what kind of work they do?

Also the divorce rate in Russia is around 70 percent.
A big danger sign.
For if dead fish are floating on a lake, should you fish in the lake?
Are you immune?

Don't believe the old stories about Russian Men being the cause.
The sexes mostly hate each other in Russia.
Lots of times the men get the blame for being alcoholics.
But if I were married to a Russian Woman, I would drink myself to death with Vodka also.

Read this:
It is all about the Russian Dating Agency Scams.

agencyscams.com

Here are some quotes from the International Encyclopedia of Sexuality.

hu-berlin.de/sexology/IES/russia.html

"Russian wives and mothers are frequently strong, dominant, and sure of themselves."

Women passionately and sorrowfully bemoan the lack of "real men," while men complain about the dying breed of women who show
feminine tenderness and affection."

Don't give her any financial information about you.
Also be aware that most Russian Girls lie about their age.

My advice to you is run, as fast as you can.

I can imagine a Russian Girl would love nothing more than to trick and use a young Polish Guy so that she could get EU Citizenship.

And then take his money and run to London or turn him into a bank machine.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

Very interesting topic.

Thanks for posting it.

When I was in Poland I noticed something similar to this macho behavior that you are speaking about.

I noticed in the dance clubs that the Polish Girls would flirt with other guys and that some of the Polish Guys would glare jealously at the guys the girls were flirting with.

Or worse, threaten the other guys the girls were flirting with.
When in reality it was mostly the girl's fault.
They approached the other guys most of the time to do the flirting.

These Polish Guys didn't realize that they were being manipulated.
Their anger was misdirected.
They should have been getting angry at the girl, not the other guys.
Basically they were being manipulated to protect or save a girl that was not worth protecting or saving.
In fact it could be logically argued that these girls should have been being pimped.
After all, they are already marketing themselves.
But that is a different topic.

This code of honor thing that these macho guys embrace is a "heads you win", "tails I lose" sort of thing for them.

They are just too stupid to realize it.
But I thought these were isolated cases only in the dance clubs with bad girls and stupid guys.

So if a culture exists like you described, where, if a guy hits a girl and he is beaten for it, and if she hits him he must tolerate it.

I would say this is probably one of the lowest and most degrading cultures a man could live in.
Completely matriarchal and female-dominated.
With the women using and manipulating the men to protect them and justify their own bad behavior.

Why not just put the man on a leash with a spiked collar?
That is all he is in a culture like this.
A stupid, brainless, pit-bull dog reduced only to security duty.
Only the most stupid of men would live in a culture like this if they did not have to.

So I don't believe that Poland is like this.
I think this is some sick subculture of Poland that you are experiencing and it is not embraced by the majority.
Just like what I saw in the dance clubs.
After all Poland is still Catholic, and Catholicism is Patriarchal, yes?

At least that is what I think.
Am I correct anyone?
If anyone could enlighten me I would be grateful.

But certainly Poland is becoming more Matriarchal.

For your particular case:
I think you have a belligerent girl on your hands.
Already she has many ex-boyfriends, probably for a good reason.
She does not appear to have self-control.
Self-control, governs speech, physical reactions, sexual behavior and even eating.
So with no self-control, she will probably not only grow worse in terms of behavior and become more violent and slutty, but also grow larger in stature (obese).

Probably she has a low level of education.
And maybe she even has alcoholic and promiscuous tendencies.
You should take a good look at her mother to see what your fully-blossomed Kasia will be like a few years from now.

This girl will probably do things like she did in order to get you to react emotionally.
But if you react, you are really under her control and you are being manipulated and dominated.

And if you do something to dominate and manipulate her you are in the wrong also.

It is not your job to control her and to dominate her.
It is her job to dominate herself and control herself with her own self-control.

For proper order, she should submit herself to you (the man) by her own choice.
You should tell her what you like and want, and she should give it to you, peacefully, and without much trouble.

As far as what to do with this girl, I would leave her.
She sounds like real bad-blooded "White Trash"
I would leave her sooner than later.

Be careful because she probably wants drama and is addicted to it.
She might very well try to get you to hit her so that she can go to the police or have someone try to beat you up.

She will do this in order to give drama to her meaningless, pathetic life.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally spin around and hit her with an elbow or a back fist to the face.

She could claim that you did this on purpose.

Hope this helps.

Travel / WE ARE BACK FROM POLAND AND HERE IS OUR REPORT [96]

Nice report.
You inspired me.
I am going to Warsaw next.
I think visiting Poland is much like visiting a Latin American Country.
Good hospitality, mostly honest and helpful.
Good virtues learned from Catholic/Christian tradition.
And not so expensive.
And they don't treat people like terrorists.

