giving my unwanted 2 Cents....he is abit like me!
You contribution, far from unwanted, is most welcome.
The inherited belief you refer to of Heaven being a happy place where we all join hands and sing Kumbaya, is a somewhat simplistic idea, not really what theology teaches, not the theology of Catholicism anyway. We don't really have the right words or language to express what Heavenly joy is like, but I know everything will be just as it is meant to be, and may well be different for each of us. As you say, Bratty, we don't know :) It definitely is first and foremost a place of love and a place where one's consciousness can grow much further than it can on earth.
Be open, Novi....a wild ride awaits us! :)
I'll quote Peter Pan again (the original Peter from J.M. Barrie's book and the play) "To die will be an awfully big adventure."
As dear St Francis of Assisi rightly said:
"For it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life."