I don't know how i can be more clear, I have shown him affection, we went out a few times, but I feel that he does not feel the same that I do about him. He is a very sweet and wonderful guy, we have a connection, but we haven't officially said that we were an item. and i feel like i am pitting more effort towrds the "realtionship" there is another problem, I only see him once a wek becasue he lives very far away. I need some advice and I hope that you can help me.
but I just want to tell him that i have feelings for him, but i don't want to sound wired and desperate. or if there is a way that I could show him that I like him that would be a good thing. I have done a few things like made him cookies, bought him chocolates ect... i wonder of it is me or if he in not interested then I want to move on
I know what you mean Filios1, I am also crap at giving advice about relationships. Just leave them be. Interesting the difference between the male and female responses so far ;)
i wonder of it is me or if he in not interested then I want to move on
Love yourself first girl then someone else, don't make him your life, you'll end you getting hurt, like him even alot but dont look like you can't live without him, that'll make him like you less, calm down just go with the flow, believe me you'll see it when he's serious about you. good luck
Well I was honest he wasnt sure about a relationship so I just plain out told him that I liked him and for us to try it and so now we are going to have a try at it. just plain talking and being honest will work.
He just could not be into you. And he just doesn't want to see it, that is why he is ignoring your advances.
Or he could be clueless. Either way just tell him. Say I really like you. Or I think I'm falling for you. Be honest. If you don't know each other long. Don't do this. Just be natural and flirt. If you are good friends, then tell him how you feel. If he is a good guy and he likes you or doesn't, it is fine. Friendship is fine too.
I have a polish guy, although born in Australia, he is definately Polish through and through, but very nervous and shy around me and doesnt knwo what he wants....I am getting scared this is a posible Polish trait :s
I don't know how i can be more clear, I have shown him affection, we went out a few times, but I feel that he does not feel the same that I do about him.
perhaps your outlook is too much socialistic, Polish man likes free marketry and other nonsenses
if there is a way that I could show him that I like him
by showing him your commitment to the entire collective and a healthy socialisitic mindframe you will win over any comrade true! North Korea girls, well-versed in art of Juche and other noble principle, can demonstrate proficiency in twirling baton, marching with straight back and maintain cheerful smile which showes duty to working peoples, and marksmanship. consider these attributes of personal character and you will be suceess.
Just tell 'ski that you'd like to take him out to dinner. (he'll bite, pun intended). Ply him with slightly too much wine and be your friendly self. Later, tell him you had a wonderful evening.
Just do the same thing as you would with anyone else. Flirtation first, if that doesn't work then be more direct. My ex tried flirting with me and it didn't work and she had to literally invite me to join her in bed one night before i realised she was interested.