I like the fact that the Polish People don't smile all the time.
It is more honest.
I think girls look sexier and smarter when they don't have a forced smile with fake denture teeth.

I lived in the USA for many years and got tired of that fake cheerleader smile.

I thought it was creepy that so many Americans were smiling while the USA was starting wars all over the planet, had over 2 million people of its own people imprisoned, and had a broken family structure.

Travel / Prague Vs Krakow [34]

Thank you.

Prague is a great place to live for a while or if you are very happy being a bachelor.

If you have any questions at all, I have lived here for four years. I speak Czech and know the city pretty well and would be happy to answer any questions you might have.

Travel / Prague Vs Krakow [34]

time means: If Prague is so bad why not leave?

I am trying.
Hence looking for short-term accommodation.

If you don't deal with lots of locals and have expat friends, Prague can be good.
But when you have to deal with locals, especially Czech Girls, it is really frustrating.

In any other country these girls would not be employed.
No one would hire them except at an escort agency.

Travel / Prague Vs Krakow [34]

Update on this:

I am now trying to find new accommodation in Prague.
I am looking for something very simple.
Month to month room.
You would not believe the low-level of knowledge and service I am dealing with at hostels and pensions.
I only have the patience for around 5 calls per day because it is so frustrating to deal with these morons.
I encourage everyone to do a simple test.
Make five to ten phone calls to hostels in each city - Krakow and Prague.
Compare the level of service you get on the phone.
Then decide which city to visit.
I think the difference will be clear.
Social Retardation has no place in the service sector.
Spend your money in Krakow.
Unless you are looking for hookers, then come to Prague.

Viva Krakow!

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

legdoctor: I think the Eiffel Tower is a nice romantic place.
Or an Irish Beach since you both live in Ireland.
Or the back of a sailboat overlooking the ocean somewhere.

A good worthwhile relationship can withstand talking about bad possibilities that are sadly part of the modern world in which we live.

If you can't talk about it with her it should tell you something.

Be the most romantic you can be.
Be the most realistic you can be with some prudent hedging.
And you will probably be the most successful you can be.

I really hope you succeed.
That is why I wrote so much.


And there you have it. The modern, bitter, irrational woman. Need I say more? QED

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

Don't mean to turn you off on the marriage.
It could be a good thing.
But doing it right could increase the probability of it being a good thing.
The smart guys in the USA and Czech Republic use the proper pre-nups.

It sounds like you gave good thought the romantic aspects.

But almost neglected the business aspects.

Happy marriages are great.

But they are getting rarer.

Taking a realistic view can make yours happy.

And the most of the females on this thread who claim the men are bitter are really looking out for their own best interests and are bitter that their game is uncovered.

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]


You have alot of courage for speaking up.
Especially on this forum.

I think the strike is already on.
Look at the marriage rates and birth rates in USA and Europe.

Only stupid or ignorant men in the USA get married.
At least without the proper extra documentation and agreements.

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

Hi Legdoctor,

You don't know what will be, but you can prepare for what might be.

The woman that you know now could very well change in the future.

Especially after she has a child or two.

The divorce rate is rising fast in Poland and the Polish and Irish courts have a strong bias toward the females.

Poland could be at the 50 percent divorce rate in a few years if it is not already in the major cities.

Here are some risks.

Prechildren:
1) She will begin to miss the family in Poland or meet a guy in Poland and go back to Poland.

Postchildren:
1) She will go to Poland with the kids for a visit and never come back.

Consult an Irish Attorney first.

Also consult a Polish attorney.

See if you can get her to sign a pre-nup.

The pre-nup should have the following points at a minimum.

1) she gets no assets and no alimony in the event of divorce.

2) you have at least 50 percent access to your children in the event of divorce and the children remain in Ireland.

Also check the success statistics of UK/Polish marriages.

Check this forum for some real stories.

Also google some stories.

If she goes to Poland with the children she will have an advantage in the Polish Court System because she speaks the language.

And the Polish Courts will most likely back her actions.

Speak with other Polish and Irish Men about their experiences before you do anything.

Take these steps for any children that may be born to insure that they have a father around.

Take these steps for yourself.

Even though you might be poor, you will probably love any children that are born and you don't want to lose access to them.

Here in Czech Republic the failure rate for marriages is around 67 percent.

And I know personally many American, British, Irish, African Men who lost access to their children through the Czech Court System and have to pay large sums of money every month through no fault of their own.

Hope this helps.

Love / What are your views (or Polish views) on abortion? [102]

Here you go sweets.

