but will avoid talk of any man
No,they talk about men.The difference is that they talk about men with more respect than the average man.For example a man may talk about the masturbator or the idiot he met yesterday but women seldom use such expressions to describe men.
On the other hand women's opinion about other women is much lower than men's.For example the hottie with the boobsballs in men's descriptions becomes a cow in women's stories.So there is really a difference.To find out the real value and intentions of women of the environment I listen carefully to women's opinions which are way more realistic.