Life / Well You visited and/or lived in Poland, tell us what its like. [41]


thanks,, nice positive for a change.. even though we know not everything is
perfect :)

Life / Well You visited and/or lived in Poland, tell us what its like. [41]


I think that people are just like this in general.. to everyone you are a stranger
and you might not appear dangerous, but your still a stranger.. and until there
is a formal hello and introduction.. it happens in every city..


anyone that you think we should hear about :)

I really think just from reading Raina's post the only difference is that maybe
you see more traditional culture ( like food, dancing, & such ) that Poland
wouldnt be any harder to live or visit then where i live..

I think someone from a southern state iin the united states would have a
harder time with the not so friendly folks, but I dont believe its them not being
friendly, I think its more of a cautious/keep your guard up thing.. because
someone in New York has a better chance at being robbed vs someone who
lives in the woods and same in Poland only probably it doesnt matter because
they have more country, small towns so they are just cautious..

our family was always welcoming, so I think the dirty looks are caution looks
because utimately we are the protectors of our property and when you dont
know someone , your whole comfort level changes.. least this is how I feel around
someone I dont know... trust is something you build and earn.. its really not
given..

USA, Canada / bigotry against pollacks in the usa by communist party leaders [6]


your also wrongfully generalizing.

im american, I dont antagonize.,, could you be more specific.
if I do antagonize, its only someone who might have Pi**ed me off first
by calling me a antagonizer..

Law / Poland -One of the fastest growing economies [28]


I think the Eu has enough patience to know that it takes a while before
you start profiting... every investment begins with loss. and poland seems
to be gaining..

but yas didnt answer my full question of will American Business suffer?

Someone I spoke with the other day says the economy is not suffering here
its a scare tatic to get people to freak out so they will spend.. go buy
alot of canned /non perishables and other stuff.. buy gas.. but really the
Oil giants are just raking in the dough..sitting back making up excuses.

I personally think it will because the big man is chewing his face to spite his
nose.. or however thats said.. hes screwing the driver not the car..

USA, Canada / POLISH PEOPLE IN CT.... [21]


can you walk and chew gum at the same time too?

Polonia / German nation - degradation or just deviation? Your opinions? [66]



um her children wouldnt notice anything if they were in the fridge already..
ewwwwwww.

Love / Pornographic Polish magazines [65]

lol it doesnt mean thats what they would do.. anyway she should prob just
talk with him and asking does work !!

Love / Pornographic Polish magazines [65]


thats kinda what I thought too.. maybe he is hinting around.
church is a place to go for prayer..

I am actually surprised at your post.. because when you marry someone
you dont use the sponsering him as your leverage to stop him from being a man.
he is human. part of the human needs pleasure.. this helps create the bond..

Love / Pornographic Polish magazines [65]


I am traumatized just reading this. I have heard some way out their stories..
if that was a true story, that would be sick.. and mental.

Love / Pornographic Polish magazines [65]


lmao.. agree.. and doesnt some types of cactus contain a numbing agent?
lol...

Love / Pornographic Polish magazines [65]


what were you expecting?


these are normal for all men who like women, not for those who like men.. lol


maybe he is trying to tell you something and your not smelling the coffee..
better get a big grip on it and find out from him instead of trying to dissect
it with us.. I am sure he can give you more communication.

which is how you fix things.

History / germany prepares for invasion of Poland [43]


Thanks.. :)

sorry guys,, i try to not post double or make a thread twice,, so thnks plk for
bringin that up.

Love / Will he have an affair with me? [17]


I think you should find your own man.. many married men are settled, but that
dont mean he will go for you if he does then you can thank yourself for tempting
him And probaly busting up a happy home.. if its business then stick with business..

stop being so lazy and find your own..

Life / How to deal with rude rich Polish people? [65]



Thank you.. I didnt have to deal with rude people.. but trying to get
thru the teenage syndrome with both girls..

Have to get to work, but Thanks both of ya :)

have a great day to everyone ;0)

Life / How to deal with rude rich Polish people? [65]




The three of you have made my day.. now that I have read your sad stories :)

I can carry on :))) LOL

*SMILES BIG*

Life / How to deal with rude rich Polish people? [65]


Rocky.. tell you GF to say to them.. or even you.. they should remember whos
back sweated to put them thru college and remember where they came from.

my reaction to people who say mean things is.. well. you can wear it because
it was a gift or I can help you stick it where the sun dont shine!!!

or.. ha ha,, here is my fav.. you dont like it? ok, I will take it back.. no prob
I will make sure to send you a toast on your wedding night..

and I will say,, thanks for the 300 bucks ya saved me.. thats how you deal
with rude people. gimmie back my card too.. lmao

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]


that is why I wrote the above.. and said its easy to make assumptions
for everyone.. its a public forum and you gave a brief description of your
relationship.. you said a gift is a gift.. but I disagree when it comes to
situations like he described.. she came back and she knew she wasnt
going to stay with him , she was pushing him away.

she should have stepped up to the plate and said, I am sorry that this gift
you bought is way to much, and I do not feel the same as you do now.
I need space to figure out my life.. she knew, and she still took it. to me thats
wrong.

we all know gifts are gifts, but we all know also that people take advantage
of people.. its part of the truth of life and I cant stand people like this.. because
they are only out to hurt others..I have watched my friends give, someone they
really care about, and only to be shot down.. and this gift was given with every
ounce of their heart. but they took their heart and trashed it.

thats where I am coming from.


you took the post wrong. I said I think any person.. I didnt say I think you!!
I was explaining my thoughts on the situation. and still will say that I think
the same.. any gift that is so expensive and is such a huge gift like a necklace
shouldnt be kept on false pretense.. she knew she was going to end it.
she shouldnt accept something like that with no feelings for him at all.