This article mentions abortion tourism and talks about destinations.

federa.org.pl/english/public/whoabor1.htm

Be careful with the article and the website.
The organization that published the article has a strong bias toward legalizing abortion in Poland.
And they are using all the classic rhetorical techniques to argue the case on their website.

But your scenario sounds perfectly reasonable.
Especially given the ignorance and "selective catholicism" of many Polish Women.
And the social pressures that exist in Poland.

This could be a hot topic.
But I think extremely interesting and educational.

Don't let some of the young vocal girls on the forum scare you.
Or the young guys that are trying to impress the girls by agreeing with them.

Most of them are only talk and little else.

I hope this helps.

Travel / Prague Vs Krakow [34]


Translation: You disturb yourself or you are disturbed.
Cure: none.


Very helpful.
Good tips of where to eat, dance, tour, etc.
I hardly ever get this kind of treatment in Prague.


They were nuns and they didn't get a tip.
Did you read the post?

Travel / Prague Vs Krakow [34]


I believe you Southern.
That is why I did not want to ruin the trip with any extra conversations.
I focused on the beauty of the City and the history.
And Krakow was amazing.

I know things are changing in Poland for family life and social structure and the changes are for the worse long-term.
I can see where the television, movies, greed, and unrealistic expectations are changing things for the worse

for the man, family, and eventually the woman and children.
I don't like to see it happening in a nice country like Poland.
So I ignored it.

But it is nice to go to a place where the people are helpful in their job.
It is so hard to find in Prague without getting bad attitude.

Travel / Prague Vs Krakow [34]

Ah southern, good to hear from you!

I like nuns.
On my way to the train station I saw two cute ones.
One flashed me a very friendly smile.
What a great way to end the trip.

I only spoke with Polish Girls when I had to do business or had to ask questions.
And they were very friendly and capable.

I did not try to speak with any Krakow Girls outside of any necessary business functions so I can't really offer any comparison with Czech Girls except in the workplace.

But in the tourist workplace the Polish Girls easily beat the Czech Girls for capability and friendliness.

And I even speak Czech!

I think Prague is better for the stag parties and men's groups and Krakow is better for families, couples, and people looking for a more quiet time and a very clean environment.

One thing that was disturbing was the large number of homeless people in Krakow.

Does anyone know if there a church shelter in Krakow like Caritas or Armada Spasy sponsors in Prague?

Love / Polish girls devils or angels? [15]


I forgot one trait.
Very false confidence manifested in arrogance and rudeness.
Especially when they were unsure of their basic English Skills and place in the world.

Jump Bunny, I didn't ask for your opinion.
Why did you give it?

Jump Bunny, would you consider yourself a typical Polish Girl inside Poland?

thanks.

Love / Polish girls devils or angels? [15]

You tell us Southern.
I think you know much.
You certainly know much about Czech Girls.

My experience is only with Polish Girls outside Poland.
And the majority were very conflicted.
And for some strange reason they felt inferior.
I don't understand why.
And I think most were prone to cheating.
Not girls I would want in my life.
Who knows, maybe it is the bad ones that leave Poland because of the morality pressure in Poland.

But I can say that I found almost all of them physically attractive.
Good faces and bodies.

And they had a very strong work ethic.

Love / My Perfect Love Story so I thought [73]

Good and educational story.

This woman sounds like a witch.
While you were thinking of your future together with her, she was thinking of herself.
And she deceived two men at once?
She had another man for five months and you found out from the other man?
And she calls herself a Christian?
I don't think so.
Many Polish Girls claim they are Christian just to fit into their culture.
But once they get outside the culture the actions and words speak for themselves.

It is better that this happened now before any children were born.
Or before you based any type of citizenship on your marriage with her.

Interestingly and truthfully, I know a Muslim Man from Pakistan.
He had a Polish Love Interest and was proceeding much like you.
But they both lived in England so he could visit her and see her in person.
And then one day unexpected to him, she told him she loved another man and she moved in with the other man.
My friend tried to reason with her but to no avail.
So he left the situation and dealt with the despair.
Then around a year later, she called him.
She got pregnant by the other guy and the other guy left her.
Suddenly her "Catholic" Principles kicked in.
She decided she did not want an abortion.
She moved back to Poland to be with her family.
She called my Pakistan Friend and told him about her situation and tried to get him to help her.
She actually expected him to ride in like a hero and take care of her and her baby that she had by another man.
But by now, even the sound of her voice made my friend want to vomit, so he hung up the phone on her.
Then she called him again and threatened to kill herself.
He decided not to take her calls any more so he never knew what happened to her.

