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My wife has been secretly sending money back to Poland


master 17 | 22    
6 Dec 2013  #1
Just found out my wife is sending money back to Poland behind my back and am having to pay most of the bills in our house
Marek11111 9 | 817    
6 Dec 2013  #2
well it is what it is, I do not know your situation but I would like to know what was the reason?
OP master 17 | 22    
6 Dec 2013  #3
she always say she has not got a lot of money when it come to holidays and bills she works and brings home £1000 pound per month
Marek11111 9 | 817    
6 Dec 2013  #4
did you confront her about it?
ShawnH 8 | 1,500    
6 Dec 2013  #5
master, it may be time to re-consider if you are in a healthy relationship...
Marek11111 9 | 817    
6 Dec 2013  #6
wow someone has problems, at this point I would say no wife no problem.
ShortHairThug - | 1,103    
6 Dec 2013  #7
Call me old fashion but the master of the house always pays his bill, there's a different name for a man that has women working for him. Perhaps it's time to reconsider your nick or simply stop Trolling.
1172ftj 6 | 17    
6 Dec 2013  #8
I am sorry you are in this situation but I would honestly say you are being walked all over. Maybe try to walk out on her and see how she reacts, you'll know her true intentions based on her reaction.

You will feel down about it no doubt but in the bigger picture it is the best you can do. You seem like a good respectful guy there is a girl who will be greatful to have a guy like you instead of disrespect you. I am sure you have more self respect for yourself than you are showing yourself. This is a good leaening experience for next time. I really wish you the best.
4 eigner 2 | 847    
  7 Dec 2013  #9
Call me old fashion but the master of the house always pays his bill,

maybe you'll be surprised but I tend to agree with you here. My wife never had to work but if she did, she'd be eligible (she would be in any case and she wouldn't have to hide it, either) to help out her parents, to begin with. When you get married, your wife's family becomes yours and the other way around.
peterweg 36 | 2,322    
8 Dec 2013  #10
Why was my post removed?
Meathead 5 | 473    
8 Dec 2013  #11
she always say she has not got a lot of money when it come to holidays and bills she works and brings home £1000 pound per month

Small potatoes. My wife works and pays very few of the bills. It's just the way it is. Why quibble over the little stuff. The money I make is in a joint account, the money she makes is in her account. But who cares, I don't.
Crow 145 | 7,320    
  8 Dec 2013  #12
Just found out my wife is sending money back to Poland behind my back and am having to pay most of the bills in our house

that is very simple situation. You should immediately start to send your money on a secret location, behind back of `your` wife.

Plus, don`t try to seduce her. Give up, be happy and just play the game (eventually she would also want to prolong game). What to tell you man, marriage as institution is fatal for love and after some 10 years in a marriage, as one friend of mine said, when you jump at your wife its like that you jump on your own brother.
delphiandomine 85 | 17,470    
8 Dec 2013  #13
that is very simple situation. You should immediately start to send your money on a secret location, behind back of `your` wife.

Very wise advice from Crow here.


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