I couldnt even wear a necklace like that with the subconsious thought always
there of how I took it and it meant nothing to me but did to that other person.
thats nothing but false and lies.

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

I dont know what happened to the above post, but it was not directed at
eddie19 in that form .

as for his GF I said it before , I do hope things are not what they seem. we
are on a forum not actually knowing these people its very easy to just make
assumptions and be on with it, but of course people with real concern and passion will respond and try to help and thats ok, we all do what we have to

in our lives to help others.. I am sure each and everyone who posted in here
came in with good intentions..

hopefully again..they united as they were and she found some comfort in
having his presence in her life to help her heal her loss. we all know things
like this make us crazy and sometimes we dont think properly and with that
I have compassion, but I will stick with my feelings on how people do take
from others and take advantage and unfortunately in my opinion accepting
something so meaningful deserves some thought.. would you or would you not
accept a gift fully knowing that you will be taking from someone who lives and
breathes for your every moment and you are not feeling these mutual feelings?

my answer is no.. this is why people become so angry after you break up
because they feel taken advantage of. so the circle never ends..

Eddie19 I wish you all the best and hope everything is well again.

Genealogy / Luranc/Lorans surname [17]

will do judy

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]


well if you didnt have a relationship and you didnt
leave it on bad terms I am sure you would smile if you have the money to burn
some people dont, maybe this was his savings he had and he decided to buy her
this gift to lighten the burden..her fully knowing she wanted to break it off makes
the gift nothing.. because she didnt accept it from him as his love, she took the
gift and stomped on his heart.. is that proper? should he laugh it off.. smile
when she wears it fully knowing that she might wear it to a event with someone
else?

so she takes the gift and says now beat it?did u say that to the producer?
no, you probably went out a few more times right?? was it dating? or relationship?
there is a difference.

NOpe.. I still say give it back, dont accept things in which you cannot fully
return some kind of gracious feelings, its wrong!!!


it doesnt sound like this was a long term relationship and if he
was hot shot it doesnt seem like he would worry to much about money..
maybe he was lying to you to make you think he was big shot and trying to get
more out of you .. your situation isnt the same either way.


he gave her a gift with the full intentions of spending his life with her and she
knew she was going to break it off, she was acting different towards him and
sorry to say but a real woman wouldnt take advantage of a man that way.
especially if she knows that her love isnt mutual,, she wanted space.. he gave
the gift thinking maybe to take her mind off things ( like losing her dad) but of
course she took it then said see ya later !! he didnt know she was going to call
it quits..
I think any person who does things like this is undeserving,. it only shows how
materialistic and sad they have become.. we didnt come into this world with
jewels on our fingers and necks.. and a stupid piece of gold means nothing to
a person if it doesnt hold some type of meaning..

UK, Ireland / Teenagers attack a Polish deli in Trowbridge, UK [27]


stupidity at its best..

There is no excuse for this kind of behavior.

Genealogy / Contacting Parafia s. Jacobi for birth and baptism information [2]

you will have to write a letter to them.. if you want someone to translate
a letter for you, that can be done here, or use the links provided in the genealogy
part to write to the church..

I asked for copies of everything with one surname. and recieved 60 copies
for this one name. I sent in a very significant donation to the church for
their time.. so in other words 20.00$ U.S. wont cut it.. that dont cover the
bank fees hardly.

News / Why does Poland love the US? [144]

Franek , you are amazing person and dont forget that. I think these guys could
learn alot more from you then they ever could from a book..its what people
lived thru that tells history, in books your getting the brief summary of years of
war.. the truth lies with those who lived thru it and each story is their own and
none can be wrong because its how they lived through it to tell of it today !!!

Genealogy / Czaponis surname [10]

errrr.. they live in the United states .. I dont want the relatives in lithuania now..

Im not researching this name for myself..its to find the family in the U.S.
living relatives now.. which I have one lead.

Genealogy / Czaponis surname [10]


Gee thanks I think.. I just want to find the family so I can do what is right.
course that might take me a lifetime at this rate.. lol just a average yank with
Polish blood.. :)

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]


Eddie, I am glad you came online for some insight and help.

we all hope things get better for you.. really. :)

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]


well what the heck is she going to do after she is married? divorce and tell that
person she needs space so that she can come to terms with life and death?
we all know its hard to lose someone.. and some might need more help then
others.. if she needs some type of counseling for grief/greiving process maybe
that should be mentioned.. pushing the ones you love away during this time
is/can be normal to extent. taking a 1200.00 necklace is tacky in my opinion.
and I would tell her so if I was one of her relatives..mean and tacky.

be an honest woman.


it isnt hers anyway because he gave it to the woman he loves .
but that love isnt mutual.. therefore it dont belong to her.. and how dare her
take advantage of his vunerability fully knowing his feelings are strong and hers
arent!


Bingo !


ok so you now have puppet strings.. how far do you get pulled?
sorry eddie, but if your going to give space.. be firm about what your doing.
get the necklace ( soon as possible) so you can least get your money back.
tell her your sorry, she needs space so thats what your doing,.. and let her
have alot of space month or so.. to think and tell her, what would she have
done if you were married? thats why people call it support system.. you have
a BF, sisters, brothers, husbands, etc.. and when she is ready she will either
call or move on.. but meantime.. dont be that cake sitting in the fridge ok?

the term CAKE and Eat it too.. keeping you hangin while she is doing whatever
its either together or not.. and if thats not the case, then if she is comfortable
with that you take the necklace and put it away till she is ready to come back
then see her reaction.. if she says why cant I keep it.. then tell her after her
greiveing is thru and she is ready to be fully with you then she can have it.

make sense?