For you, you sound like a decent guy but a little naive.

A Muslim Man from Pakistan with a European Woman?
Sounds like a miserable existence.
Interfaith marriages have a much higher probability to fail.
Would she convert to your faith?
And where would you live?
Europe?
Europe is secular.
Especially Belgium.
And Poland is becoming secular.

Many Europeans hate Muslims and are afraid of them.

Look at the some of the comments you received on this forum.
It should tell you something.

If you had children, which religion would they be?

Did you speak with your family about this girl?

And one last thing.
If this woman tries to contact you, maybe better not to answer her.
Polish Girls outside Poland can be very naive.
It is quite possible this man will use her a while then cast her aside.

It is quite possible if she contacts you she will be in despair but will try not to show it.
She will try to make you feel sorry for her.
Or try to use you to make the other guy jealous to get a marriage out of him or money out of him.

Be happy it happened sooner than later and use it to build better character for yourself.

News / Does Poland count in Europe or is it ignored? [427]


I did not know this Pawian.
It is very bad news for me.
I wonder if the trend is positive or negative in terms or percentages.
Here in Czech Republic the trend is get more people out of prison and focus more on rehabilitation.
But I don't want to take your thread in another direction.

I was thinking of another similar question to yours.
If Poland is being ignored in Europe, should it care?
I say it should not care.
Because I think it is possible that Poland had a better culture and a more unique culture in many ways than other European Countries.
Maybe it is better that Poland should not care if it is being ignored.
Personally, I really liked what Poland stood for.
I can't stand to see it changing and losing its identity.

Love / I can't trust Polish women any longer - where to meet a foreign girl? [123]

Hi trismegistos,

Sounds like a common problem in many countries.
You simply may not be compatible with the women in your country for many reasons.
It might actually be a good thing.

I would like to discuss this more with you in private email.
But not here on the boards.

Let me know here is you would want to speak about this in a private chatroom or through email.

Love / What is your opinion on the Polish Ladies in Krakow? [82]


Hi Dave,

I think you are from the UK.
So you should be an expert on men desperate for women, yes?

Are you familiar with the term "social Biotchification?"
Social Biotchification is a psychological disease of men who come from from matriarchal countries like the UK.
Below are some symptoms of "social biotchification."

1) Posting gay looking photos of oneself on websites in an attempt to gain the attention of females.
2) Talking tough to try to impress females.
3) Using the colloquialisms from one's country to try to impress females.
4) Doing anything to get a woman, including stealing one from another man or worse, from one's mate.
5) Flamboyant hairstyles by the man. Basically something that he can shake and wag to attract a female's attention. Much like a rooster or peacock would do to attract a mate.

Here is a good simple proxy to measure the level of a man's social biothcification.
The more flamboyant the man's hairstyle, the more socially biotchified he is.

UK has had strong queens for a long time.
And it still does.
So men from the UK that are infected by social biotchification really cannot be totally blamed for their behavior.

Most of the time the poor man's behavior can be explained as him trying to impress a strong, domineering female who could

care less about him.

Sometimes it was even his mother who didn't care about him and was never impressed with anything he did.

Not even his first *** *** in the toilet!

So the man goes through life trying and trying and trying to impress females.

But to no avail...

Quite sad actually.

A similar situation currently exists in the USA.
So the UK Men are not alone.

In its extreme form, social biotchification gives men the appearance of being gay.
Some even speak as if they feminine.

Why?
Because they think this is what the women want.

So I hope this helps.

Hi Justysia,

If you have an interest I know some young guys here in Prague that might be interested in you. Nice passive guys that will let you dominate them and run their lives.

Or at least let you think you do...

But it could be good to ease up on the Prozac Smile.
It might scare the guys away.

And the guys will want to know.
Are you Polish or British?
Or do you know?

New English Phrase for the day: "Wannabee Westerner"

PS: I will give you a good price for the introduction service.

take care

Love / What is your opinion on the Polish Ladies in Krakow? [82]

pgtx: nice try but it's all bull5it... not a surprise from you... just do me a favor and don't show up in Krakow, as i've said before... i stay by that even more now...

Hi pgtx.

Two last questions if you don't mind.

Would you consider yourself a typical Krakow Girl?
Would you consider yourself a typical Polish Girl?

thanks in advance

Love / What is your opinion on the Polish Ladies in Krakow? [82]


Only in your opinion.

And certainly you made some comments didn't you.

I think you did not have much discipline when you were young.

Or now, too many people around you let you get your way.

Hard for you to take responsibility, yes?

You like to blame others, yes?

Especially when you don't have anything intelligent to say.